Just saw a weird email from my gf's ex to my gf

lietruth · 2017-05-10T20:06:36+00:00

Context wise, it's hard to believe that the email would come out of the blue.

Especially since people text/fb/what's app now and not email. Emails for shit that's private and confidential. The email was clearly a follow up to something that was going down before. When you smell smoke you think of a fire. Not sure if she's telling the truth or not. What's her track record, ever caught lying before?

SkorchZang · 2017-05-11T00:56:33+00:00

But she seemed so sincere, so cute. That's the smile of a dolphin, man. We look at the dolphin and its physiology makes us think it's smiling, but that dolphin may as well be pissed as hell, plotting how to kill you. It'll still look like it's sincere and smiling to our compromised brains.

EinReichEinVolk · 2017-05-10T20:18:23+00:00

Ghost this stupid bitch, she doesn't even deserve to be dumped

askmrcia · 2017-05-10T22:00:12+00:00

My golden rule for advice on LTRs when they post it on here:

If you have to ask advice on your relationship on this sub, then deep down inside you know its over. Trust your gut.

You can try and hamster it all you want saying you never had any problems and all that jazz, but everyone that has commented here has been through was you've been through before. The writing is on the wall. You can either end the relationship or plate her and talk to other women.

Its up to you. The crying and apologizing that she does, again we all been there when a woman cries and all of that. That is a guilt trip they do. Don't fall for it and move on.

walawalawa · 2017-05-10T23:57:30+00:00

You got together very quickly after a guy dumped her.

She was devastated after her breakup and really loved this fuck, she promises they have never seen or talked to each other at all since we started dating, but ...

...You're the white-knight rescuer rebound guy.

Girls who bounce from one relationship to another never fully recover. They end up bringing their mess and baggage to the next one.

You also got too emotionally involved too quickly.

The way out of this is to pull back...not to punish her but to get your own head straight.

She is in contact....whatever she told you about blocking or whatever is a lie.

Now you're panicking and realizing you may be cucked with Chad waiting in the wings.

Based on the what you've told us, I can predict with 98% certainty that if you ghost, disappear, soft-next....she'll run over to Chad in two seconds..."Just to talk".

Find a way that you can pull the plug and drop this girl. It won't end well if you continue.

She's bringing out the worst in you: paranoid, angry, anxious....

Rockefeller342 · 2017-05-11T00:27:53+00:00

Haha holy fuck. The dudes on TRP literally just saved your life.

[deleted] · 2017-05-10T21:09:44+00:00

This is easy. She didn't think to block email? She only thought to block the stuff that is easy for a new beau to stumble into?

The scientific term for that is "bullshit".

Trickle truth incoming. Fasten up your headbelt.

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-05-11T02:01:14+00:00

Women never completely get rid of their exes.
She's not yours it's just your turn. Drop her today.

Docbear64 · 2017-05-10T20:37:35+00:00

It's not scientific , it's not definite, it's not absolute but I'm a firm believer that if you're gut is telling you that something is wrong then something is wrong .

I would be careful about becoming too attached to a chick who left one relationship she was deeply invested in to jump into a new one . That's how you get those conversations where women say that they're " confused" and need time to figure out what they want. She wasn't alone long enough to let the last relationship die so I would bet money she still has some type of feelings for him .

At the end of the day though we're just strangers on the internet , but like YOU said something in your gut doesn't feel right .

trprdtor · 2017-05-10T22:02:54+00:00

If you just brushed it off she shouldn't have a reason to start crying and become emotional unless something is up. He's been balls deep into her a few times since you got together with her for sure.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-05-11T06:09:00+00:00

Man, you are hamstering, etc., to try to find an outcome where she isn't a Lying Liar Who Lies, because you still have some bluepill in you and because your dick really likes her pussy.

You know how you come to askTRP and you read a post where you think, "Man, that poor dumb fuck is completely in denial about what a lying ass bitch his girl is"? Well, this time, it's you.

Your best move is "Ghost.That.Bitch"

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-11T03:59:45+00:00

Now the red pill has been forced up your butt since I didn't want to swallow it. There are no good girls left on this planet, so STOP getting into LTRs. They really are all hoes.

DiggerClam · 2017-05-10T23:04:25+00:00

"Blocked him on ERRRRRRYTHAN!"

Bullshit.

Girls are dumb as fuck, they don't know how to block numbers on their phones.
They won't ever block someone they are/were attracted to, they love the validation. Block them yourself on their phone.
Why even have go through this shit; next her.

vandaalen · 2017-05-10T20:29:13+00:00

How long did you fuck her before you chose to get into a serious relationship with her?

I suppose you are up for some trickle truth here. I'd introduce some dread game to her and watch what unfolds.

TheGatesOfValhalla · 2017-05-10T22:54:17+00:00

Are you in a "committed" relationship with her?

If so, why? You've only known her 3 months and she is 1.5 months out of a LTR. She is literally using you for a rebound and probably also as an emotional tampon.

If your relationship isn't committed, then you better go start spinning some other plates for Christs sake.

Also, fuck her better

Cycix · 2017-05-11T05:08:21+00:00

Just end it. Don't even ask for closure. Nothing. I made that mistake and I'll never make that mistake again. From now on, she doesn't exist.

beginner_ · 2017-05-11T08:22:42+00:00

1.5 month after a 3 year relationship. Dude. That's called a rebound and will never lead to something serious. But I guess you learned that lesson now.

terrapin12345 · 2017-05-11T12:59:02+00:00

Damn

Hit me right in the feels imagining this for you and imagining what has happened to me I didn't know about.

Imagine outside of romantic relationships. How often do you see or hearing something weird and your immediate impression is just really off? It's rare and so why is it different with women? It's not.

Also a lesson is how easily she convincingly lied to you. And how she fought tooth and nail not to tell the truth.

ThePwnter · 2017-05-11T12:59:23+00:00

Remember woman are cunning liars that can use crying and emotions as tool. Always judge her by her actions. She played you by continually cheating on you. Hard Next her and move on.

El_Serpiente_Roja · 2017-05-11T15:34:03+00:00

Like the other guy said...if you eben have to bring up your ltr in a place like this then its already over.

asktrpthrow123 · 2017-05-11T19:35:46+00:00

You're not a boyfriend, you're a plate. I assume you know what needs to be done?

Psychocist · 2017-05-11T12:20:27+00:00

The bigger question is - why is she anything but a plate after only 3 months? Sounds like you became a little too invested too quickly AND she was rebounding. What the hell did you expect?

I know here we seem to cling to any evidence we find of how deceptive women are.. but really.. just sounds like common sense.

exemptme · 2017-05-11T14:03:10+00:00

Risk raising a child that's not even yours? No thank you.

Title	Just saw a weird email from my gf's ex to my gf
Author	terrapin12345
Upvotes	50
Comments	75
Date	May 10, 2017 8:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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