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What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?

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November 24, 2018

There was a post here recently showing how women respond to weakness, and blue pill behaviour.

How about the flip side. What success have you guys seen applying red pill theory in real life?

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Title What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?
Author Rkingpin
Upvotes 68
Comments 92
Date 24 November 2018 01:41 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]KilluaKanmuru60 points61 points  (14 children) | Copy

She makes me food. She just does alot of things for me and backs me up. I'm thankful.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (13 children) | Copy

LTR or plate

[–]IFuckingHateAllergy13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not OP but I had something like this. It was a plate. She did all of that so she could be upgraded to LTR.

[–]KilluaKanmuru14 points15 points  (11 children) | Copy

LTR. Understanding DEER vs DARE and this quote: "A guy told me one time, "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner." Really keeps my relationship with her solid. We meditate too -- it's invaluable.

[–]AwakenedSovereign7 points8 points  (8 children) | Copy

To rephrase this:

Never LTR a girl you cannot immediately and easily replace.

[–]Velebit3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy

People of high value are difficult to find and replace, why limit youself to low value women just to have a sort of power advantage over them?

[–]AwakenedSovereign2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

"just to have a sort of power advantage over them"

If you do not already have a power advantage over them, then your LTR is not going to work. Because it isn't your LTR. It's hers.

InB4 - but women know how to value & respect men even when they are less valuable than them, right? And honor the sanctity of their relationship/marriage even though the man is weaker. HAH.

The rest of what you said is just hamstering. AF/BB. You are either the Captain or you are not. If you are not 1st you are last.

If you dislike the quality of women that you can easily replace... work on your value. You should know by now it is possible for a man to ascend to incredible heights. Joan of Arcs fall to their knees for the right man (not that she would ever admit it).

[–]Velebit-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

You are taking a purist attitude on female hypergamy in a sense that the only way a relationship can work is if a man has a power advantage and that is some cookie cutter one size fits all bullshit.

Sex js about reproduction and reproduction is about genes and genes are about mutations, rarities and special traits. My grand grandmother got disowned by her rich aristocratic family because she did not want to break the bond she got from the first guy a mere peasant she fell in love with, she was a looker too. If my grand grandpa followed your rules and avoided her because he can't easily replace a rich noblewoman and because she is higher in status, I would not be here. Fuck your retarded pragmatism. Bullets, and iron and fire and bayonetes for you and your cynical intellectual cancer. Just like my granpa gave you lot in wwii.

There are plenty of other examples like that woman who is rich but keeps spending all her money on a violent boyfriend who keeps ending in jail for various bullshit like DUI etc she is with him for ages.

[–]AwakenedSovereign4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

This highlights your lack of understanding.

The badboys that rich women spend money on have the upper hand. Clear as day because you can see the value being siphoned from the one to the other. Maybe that is hard to grasp because the things society tells you are valuable (money) are not what Natural Law values (strength, size, potential for violence).

I don't much care what you believe friend. But these hallowed Halls are a place of enlightenment. If you are unable or unwilling to challenge your own paradigms, then why are you here?

Perhaps you aim to fight TRPs logic. Instead realize TRP is a toolbox. If you don't find utility in a certain truism, then don't use it.

Your concern is misplaced.

[–]Velebit-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is no natural law as you imagine it otherwise small framed, intelligent, disciplined and very 'beta' Romans who dedicate themselves to one woman and mateguard her on point of death would not have conquered hundreds of tribes of tall, strong, individualistic, libertarian and polygamist alpha brutes in Gaul, Germania, Britannia, Iberia, North Africa, Illyria and Balkans, Anatolia and mid east.

Rome went full Eliot Roger on everyone and won. The small nerdy engineer built his smart tools to gene kill brutes. That is the law. That is how humans make bears their toys and neanderthals not breathe any more.

Today I smile every time a report comes of when groups of individually small middle easterners kill some alpha chad in Germany or France or Sweden because individualistic cancer likes to stay apart instead of submit to collectivism and be ants.

The natural law is collectivism.

[–]KilluaKanmuru3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

He's saying that no one is so high value that you can't walk away from them. Essentially, you're always going to be #1 no matter what. You don't settle for less.

[–]Velebit0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You don't think someone like Marie Curie, Cleopatra or Joan of Arc are too unique and valuable to be easily replaced? That just means: whatever a person can offer find a way to diminish it. What a voluntarily sad and paranoid way to live.

[–]KilluaKanmuru4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

We're not talking about diminishing anyone's value here. Women can be fucking amazing. What we're saying is, if she's not working out within your life plan then you will leave her. You shouldn't let her tie you down and stop your from living your dreams if it means leaving her. Also, you're not going to allow her to cheat on you or constantly disrespect you -- if she does these things, leave, no matter how valuable she is. There may come a time where you just don't even flat out like her anymore. You think all of those people you mentioned above were seen as valuable by everyone? No way.

[–]FvckYourSafeSpace 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

That guy’s name is “Neal McCauley” as played by Robert DeNiro in Michael Mann’s epic heist film “Heat.”

[–]friendandadvisor2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, but, Neal heard it from this dude's friend.

[–]HurricaneHugues41 points42 points  (11 children) | Copy

They're way more compliant and I get away with some pretty wild shit now tbh

[–]Rkingpin[S] 10 points11 points  (9 children) | Copy

It's as if being Alpha means the game has different rules haha

[–]HurricaneHugues8 points9 points  (8 children) | Copy

Pretty much. It's a very different reality, that's for sure. I vant imagine how intoxicating it is to be someone like Arnold Schwarzenegger at his prime, or Stallone at his prime.

[–]ReasonablyGoodMexica1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Stallone?! Ha! Imagine bigger bro. Genghis Khan had a conquered a fucking quarter of humanity.

He was so drenched in pussy juice, that 1 out of every 200 men today are direct descendants of his.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

It wasn't voluntary pussy, and the world population was really small at the time.

[–]ReasonablyGoodMexica2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably yes, and definitely yes. World population just above a third of a billion. But that doesn't make his achievements any less remarkable.

The intoxicating feeling you talk about is power. He was a ruler of men and as such, he had a lot of it. Nowadays, most men can't even rule over their own goddamn house.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I think that this is pretty speculative. You can't say that the ruler of the known world had to extort pussy.

[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Do you know anything of world history?

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Some. Undergrad is History.

[–]HurricaneHugues1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Clearly you didn't learn anything if you think all that sex was consensual. Back then it was nothing but conquest, pillaging, and raping. You need a refund for that degree my guy.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm guessing that your sources are pretty well verified?

Hey, wait a fucking minute...haven't you read about SMV? Had you considered that the ruler of the world would be above a 5?

[–]Velebit4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

What can you get away with?

[–][deleted] 32 points33 points  (2 children) | Copy

After my first month of TRP got laid by a chick down the hall.

TRP helped my hold frame, know the signs, and to tease really fucking well.

[–]dream-hunter9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Got tips on teasing? Or a post about it?

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m still only on month 3 of my TRP “awakening” so I’m not an authority on it quite yet. I will certainly make a post when the time comes, I do genuinely enjoy it.

A guess some simple tips would be to tease in a lighthearted way that conveys a sexual undertone. Check and see her response. If she reciprocated you’re doing it right and should keep at it. If she’s offended or blows you off you should either recalibrate your delivery or consider that she just may not be interested. The great thing about teasing as well is that it can be interpreted sexually or non-sexually based on whether she’s interested in you or not.

[–]z2a1-928 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

By being a leader and being the prize you get what you want out of the relationship. TRP is gold!

[–]NiceTryDisaster23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

I can now hold my breath underwater for 4 minutes and 32 seconds

[–]1puck1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's impressive. I'm fairly fit and can barely hold it a minute underwater. Unless this is a joke

[–]SalporinRP17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

There's this false narrative out there that when a guy act Red Pilled in a relationship that it's the guy "winning" and the girl "losing" when that couldn't be further from the truth.

My relationships since I've started applying TRP theory have been much healthier than the ones in my blue pill days. Girls want a guy who acts red pilled.

[–]cudder1780 points81 points  (17 children) | Copy

Went on a date recently and as we were walking on campus I pretty much decided everything to do. Pointing everywhere we were heading, leading the way, where to eat, where to sit and talk.

If she tried to decide something I’d say “no we’re doing this, or, no this way”

She was calling me daddy the whole time lol.

[–]dream-hunter24 points25 points  (16 children) | Copy

Did this a month ago with a Tinder date and it backfired. She made a shitty excuse to leave, then when she left she wrote "Sorry but we won't work together. I don't like being told what to do and not to do." I replied "Haha okay" thinking it was a shit test, but it wasn't because she removed me afterwards.

[–]joeswo21430 points31 points  (7 children) | Copy

You went about it the wrong way playa. You have to know your audience; sometimes you may need more tact

[–]dream-hunter2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

Eh, it was probably because she was studying to be a lawyer, lol. But then again, where's the AWALT in this?

[–]cenie23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

There isn’t one. Sometimes women will reject you for acting like a twat. You probably came off as bossy rather than a leader. Recalibrate and try again.

[–]pollodustino12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

My very long-term LTR is a girl who has wanted to be a lawyer her entire life, just went through law school, and is going to sit for the Bar next February. Telling her what to do and what not to do is an instant ticket for combativeness, arguing, and anger.

Be very careful with female law students and lawyers. They can be incredibly fun and very intelligent, but they generally require the soft, indirect approach of persuasion. They're too smart for you to be direct, and they like a good fight.

That said, once you figure out how to be persuasive, they're like putty. A lot of them just want a man who can hold their own and tell them what to do without actually telling them, because they have insecurities about being good enough and rejection.

But the battle scars you'll get before hand...

[–]dream-hunter 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

That helped. Thank you.

[–]Furrealyo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with this.

I done the doctors and lawyers, and enjoy conversing with them due to their intelligence, but I have yet to find one that wasn’t trying to play Alpha. It gets tiring so I bail after getting what I want out of it.

I shit you not, the last one told me her husband left her to become a woman. All I could think was “no shit he did, because there’s only room for one man in your life: YOU!”

[–]mickey__17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are looking at this wrong, some women rejects you and you due to insecurities start to shit talk ‘AWALT’ and similar crap. Don’t be like that, work on yourself, get more experience and shut the fuck up

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LOL, it's in her dumping your ass, that's where!

Of course, you may have shown yourself to be a tool by "pointing everywhere you were going". Maybe she thought that you were too paripatetic with Tourette's or something.

[–]Time_Animal_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She want attracted to you

[–]markinsinz71 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Firstly as far as the date goes it could have been many things - what kind of mood was she in? Does she prefer laid back guys? But more importantly what was your tone like? Did you say it with full confidence not caring one bit if she followed or not? Then there comes gauging the date itself. Don't use commands all the time. Sometimes just 'motioning' to do something can work to the same effect. You'd also have to build emotional investment via getting her to open up a lot.

As far as the text part goes instead of haha okay a better frame hold would have been "fair enough, my type of girls are those who like to listen"

[–]bluefingerblue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They have to actually see you as dominant for that to work. If they’re questioning your dominance/leadership, they’ll call you out on it. She probably sensed you were putting on a show or she just wasn’t that attracted.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a hyper-cunt to me. Probably did you a favor.

[–]FlyingSexistPig0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She didn't think you were a leader, she thought you were a tyrant.

If you're leading, but it's not going anywhere interesting, then you're disqualifying yourself as a leader.

[–]Velebit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It depends if a woman finds that attractive. of course trp says they all do and shit but a lot of them don't especially those who tend to be high achievers and have high self respect. I would also like to point that doing that on first date is not smart, maybe wait for trust and respect to build up.

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I replied "Haha okay" thinking it was a shit test, but it wasn't because she removed me afterwards.


[–]2319Skew13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Met a girl at a bar. Yada yadda Yadda. Broke her fence while having sex in her backyard.

[–]Kdjdbsosbei3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

We need more Seinfeld references

[–]Rkingpin[S] 31 points32 points  (6 children) | Copy

For me personally

-Gained respect and an unfuckable with status in social circles using basic A&A in response to shit tests/ banter. Also by learning about frame of course.

-raised attraction of females by being vague in talking about myself and also withdrawing attention when needed

-gains in the gym raised SMV naturally

-high smv=dread. Leads to hamster spinning when she knows you have options

-cutting out useless pursuits such as porn, jacking off. Feel more masculine and energised to chase my mission. I don't wank at all.

-Chasing my mission means I'm busy doing other shit. Naturally, women come 2nd and they sense that shit. Seems to get them wet lmao

[–]IBeMadToo4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The last point is very important. They hate it but they love it.

[–]ryantheman21 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

What do you mean by “A&A” in response to shit tests?

[–]drnemola5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree & amplify

[–]_the_shape_2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Take their train of thought and amplify it in a way you find amusing.


Girl: "so like, are you a player?"

You: "I'm not a player, I just fuck a lot (of different chicks)"

Edit: RIP Pun

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Player!?! No, im more of a bait you in for a good solid 3 to 5 years, than when you least expect it "Im going out for a pack of smokes" (and never coming back) kind of scoundrel. I play the long game.

[–]cornylamygilbert1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

you don't wank ever?

are you red pill enough you get laid pretty regularly then?

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Apply the theories in your own life and see for yourself.

[–]frontyer007726 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy

Blowjobs, sex (whatever and whenever I want, anal aswell). She makes homemade bread to me in the morning and makes coffe. Brings it to the bed. She gets up an hour before me just to bring me breakfast, never knew such a thing could ever happen before the red pill.

I also feel powerful, I never did before. Reason being I have many women pretty much begging to fuck me. I am in control of my life and the women dont control me. Thats a new level of freedom I have mever experienced before.

[–]cornylamygilbert0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I want to hear more from you

I have to assume you have a good job or make good money, are jacked, have a high value social life, apparently fuxk her well etc?

[–]frontyer00772 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well, right now I dont have a very well paying job. However I am 20 years old and probably make more then most in my age. Girls dont really give two shits about money when youre 20, unless you have "fuck you money". But I am on my mission, and in about 3 years I could be making more then the average man in my country while having half the year free of work. The free time I will be using to try to make a buisness (already startet).

I am also kind of chubby, I have startet lifting but I am no where near jacked. Working on it though.

My social life and my game however is pretty damn good. Game is the part of the red pill I knew well before I swallowed the pill. I was great at picking up girls. But could never keep them around. Thats where the red pill helped. I was basically the alpha at the party, but the beta the rest of the time. Now I am the alpha all the time.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well my discovery of the red pill gave me the courage to move away for a job. Up until that point I was under the impression even working 1 hour away would be a dealbreaker. I felt very trapped. But taking my life into my own hands and doing what I wanted only seemed to make her want me more. That was some clear early evidence of how this stuff works.

[–]_Icarus_Reborn_6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

A little late to the party, been on a week long trp break/holiday (vacation for you Yankee doodles).

I had my first 'success' of applying trp principles to my LTR.

While on holiday one night (we stayed in a countryside cottage for a week) we decided to stay in cook dinner, watch a movie and play games.

Once dinner and movie was done I asked ltr what she wanted to do, and got the classic I don't know. I threw out a few ideas and all got shot down.

So, I got up cleared away dinner stuff and tidied the kitchen. Once that was done I sat down next to her and started reading, paid no attention to her. I could see her getting annoyed and scrolling through FB. It really did test me to hold frame and ignore her. Eventually she huffed and said shes going to bed. I said goodnight, not looking up from the book.

After about 30mins I decided to go bed myself. Once in bed she cuddled up to me and apologised for being like that. I told her she needed to make it up to me for being rude.

I went to sleep after a decent blowjob and without returning the favour.

Lesson learnt: holding frame can be tough and still have to fight the BP within, but when you see trp in action it's a great motivation to keep going.

I know it's a small victory, but it's the pebble that starts the avalanche.

Hope that's the kinda answer you're looking for pal.

[–]TheBadGoy57 points58 points  (12 children) | Copy

*Get a girlfriend and other girls will instantly blow your phone up

*The girl you messaged two years ago will immediately message you the moment her boyfriend dumps her

*They really don't care if you cheat, just don't embarrass her.

*Fucking someone's hot girlfriend will make you feel immensely powerful

[–]usernameishardtomake13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

What do you mean by "don't embarrass her"? Examples?

[–]Renzotl5628 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t make it public.

[–]ay013523 1 points [recovered]  (9 children) | Copy

Don't fuck other guys girls.

[–]bruiser186 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get away with so much on account of women not wanting to lose a high value guy.

They give me less shit, for the same reason as above.

They go so far out of their way for me, they would move mountains to hang out for a few hours.

A lot more...

[–]AwakenedSovereign9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

I let a girl I was hooking up with sleep over one night. We'd been hooking up for ~6 weeks or so.

She had been out partying that weekend and around 1-2am after not being able to fall asleep in my own bed, I decided I did not want the slut around anymore. Shook her awake and asked her to leave.

She proceeded to blow up my phone for days.


Oh also, lets talk about the 8months pregnant chick I fucked last week. "Mmm, I want to, but I can't.."
"Ok, I'll text you my address". Closed.

[–]AtlasCuckd1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wtf to that last one. Why you fucking preggos bruh?

Also what's it like? Asking for a friend

[–]AwakenedSovereign0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why not?

It's a turn on tbh, both sides I think, kind of "risque" or whatever. Plus the nips and clit get really really really sensitive towards the end of the pregnancy, which is fun for everybody

[–]hrm08941 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get sex/blowjobs on command.

[–]seedster51 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was able to stand our from the other fuckboy. My girl was a sorority girl that never ducked around, I took her v card, while everyone was spitting game I was holding my frame and increasing my smv. She saw more potential in me than I did in myself, she doesn't know that part. 3 years later I'm on track with a good job and on my way to live a happy life thanks to trp.

But I will say this. A lot of people confine MGTOW with trp. Even people on here. What's up with that

[–]Zanford1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Night and day. Women who happily agree to one sided exclusivity and they even enjoy hearing about my exploits with other girls while seeing them. Cleaning my place, lots of great cooking, begging for hardcore BDSM sessions (honestly a nice energetic BJ does it for me, but girls all really love the intense shit), writing or typing pages and pages of love notes, lots of presents, etc .

[–]FlyingSexistPig1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I started dating my GF after first taking the red pill, post divorce.

I was strong, decisive, and lead completely in the relationship. It 100% won her over. She followed me when I moved across the country, even though I had never said the words, "I love you."

Even now, I know that any decision I make will be followed unquestioningly.

[–]Datanami0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Everything, duh

[–]EvanPetersDouble0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

More high SmV women.

[–]Musicgoon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My girl was out if pocket. I applied dread game, ignored her tears, and now she's giving me sec like a porn star.

Also spinning plates and getting laid has become very very easy... Almost automatic. If I want to Fuck a chick there's a 99% chance that I can.

[–]TheFlyingPro0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just yesterday night a girl basically complimented on my frame: ‘It is very impressive how you remain calm even in very stressful and difficult situations.’

The Red Pill works, no matter what politically correct opinions say

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

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