I first came to TRP in early 2014 and it was like a lightbulb went off in my head. It all made sense. I always had the natural SMV, I just had shitty game and too many blue pilled mindsets and views about women.
Anyway in 2014 I moved to another state for my main job, but took a part time job on the side bartending/serving at a brand new restaurant right by a major college campus. So I had about 75 co-workers who were young college students and we opened the restaurant together, the place was a literal Tinderbox. And because I was older, bigger, wiser and better looking than most of the guys there, I was easily in the Top 2 at worst male employees there. I applied the TRP knowledge I had learned to that point(while ignoring the don't shit where you eat rule) and it was like shooting fish in a barrel. I brought my n-count from 2 to 13 in just a couple of months.
Those first two months were great and at the time I had no idea why "Don't shit where you eat" was a rule since everything was working out great for me. I had plates, and a lot of my female coworkers(and their friends who didn't work there) desired me. Not only that but the job was great too, I did so well I made more money there than I did at my main job, got employee of the month the first 3 months we were open and was considered the best employee so I got all the good shifts and sections.
This is where most men stop. When men here on TRP are tempted to break the "Don't shit where you eat" rule, they only see short term. They never see long term and do not foresee the longer term consequences. They are just in the now and hamster up rationalizations to why it can work for them and why their situation is different.
Here is a list of various consequences that you may run into if you decide to shit where you eat.
ESCALATION = HARRASMENT
Think of various shit tests, a lot of ways you pass said shit tests can be considered harrassment. Same with kino and physical touching and escalation. While you won't get in trouble doing this at a bar or some non-work environment, in a work environment it is risky and can land you in trouble. It got me in trouble because of the....
THE ANGRY UGLY
The angry ugly is one reason why you shouldn't shit where you eat. The angry ugly are basically lower SMV women you work with who are jealous of the higher SMV women there and jealous that you give them attention. Think bitter feminist type. These women will try to wreck you. Anyway one Angry Ugly got me suspended for a week in August 2014 because she ratted me out to a manager because I was "harrassing" another female employee with a passed shit test and physical touching(grabbed her ass), even though the female employee I was touching and passing shit tests to was totally OK with it.
THE ANGRY BOYFRIEND
I had one jealous angry boyfriend(later turned ex) of a girl I fucked that I had to deal with while on the shift multiple occassions. He would come in, ask to sit in my section with his buddies, and just try to fuck me over. When our managers caught onto this, they banned him from the establishment, where he vandalized my car in the parking lot on numerous occassions(joke was on him as I was getting a new car a couple months later). The last straw was where he just wanted to throw down and fight me in the parking lot one night as I was walking in to work. I ignored him, went inside where he came in and just started destroying shit until the cops came in and arrested him. All because I fucked his girl. When you work somewhere, these bitter guys know the location where you will be at certain times and can come harass you. It's all a bunch of unneeded
DRAMA
It's not worth the drama. Having banged about a dozen female co-workers, they were all aware of what was going on and like women do, compete with each other and get jealous. It's like high school all over again and they will go to great lengths. I fucked a host-turned-server who was about an HB7. Blonde hair, big tits, good body but always had to be the center of attention, loud mouth, and kind of stupid. Because I fucked her a couple times and spent the night at her place one night she thought I was her boyfriend I guess and began to treat me as such. Would rub all over me on shifts and smother me infront of everyone else. She would get ultra jealous any time I talked to other women and bitch about it. So one night I just had to black knight her and tell her firmly "WE ARE NOT TOGETHER. I AM NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND."
HR/MANAGEMENT WILL ALWAYS TAKE THE WOMAN'S SIDE
Of course she plays victim immediately and goes into the managers office where she was a manager's favorite and make me out to be the evil one where I got shamed. Every time there was drama the girls go into the office, cry into the managements arms and they would always get the benefit of the doubt. A couple days later came the
FALSE RAPE ACCUSATIONS
In October 2014 this girl accused me of rape, obviously out of anger from me black knighting her. Not only was I fired immediately despite being the best employee there, but I was possibly facing criminal charges. Fortunately everyone rallied to my defense and was able to convince her to drop it, knowing it was a bunch of bunk. I got rehired but it caused me to miss nearly 2 weeks of work and it was never really the same once I returned. I vowed to only stick to one woman at the restaurant, my best plate, an HB8 who played soccer for the university nearby. Great athletic body, perfect eyes, only thing lacking was breasts. This arrangement worked for a couple months until December 2014 where I ran into
THE WHITE KNIGHTS
Just sticking to one woman had allowed the female jealousy and drama to taper off, but the male jealousy was as strong as ever. The White Knight is different from the angry boyfriend from earlier because this white knight was a beta pussy. He had the hots for the plate I had at the restaurant and was mad she picked me. I had had to deal with other beta white knight employees during my time here, but none like this one because those were easy to deal with. The problem with this one is that this white knight was also a manager. So he had the authority to fuck me over, and did just that. He would assign me to shitty sections and shifts, change my shifts on me without knowing or any time to change my schedule to accomidate it, treat me like shit, ignore my requests for assistance when I needed a manager, etc. I thought the tables had turned when I caught him dealing drugs/selling alcohol to our 16 year old hosts in the walk in one night. I now had blackmail on him, but he was able to one up me again by convincing another female employee to cry about (what else) harrassment to the district manager. I got fired for a second time the next day and me trying to take him down with me failed because my drug/alcohol accusations were just dismissed as sour grapes.
White Knights are the land mines if you shit where you eat. Beta white knights naturally get jealous of the Chad who scores with the women and like crabs in a bucket will try to tear you down in a similar vein to the Angry Ugly that I described above.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT
I had a good thing going. I had a side job where I made good money, was the top employee and was treated very well by the management and the customers. I threw it all away because I decided to shit where I ate. And this was just a restaurant, where such behavior is common. Imagine how this all would have played out in a more professional setting. 10 times worse.
It's not worth it. Don't shit where you eat.
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