I just flat out told a girl I wasn't interested in even meeting her. I'm done.

chtrchtr_pussyeater · 2017-09-21T23:45:10+00:00

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goingmgtownow · 2017-09-22T00:22:39+00:00

Excellent post. I'm in my 40s, divorced with a young kid, and I wish I would have had this level of discipline and perseverance when I was that age. This post is some seriously inspirational MGTOW shit. I'm happy for you when I read this, good for you for working your ass off to make something of yourself and not allowing yourself to be exploited by the modern day female bullshit.

mrscene1 · 2017-09-21T23:50:40+00:00

I used to do pretty well dating; and like you and most us, was naive at the time. After being MGTOW for a few years and looking back, all the signs were there. I even give the women credit on the creative ways they try and dig for how much you make. Two quick examples. Was talking about how awkward it was getting my telescope in my car, she asked 'oh, what kind of car do you drive'. That was her chance to get some info. Another said 'do you fix things?'. It threw me off, so I said yes. She scoffed and said 'what can you fix?'. Lots of other little examples where they ask nonchalant questions to figure out how much you make and what you own.

EndlessPontification · 2017-09-21T23:47:06+00:00

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executedigging · 2017-09-21T23:52:02+00:00

She was stupid. Police officers can make a lot of money with overtime. I'm looking at my State's payroll and there several officers with over $100K overtime alone.

goingmgtownow · 2017-09-22T00:14:41+00:00

Common 'innocent' questions women ask immediately to size up your wallet:

what do you do/where go to school (college?)
where do you live
do you rent or own (and how long?).

They dont seem to care about cars other than its price tag as it reflects your net worth.

Bestoftherest222 · 2017-09-22T02:18:58+00:00

Dude you got money, first things first. 1) Freeze your Sperm 2) Get a Vasectomy 3) Continue doing your thing.

I say "Freeze" your sperm and get sniped because you might slip. It only takes one moment or a couple of beers or some rare circumstance that finds your weakness.

Kamtre · 2017-09-22T00:08:19+00:00

That was inspirational. Thanks! And good work getting yourself where you are.

fredanderssen · 2017-09-22T00:43:03+00:00

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2017-09-22T02:33:29+00:00

Women don't care who you are; they care about what you have. They are creatures of baseness, intrigued by shiny things and what other women will think when they flaunt those shiny things.

turtleforeskin88 · 2017-09-22T00:04:05+00:00

Dude a dog is the most loving animal ever! Get two mutts and travel the world with them

goingmgtownow · 2017-09-21T23:36:26+00:00

I'd be honored to work for you.

jkarovskaya · 2017-09-22T00:47:13+00:00

Such a DAMN GOOD WRITE UP. COngrats on your business, your drive, your goals, and red pill enlightenment.

It's liberating to realize just what MGTOW can mean for you, especially in the long run.

Stay single

DO not cohabitate

Do not procreate

Do not matrimate!

EndlessPontification · 2017-09-22T02:06:43+00:00

Then I thought, the MGTOWs are right, she only shes me as a walking fucking ATM. She has NO idea what it took to get here. No damn clue how much shit, how much work, how little sleep I spent to work my damn ass off to make something, to building something.

Women see you as an accessory, a handbag etc. You said you don't really care about your appearance so they expect something else in return (your wallet - beta bucks). But fuck, I think they want everything eventually - over 6 feet, tons of money, six pack, designer clothes etc.

Don't feel bad. At least you have your career. A lot of us MGTOW have had to tough it out in the non-sensical PC-feminist world of corporate America - in which tech has become the most bigoted, as evidence by the James Damore memo @ Google.

2017-09-22T02:28:55+00:00

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fredanderssen · 2017-09-22T00:37:57+00:00

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Skaskunski · 2017-09-22T02:40:29+00:00

I regret that I gave up my one life for pussy........ Nathan Hale

forevarabone · 2017-09-22T03:30:10+00:00

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umaddow · 2017-09-21T23:44:05+00:00

Underground Racing Lamborghinis. Make sure you get a Huracan X package. They're like 400k. But 2,500whp is badass.

2017-09-22T02:13:01+00:00

You have your whole life ahead of you man, enjoy it! But remain vigilant because the women are gonna flock to you like mosquitoes trying to suck every last drop of blood out of you.

Starter91 · 2017-09-22T07:19:51+00:00

"Just a policeman " , the person who protects you from being raped at night on the streets. This is pathetic.

panzerbier · 2017-09-22T10:19:18+00:00

I'm in very similar shoes. Late 20s, with a net worth and future earning potential well above my peers. I own my home, work out, have an acceptable face and a nice car.

I was recently dumped for not wanting kids.

And you know what? I fucking enjoy being alone. I have time to meditate, fool around with my diet, spend time with buddies, or just kick back and watch something on my tablet after a hard day. No nagging, no visiting in-laws, no bitching when I get home late. Stuff happens exactly on my schedule. The only thing about a woman I do miss is sex. And that is a soluble problem.

Thanks for the writeup man.

2017-09-22T04:24:21+00:00

No need for a house. A condo will serve more than fine.

FermiAnyon · 2017-09-22T09:56:40+00:00

And you know what? I don't want to share it.

Bingo. Spend your life working your ass off so you can be "qualify" for some used up hag. Fuck that shit! If I've been working my ass off, you'd damn well better bring something to the table, too!

hollybegin · 2017-09-22T01:22:06+00:00

Congratulations. Not even thirty and already there, professionally and emotionally. Very impressive. Keep up the the good work.

givecake · 2017-09-22T01:39:13+00:00

Thanks for your story man. Really inspiring. Wish I had as strong a will as you.

Sumo94 · 2017-09-22T02:01:30+00:00

Good fucking shit man! I need to get on that money team too!

RedHotRandy · 2017-09-22T02:11:57+00:00

Welcome, brother

MattFoley79 · 2017-09-22T03:09:08+00:00

That is one hell of a first post. Good on you for recognizing what they're all about before they got their claws into you. I wish you all the best, sir.

Aussiewolf82 · 2017-09-22T03:34:37+00:00

Inspirational man. I've worked very hard to land the job I have now. But at the end of the day I'm still an employee. Need to figure a way to set up a business that will work for me.

plutosheen · 2017-09-22T03:56:08+00:00

Fuckin' A! This post is the essence of mgtow!

sendnudesb · 2017-09-22T11:37:54+00:00

Atta boy! I get them with the "waste of time line" and they go ape shit as well. Keep doing you brother! Get a dog, that's where TRUE love is!

Not_in_a_good_place · 2017-09-22T14:28:18+00:00

Here's a good one for you... I re-connected with this cute girl i knew from like 10 - 15 years (i'm 36), she's 38. When i last talked to her so many years ago, she was bouncing from dead-end job to dead-end job as a server, bartender, etc. Most of us do that when we're younger and i was certainly no saint and had little direction.

In any case, we're chatting and she asks what i'm doing now, so i tell her... IT Engineer/Architect in a specific space and she's like a wow. Ask her the same, she's like 'oh, im a bartender, i work in the "industry". I try not think much of it, you know how guys generally are, especially pre-mgtow... We don't care what you do for a living as long as you're a decent and not an unattractive person - this one was hot. She was always fond of saying to herself, no matter how bad things got... "at least im pretty". Yea... That depends entirely on your perspective, she turned out to be an exceptionally ugly person.

A few points of interest here... in the course of dating her i found that she couldn't consistently pay her phone bill, utilities, or rent. Phone bill was in the red like almost 600 - 800. Oh yea, multiple kids, multiple baby-daddy. Also still hadn't learned to hold a job or the value of finding one before quitting the current. Watched her make that mistake once, beat herself up for it, and then do it again less than 2 months later. I did not reduce myself to paying her bills, though i did cover some of the phone bill once just to keep it active.

She had a decently put together apartment, later i found out in casual conversation as she was bragging about how little she had spent and by that, i mean nothing. Not a single item of furniture was hers, it was all purchased by previous guys.

At one point she said that if i had been working construction or still doing some of the same things i was doing back then, no way would she be in my bed right now. At the end of the day, this woman was a blessing. In a short amount of time and without the penalties of child support (she was spayed), or alimony, she introduced me to almost the entire volume of female horrors; gaslighting, cheating, lying, abusive, manipulation like only some of you have witnessed, etc. Although she's remained blocked in my phone for almost a year and most every other medium, i will never talk to her again but i will always value her for the person that she was. Just not in the typical sense that's relayed with that sentence.

TL:DR The level of entitlement that dead weight can have is mind-boggling and never again.

phoenixtoast · 2017-09-22T16:44:20+00:00

Yup, you can already see far enough down the road to know what's coming. Women are always the 'good guys' in every situation. So while she's with you it'll be "he's so great, he's so smart, he's so wealthy, look at what he bought me." As soon as she's done with you for any random reason it'll become "he was such a creep, he treated like my shit, he was emotionally distant, he never did x, y, and z" to which society will yell out a collective "you go girl!" with not so much as cursory examination of the truth.

By skipping the whole process you just decided to walk past the dating casinos shitty rigged house advantage game. You can win for a little while but you'll always lose in the end.

Dank_Meems · 2017-09-22T19:06:37+00:00

I see hot girls and just get annoyed by how easy their lives are now. It's amazing how you look at women once you figure out how they all act. Luckily for us, living in the internet generation, women don't even hide it anymore. With a quick google search you can usually figure out how shallow a woman is because she will voluntarily put all that shit online.

goingmgtownow · 2017-09-22T00:04:24+00:00

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wasthereadogwithyou · 2017-09-22T03:50:16+00:00

This is a pretty broad question, but do you have any advice for someone who also wants to build up a tech business? There's very little tech-related stuff I can't do, but I'm not sure where to start. Should I research and find a niche to fill? What's the best way to get a start-up loan?

funinsun10 · 2017-09-22T04:00:47+00:00

To someone who doesn't think relationship means working through issues instead of me bending towards their will.... Best sentence

BooDoug · 2017-09-22T05:29:05+00:00

May the force of MGTOW be with you.

r/MgtowBooks

TheGillos · 2017-09-22T07:13:35+00:00

Well done. I've had a few of those "ah-ha" moments over the years.

Shameless plug: if you need a web designer/web developer let me know.

2017-09-22T11:14:29+00:00

Second, these female friends I could count on helping me in a pinch

nah, you can't, unless they think there is still some chance they could mantrap you in the future. when that gets completely ruled out, they'll disappear.

I've had what I thought were REALLY great female friends. They get a man and they're like 'who are you?'. The only time you can suspect a female of actually being your friend is if you are of SIGNIFICANTLY lower sexual market value than she is.

ZeroBlink · 2017-09-22T13:17:00+00:00

That's why the best you can do is keep secrets , If you ever go out with a woman , don't tell her who you are 100%, just tell her oh I work at your "average IT job" or whatever it is what you do. However for a man like yourself MGTOW is best. Pump and Dump and make sure they don't know anything about you, might accuse you of rape if they do.

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2017-09-22T13:31:40+00:00

she texted me and I told her you know what, Friday night I have no excuse not coming - I just don't want to waste my time. She blew up my phone with a bunch of shit - didn't even respond because fuck it. I am done.

Like a boss!

Fyodor007 · 2017-09-22T14:14:20+00:00

Yeah buddy! Thanks for the story. Good job cutting that cord.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2017-09-22T14:17:13+00:00

I created an account for this post because I do not want to be identified for the repercussions my views that I share with this subreddit could potentially have on my businesses.

I hope you also used Tor/VPN for signing in with this account, because this is Reddit and the mods will sell your dox to any company that asks it nicely, like CNN.

Spacesider · 2017-09-22T14:21:14+00:00

You are a hero.

v1ctorr · 2017-09-22T14:24:10+00:00

Women are waste of time, and time is the most valuable thing.

cleats4u · 2017-09-22T14:57:40+00:00

I'm widowed but I still wear my band. It's kind of like a repellent. The ones it doesn't repel are the ones I wouldn't want anyway (except for maybe one night). I work with the public. That band has solved a lot of problems I would have otherwise had. Such as...why am I not chasing pussy? Am I gay? I must hate women etc. I would tell any single MGTOW of good earning potential to just buy a band and you will avoid a lot of bull shit. If you feel guilty about lying just think that you married yourself. Women do it all the time and it makes headlines.

Slaide · 2017-09-22T14:58:04+00:00

You deserve a bro hug for that wonderful text.

You are correct: don't give the whores the time of day or any of your money. They ain't worth it and they'll destroy themselves in the shit storm the feminists are creating for women all across the Earth.

Save yourself. Work on yourself. Do your best and you'll never be disappointed.

gundahir · 2017-09-22T15:09:35+00:00

someone who would love me regardless of financial success. That does not exist.

thats one of the first red pills i swallowed some years ago and damn it was bitter. 100% true though. i know guys who have been homeless and guys who have been jobless for extended periods of time and they got 0 action from women. the only women who might get interested in them are homeless women lol.

LuigiC173 · 2017-09-22T15:10:18+00:00

I think those of us in our late twenties here and now are in really special circumstances where we are still part of the "youth" crowd but we are viewing from the outside just saying what the actual fuck happened between 2007 and now.

2017-09-22T17:11:37+00:00

You know what exists? You and your potential.

you are the man

yeah this gives me strength

thanks for the story

Mr_Lonesome · 2017-09-22T18:03:49+00:00

Now I know why I hesitated to make a move and lay my rehearsed line to the young lady I keep running into on the train and gym. Just yesterday, we stood next to each other at parking garage kiosk. I felt her coyness, her soft look of eyes. But I took my receipt and like you OP walked away. The chase is so weary, the need to impress and charm and woo and court all for a mediocre woman who probably won't reciprocate the energy or love, and who may look delicious on outside, but inside are like all women -rapacious for materials and resources.

cha54mi · 2017-09-23T00:32:15+00:00

Whatever you do .DO NoT VISIT EGYPT .not at this moment

topshelg · 2017-09-23T06:14:06+00:00

good for you man. Im proud that youve finally come to the realization that woman are the anchor to your goals in life. Im like you, except im 25 and am done with woman completely. There is just no point and no benefit in having a relationship with woman anymore. Ill be friends, but thats where i draw the line. It takes a while to get used to it but after a while you kind of just dont give a fuck.

throwitupwatchitfall · 2017-10-05T08:34:58+00:00

Dude you should at least fuck them. Make sure you get evidence that they're wanting to fuck via text before you do it if you're paranoid about allegations.

doggypede · 2017-09-22T02:45:48+00:00

Lower your expectations and you'll be happier. Men want to provide for women and ultimately you want a woman to provide for. This is our biological mandate and where we derive a lot of self esteem. You want to be appreciated and valued for this. There must be symmetry. Yes women will always view you as a walking ATM and think little of a poor man but you cannot blame them. It's how they've evolved to best rear their young. They see an ATM like you see a pair of tits. Men select based off looks primarily so just find the prettiest girl you can. Make the relationship clear and symmetrical for it to work. You give money/housing/materials/status and get sex and support and a maid/cook in return. She gets what she needs to raise her kids and you get what you need to make more money and gain higher status.

Title	I just flat out told a girl I wasn't interested in even meeting her. I'm done.
Author	goingmgtownow
Upvotes	480
Comments	212
Date	September 21, 2017 11:29 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/71n4fi/i_just_flat_out_told_a_girl_i_wasnt_interested_in/
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