Simp at work calling me gay for not chasing women

MegaDeathX12 · 2018-03-02T02:39:18+00:00

I just don’t know why it bothers him so much.

Because he hates to see you happy. It's a reminder to him of what he lost.

Zormut · 2018-03-02T02:35:06+00:00

Perfect. Wait until you're in the mid 20's and he's in his thirties. He'll probably have another kid. You'll be ballin.

xemarosa · 2018-03-02T03:19:34+00:00

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Hypogamy · 2018-03-02T02:41:26+00:00

It sounds to me like he’s based his entire life (or at the very least his identity) around his sexual prowess and his ability to get with women, and seeing someone who’s life is not centered around those things is intimidating because it can highlight the poor decisions he’s made in his life (fucking around, having a kid early in life). It’s easier to be reluctant to change and to shit on someone who threatens your preconceptions, especially when there’s kids involved. I find that young/unexpected parents don’t even want to get near a thought that seems to insinuate they’d do things differently.

I could be reaching.

Keep doing you.

raident30 · 2018-03-02T03:50:15+00:00

i have this friend at work. he's married and has 3 kids but has a small salary. he's always saying that the real happiness is to have a family and have kids. im single and have my own house and car. my salary is almost double his. i think he's just very bitter.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-03-02T03:03:08+00:00

I’d report him to HR for the gay pejorative. Gays are a protected class.

TheGillos · 2018-03-02T04:24:36+00:00

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-Fender- · 2018-03-02T05:24:03+00:00

Tell him this:

"Dude. You have a wife, and a child. You make a shit wage, and have no time for yourself. As soon as you're done here, you need to hurry back home for curfew in fear of staying out too late and being accused of cheating by your wife, just so she can bitch and whine so much you feel you owe her something to buy her forgiveness, even though you're an adult man who's done nothing wrong.

I don't have any of your obligations. I don't have to suffer any of that crap, because I am free.

I never want to have your life, and nothing you say will ever convince me otherwise."

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2018-03-02T02:45:22+00:00

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M26PershingTank · 2018-03-02T04:20:28+00:00

If I was gay I would literally have zero use for women at all

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2018-03-02T02:37:49+00:00

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2018-03-02T04:24:54+00:00

He's jealous and venting, his paycheck gets gauged every week for a kid while you do what you want lol

2018-03-02T04:57:38+00:00

He's a crab in a tank, and you've already escaped and gone into the ocean.

xemarosa · 2018-03-02T03:11:49+00:00

Ignore him.

SomeGhostingGuy · 2018-03-02T06:01:40+00:00

Do what I do. Get all your stuff from Amazon and have it sent to your office (because nobody is at home anyway).

In the years since I started that all that "single guy shaming" completely went away.

Nothing says that somebody is living the good live than packages in the shared office space waiting for my pickup saying "Lenovo Legion GTX 1080 gaming PC" or "Yoder pellet smoker" with your name on it.

2018-03-02T06:10:58+00:00

Here's a fun fact.

Throughout my 20s getting laid was incredibly easy for me. Still is. Guess how much i cared about other men's sex lives? NONE!!

Think about that

Atrand · 2018-03-02T05:31:15+00:00

why cant these guys just fuck off you ask? because they feel threatened by you...they feel threatened because here is a person REJECTING THE STATUS QUO telling them what they SHOULD BE DOING and it's destroying his fragile little psyche. THATS why these guys won't just "fuck off" and "try to get us back to girls" because they are so far in brainwashed society to the point where they will fight for it, rather than be their own man.

Shinkao · 2018-03-02T06:01:35+00:00

It bothers him, because cognitive dissonance is a bitch. The moment he sees/recognises how your side has merit, he would have to confront himself about it. Think about it. He justifies his spending habits / chasing tail through programmed mental gymnastics. If he agrees with you for a second, it all comes crumbling down.

People usually don't do that.

Devilsgun · 2018-03-02T03:01:09+00:00

It's HR Time

Hypogamy · 2018-03-02T03:08:13+00:00

These people know either consciously or subconsciously that each man not chasing a woman is forcing the men who do still chase them to subsidize the "leftover women".

The fact that you aren't carrying your part of the load means he is having to work harder for HIS sex.

Let him, and be upfront that this is how the cookie crumbles.

2018-03-02T05:02:54+00:00

Misery loves company. He's finished and wants to drag you with him. Him being your senior it's twice as bad for him. He's done. You do mgtow!

malexander777 · 2018-03-02T10:19:09+00:00

He's a slave and slaves don't like it when they see fellow slaves with more freedoms. It's called the crab bucket mentality.

2018-03-02T09:31:42+00:00

Funny how so many sucker ass dudes let pussy run their lives. Fuck that. I got the dick. I make the rules.

SilverGryphon · 2018-03-02T06:32:22+00:00

Joke's on him, nowadays being gay is considered normal and people who ridicule you for being gay can be severely punished by the law in some countries.

scaur · 2018-03-02T03:09:10+00:00

because you are not in his beta tribe.

LifeBeforeInternet · 2018-03-02T04:30:41+00:00

He sounds pretty young and immature. My advice is since you have to work with him and you need to communicate but you can't avoid him completely, never engage him unless you have to, and when he engages you, keep your replies to one word answers whenever possible, otherwise as short a reply as necessary to end the conversation.

2018-03-02T06:51:54+00:00

I hate dealing with dudes like that. I got BS like that growing up. I always wonder to myself, dam, why does the next guy care so much.

niggawiggachigga · 2018-03-02T10:09:47+00:00

The dude's jealous.

liamcoded · 2018-03-02T10:34:57+00:00

Well, you can tell him, in addition to being an asshole, he also happens to be a homophobe.

2018-03-02T11:11:28+00:00

he's a weak bitch. has nothing in his life but to tear you down.

Datson_Horrenbrand · 2018-03-02T14:00:12+00:00

typical behavior of the 'accidental pregnancy' soy fathers

''oh u understand nothing until u will have a kid'' - yeah dumbass until someone (a woman) lied to you and lure you into a trap and now you dont have anything better to do than to say its so great

Methodless · 2018-03-02T14:22:56+00:00

I often get asked what I'm going to do with money if not going to spend it on a wife. The idea of retiring in my 40s blows their mind every time.

These poor people are stuck in a matrix where you're supposed to struggle to make ends meet, work until you're almost dead and come home to someone society keeps telling you is better than you and makes you happy by agreeing to exist in your space.

The very possibility that somebody they know who isn't crazy wealthy can retire 20 years before they've been told they're supposed to but probably won't be able to just blows their minds.

Sometimes I detect just a hint of jealousy, coupled with some idolization, but most are too weak to follow even when they agree with me in principle. Nobody treats me like I'm the one missing out though.

2018-03-02T03:58:54+00:00

reeZbect you'r elDerz

phreshstart · 2018-03-02T06:26:12+00:00

Because if you're right, he's wrong... and how can he be wrong when he's addicted to pussy.

Substainable · 2018-03-02T07:08:08+00:00

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2018-03-02T07:21:53+00:00

Stop arguing with him. Just say if he's got a problem with your life style he should do something about it or back the fuck off. Him calling you names like that means he got no respect for you.

NotMeUsee · 2018-03-02T08:04:52+00:00

Because he's gay

Unexpecter · 2018-03-02T10:13:41+00:00

he immediately starts calling me gay and perma virgin and asks why have money if I don’t have anyone to spend it on.

Many people are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it. - Morpheus

2018-03-02T10:48:07+00:00

Sounds like a case for a discussion with HR about your colleague having g harassment explained to him.

FlamingAmmosexual · 2018-03-02T11:55:35+00:00

He asks why I have money if I have nobody to spend it on.

There's your in.

Just say, "well hell if you love giving money away I'll gladly take it." Keep mentioning that. When you buy, do, or travel to X mention how great it was because you don't have a kid and baby mama.

JohnOrange2112 · 2018-03-02T13:58:14+00:00

In the past, some guys got married just so people would not (mistakenly) think they are gay. One good thing about today's greater acceptance of gays is that a guy can stay unmarried and no one should think anything of it.

2018-03-02T16:37:18+00:00

Projection. He sees himself six or seven years ago where you are now probably fresh out of high school before he fucked up his own life by knocking up his girlfriend and popping out a baby before he probably wanted a kid and that he now has to pay for. Jealousy of youth and regret can be a powerful thing, especially for those who fuck up their own lives with bad decisions.

2018-03-02T17:02:59+00:00

This dude will get divorce raped 3 times in life and be like my brother at 45 still chasing tail.

kayfab · 2018-03-02T02:56:42+00:00

Yupe that's pretty much how idiot blue pill cocksuckers act.......sadly we need to hide what we stand for, it sucks that gay and lesbian are accepted and we can't live our own way without being judge.....

Now i just tell them i have not meet the right one which is a lie......

2018-03-02T03:13:21+00:00

Proud to be virgin lol.

kiwi_like_me · 2018-03-02T06:09:48+00:00

First of all, the correct response it to call him 'Puppy Dog' for a while and then shorten it to 'Puppy' when he gets that you're not calling him 'Dad'.

Second, ask him, loudly and in front of witnesses if he thinks calling someone gay is an insult.

Third, remember that if he's acting that way, we'll probably see him here soon. Things must be pretty bad.

Belrick_NZ · 2018-03-02T06:29:02+00:00

I embrace being gay even though im not.

Who gives a fuck? And if they press the issue just use sjw tactics and call them homophobe

DarkPrinceSlaanesh · 2018-03-02T06:40:17+00:00

Tell him you don't give a shit about his beta opinions. Let him go back to bending the knee to his precious hole.

anax44 · 2018-03-02T06:44:56+00:00

I just don’t know why it bothers him so much.

Why is it bothering you though?

Is he married? Tell him that he can't chase women because his wife will screw him royally in a divorce.

If he's not married, tell him that having a kid means that he's limited to chasing hags.

Wither way you're either insulting his wife or his kid and it will get to him. It's easy to find weak spots in dumbasses like him and exploit it.

SssanL · 2018-03-02T06:57:33+00:00

When i know someone is a simp/blue pill i just dont talk much to them. Cuz u cant talk sence into them.

2018-03-02T07:37:47+00:00

Just be thankful you're not some short sighted pleb.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-03-02T08:02:25+00:00

Ignore him.. Whenever someone says: "Why have money when you don't have anyone to spend it on" they will go on /ignore and I will not take them serious

elementalwalruss · 2018-03-02T08:21:52+00:00

Because in his mind he knows you're speaking the truth and he'd want to be in your place. He can't bear it so he has to shame you so you'd do the same mistakes. Inside his mind his hamster goes REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

nonehere222 · 2018-03-02T08:53:44+00:00

I used to be that guy. SMH!

2018-03-02T08:56:56+00:00

Dude, don't even give him your time or attention. He knows he fucked up in life so he's doubling down.

This is a toxic person who you need to CUT THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR LIFE.

You need to treat it like a bomb diffusal and slowly back away from him and essentially become a ghost. Don't give him a big "fuck you" or try to argue it will only get worse.

I know it sounds like overkill but trust me, there are people out there who are purely toxic and WILL go out of their way to fuck you over eventually. Cutting them out of your life is a skillset all its own.

Be as low-key as possible with your lifestyle

demontits · 2018-03-02T09:11:59+00:00

Report him to HR for harassment.

_-_steve_-_ · 2018-03-02T09:33:40+00:00

When no one is watching and there are no cameras around, push him to the ground, kick him in the ribs a couple of times, and spit on the bitch. He’ll respect you after that.

ollyollyollyoioioi · 2018-03-02T11:06:22+00:00

MGTOW is a thought process, not an introduction into who you are. Let him know you don't give a shit, smile like fuck when you call him an addict or ask if he got his chlamydia results back. He associate's you with being a defensive virgin, let him know you are really a Chad in the shadows.

robowriter · 2018-03-02T11:52:35+00:00

His bullshit Playboy-era philosophies he culled from old entertainment media and dumb-as-rocks peers, parents and vegetables no longer holds water, nor anything.

Tradcon is gone, perhaps a bit higher on the zombie love scale.

At the time of his eventually divorce and rude awakening you'll probably be long gone. Just as plant life has a way of pushing through concrete, truth has a way of creeping into the most dense and hopeless brains.

Your planting seeds. It starts in the back of a mind and gnaws its way forward unless he kills it with either stupor or death.

demontits · 2018-03-02T11:57:10+00:00

tell him to suck your cock so you can test his theory

2018-03-02T11:59:58+00:00

I know his type.

Class A loser.

DanFlyhight · 2018-03-02T12:03:13+00:00

Record him and get him for sexual harassment. You have a completely healthy ideal for being 18. You don't want to be tied down and be in a relationship. No big deal there.

ACertainKindOfFool · 2018-03-02T12:06:02+00:00

In all honesty, we MGTOW are evolutionary defects. Propagation of one's genes should evolutionarily lead one to chase after women, and to increase those chances, we should chase after lots of women. Evolutionary success is thus loosely tied to how many women we can get, and that is a subconscious biological reality ingrained in our species that causes the behaviour you describe in this cuck. It is normal to chase women, to be proud of getting them, and to find those who don't strange or incompetent.

But who the fuck wants to be normal?

fezha · 2018-03-02T12:10:43+00:00

Don't take advice from people who fucked up...and are still fucking up.

2018-03-02T13:31:28+00:00

Write down what he said word for word, when/where he said it, and go to HR. Thats harrasment.

YouToo

syd-heich · 2018-03-02T14:23:08+00:00

He's a pussy slave and a resource vessel. He is a puppet who is unaware of his position. If you gaslight him, he'd probably commit suicide

mgtowthrow1996 · 2018-03-02T15:19:40+00:00

If someone called me gay because I didn't want to chase women, I'd very sarcastically say "yeah I'm gay, Can I suck your dick?"

J_St0rm · 2018-03-02T16:24:10+00:00

I'd just roll with it and make a complaint.

"He's making the workplace hostile based solely on your sexual orientation and the way he talks about women disgusts you".

2018-03-02T16:49:05+00:00

you need to turn this around and call this guy out on his shit. he's in his mid 20s,works at a restaurant,and has kids. unless he's the manager then he's a looser. if that's the case you should bring that up. why would a man in 2018 spend money on a woman whenever they have all the same rights we have and work jobs and earn money? that's misandryism.

ghostsnnicesprites · 2018-03-02T17:01:43+00:00

Saying women are a bad investment triggers so many people. It’s weird, because often if a relationship doesn’t work out, they’ll vilify the man by saying he ‘wasted’ her time. So she invested her time and its precious and whatever the guy puts in doesn’t matter, right?

cleats4u · 2018-03-02T17:03:39+00:00

There is a moron in every crowd. He's building himself up by bringing you down. The less an asshole like this knows about you the better off you are. The less anyone at your job knows about you the better off you are. Next job tell all the assholes you have a girlfriend. Hell, tell them your paying alimony and child support. It makes them feel better and makes the boss think your scared of losing your job. This is a fear based society outside of being gynocyntric.

Jeffb957 · 2018-03-02T18:17:44+00:00

Declining to chase women does not make you homosexual. It MIGHT mean you are asexual, or it might also mean you have determined that the cost is not worth the prize.

In any case this jackass needs to do two things. 1.) He needs to fuck the fuck off 2.) He also needs to realize that you, by declining to chase pussy, create an environment in which more pussy is looking for guys like him. Seriously...He ought to say "thank you" and go happily on his way to getting his wallet drained.

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2018-03-02T05:14:12+00:00

Nothing wrong with banging some pump and dumps. Its like vapers, xfitters, or the lgbt types, only annoying when they try to preach about themselves when you didnt ask for it.

agariogre · 2018-03-02T07:02:26+00:00

Hit him where it hurts he'll stfu sooner or later.

NotMyWomen · 2018-03-02T07:40:58+00:00

He needs a psychologist.

Dont let him fuck you up as mentally as he is.

Sounds like a mother attachment thing.

waterfat · 2018-03-02T09:48:27+00:00

This is why I don't talk philosophy, politics, or religion with basically anyone. Maybe my brother and a few friends and not much then.

It's easier anonymously online, if someone has a rabid disagreement it won't harm any friendships but even then I don't discuss much anymore.

Make up some excuse, act like you are a complete ignorant with regard to women, but I don't discuss mgtow especially at work.

Darth_Toenail · 2018-03-02T12:05:04+00:00

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2018-03-02T12:21:19+00:00

Same as any other addict, misery wants company

Benny757 · 2018-03-02T12:23:18+00:00

First, why are you having this conversation? Do not engage in any kind of this talk at work. Second, you control your universe. Remove this fucking idiot from your world. Want to succeed at work? Then work. Don’t talk.

grasshoper88 · 2018-03-02T12:23:57+00:00

He sounds like a bit of a douche, and likely hiding some insecurities

FermiAnyon · 2018-03-02T12:44:18+00:00

Obviously I spend it on myself. Every single time I see this guy he brings it up. I just don’t know why it bothers him so much.

Remember these wise words "A man with one watch knows what time it is. A man with two watches is never really sure." - Philosoraptor

I reckon he needs you to think the way he does because he isn't doing a good job of fooling himself... he's not confident enough to be okay with people entertaining contradictory opinions... Sounds like he's looking for ways to convince himself that he hasn't boned his life as hard as he thinks he has.

Baldrbaldr · 2018-03-02T12:51:40+00:00

Tell him that they're not women any longer. That they've turned into something else. And that he is a freak for chasing them.

Griever114 · 2018-03-02T12:59:42+00:00

Report him to HR for harassment and tell them you were being harassed foe being gay as well we being outted.

Fuck him

earthlydweller · 2018-03-02T13:19:22+00:00

He’s gay... for you.

Robx9001 · 2018-03-02T14:08:21+00:00

I’d just ignore him. His idea of success is the ability to get pussy (at will like James Bond or something .) If he a teenager I’d understand but he should know better by now. If someone wants to pursue sexual endeavors(Mgtow or not) that’s fine, but don’t build your identity on it. Same goes for anything else.

internethjaelten · 2018-03-02T14:08:27+00:00

Nothing wrong with having sex with women, MGTOW is about skipping the relationship part, sex is still a great relief. I prefer prostitutes though, its just very up front about what Im after.

Choice77777 · 2018-03-02T14:13:31+00:00

Put since ice on that fist OP.

wildfireboat · 2018-03-02T14:15:22+00:00

he’s in his mid twenties working at a restaurant and has a kid

Oh.

TheCrestlineKid · 2018-03-02T14:38:08+00:00

Why does it bother you so much? He's obviously bothered because his life has no meaning the way he lives.

xemarosa · 2018-03-02T15:06:01+00:00

Dude this is classic insecurity. The guy is clearly unhappy with his life and sees how happy you clearly are and is insecure about the decisions he has made. He has been taught his entire life that women = happiness, and he can't comprehend how you are breaking this mold. You have a few options.

You can tell him to fuck off for good and threaten to report him for haraassment, I actually think that's a big extreme.

You could befriend the guy and exploit to him that you've made your life decisions and it works for you. It may not work for everyone but it makes you happy and stress free. And ask him politely to respect that and stop hounding you for it because he is causing you unnecessary stress.

You could learn more about his life. Ask him what about women makes him happy to get his point of view. And then kind of share your stories, maybe invite him out for a beer. Usually these type of people are actually performing a cry for help. Don't know if that's the route that's best for you.

2018-03-02T15:10:07+00:00

I knew a guy like that once. Not sure what the deal is. Either he can't figure you out, he knows your right, or he's attracted to you.

Sol_Install · 2018-03-02T15:28:43+00:00

His indoctrination is complete. He didn't just take the Blue Pill, he's drowning in Blue Pill liquor. He's drunk on that shit. And it really shows because of what he said. "What's the point of making that money if you're not spending it on anyone." When he was born, they took his balls too. And it really shows you how these guys think. Life means nothing unless you're getting laid. He's so determined to do it, he ruined his own life in the process. And now, not only is he addicted and twisted his existence with sex, he's trying to spread it like a virus. And the comments here are right. He also wants to bring you down too.

And there is no more proof of that than how he results in shaming language. A dead giveaway that hounding pussy is a BAD deal.

AntiAbleism · 2018-03-02T16:09:35+00:00

He’s bitter and needs somebody to bully.

2018-03-02T16:17:33+00:00

Might as well let him know you don't want to end up like him.

2018-03-02T16:22:09+00:00

just smile and laugh at him.. ask him how his kid is doing. play his own game.. im 33.. i get this all the time! its hilarious. fortunately i dont work with other people. you can always tell your manager that he is sexually harassing you. that is a big issue these days.. might get him written up. try and record it. lol

most importantly, dont let it affect you.. its all outside.. pay attention to what is internal.. the self

2018-03-02T16:45:29+00:00

You shattered his purpose and identity.

That's why he is responding by belittling you.

He created an identity where he professed the value in his chosen path.

You told him, implicitly, that he is wrong and shortsighted. As a result, he probably feels you've offended what he holds dear: his self identity.

Plus his whole world outlook would need to be reconstructed if he deeply analyzed and accepted what you said.

== Cognitive dissonance

I recently told a dude at work that I don't keep women around as friends. he was like "Whaaat? why not?" and thought it sounded crazy. I then realized that he's not a guy I could talk to about mgtow/red pill topics. So I simply said "eh, I want a girlfriend, i have enough friends", rather than the truth "women don't want friends, they want people they can use and exploit for their own benefit-- which is why women don't have lasting friendships. "

J2501 · 2018-03-02T16:46:15+00:00

That's why you gotta be 'a pimp, not a simp'

UnKnownSurviving · 2018-03-02T17:24:55+00:00

He's an idiot. And he can't even see he has a kid. This society is so blue-pill, the next 20-30 society will re-enforce it self over again. Only the few will be happy. And rich.

gundahir · 2018-03-02T18:02:30+00:00

its pathetic and so is he. do NOT waste your time on pathetic people. cut them off. tell him to not bring this pathetic shit up again or you will stop talking to him

2018-03-02T19:06:21+00:00

At this point, start nailing people to the wall for sexual harassment for such accusations.

Regardless what your orientation is, it's now becoming personal attacks, and people need to start feeling the heat. Hard.

2018-03-02T19:17:05+00:00

Why's he complaining? Less competition, more pussy for him.

holidaysboots · 2018-03-02T19:21:03+00:00

Why don't you confront him if it bothers you? Ask him why does that's such a big deal to him and tell him to leave you the fuck alone. People like that never back off unless you set boundaries.

2018-03-02T19:36:05+00:00

Crab bucket. Google it.

boy_named_su · 2018-03-02T19:50:31+00:00

get it in email format and report him to HR for creating a hostile work environment and get him fired

greenleefs · 2018-03-03T07:10:26+00:00

Nobody cares about losers. If he's talking shit to you, it means you're winning.

micktao · 2018-03-03T10:33:08+00:00

He KNOWS bro! You're smarter than him and you're younger hahaha he can't deal.

thr0waway1234567j8 · 2018-03-04T09:56:22+00:00

Tell him if he doesn't shut his fucking mouth, you'll hold him down and have your way with his tight ass. Obviously he wants your D since he wants to talk about you "being gay" so much.

derpderp5000 · 2018-03-08T19:17:04+00:00

what a fucking loser lol

silver-in-a-cloud · 2018-03-09T03:17:03+00:00

obviously fucking women or chasing them is the only thing this guy is probably slightly better than you at ... so he hopes to pull you into the rat race so he can compare dicks and show of how macho he is ... he is pissed you are not joining the rat race because running it alone makes him feel stupid .. :_)

demontits · 2018-03-02T06:57:04+00:00

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2018-03-02T11:13:56+00:00

Lmao

Simp at work calling me gay for not chasing women

Comments

As I said truly warped.

YouToo

Title	Simp at work calling me gay for not chasing women
Author	xemarosa
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Date	March 2, 2018 2:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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