Even the bottom 20% Women still only want the top 20% Men

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-07-18T14:58:35+00:00

you're surprised water is wet. There is nothing in this post that isn't better addressed on the sidebar.

NeverDieAlone · 2016-07-18T03:50:40+00:00

20 percent? I'd be shocked if it was that generous.

Of course they want the top 0.0001 percent of men while bringing nothing to the table themselves. Let's go down our inflated value checklist, shall we?

D*sney princess complex? Check
Golden vagina® syndrome? Check
Entourage of social media worshippers? Check

Possessing all of the above, for modern women, automatically entitles you to a billionaire actor/model/CEO.

The silver lining to all of this is that when said billionaire actor/model/CEO doesn't show up by 30, reality catches hold and life returns the check with a big ol' NSF on it.

Docbear64 · 2016-07-18T03:49:16+00:00

These are the most fascinating moments to me after swallowing the red pill, seeing the woman in her natural habitat doing EXACTLY what this sub says she would . I had a wife message me about how exciting she found a post i made to be and bemoan the fact that her husband treated her" like a princess " , seeing those exact words was jarring.

Honestly at times i find it eerie , it not only demystifies women but makes me consider how much autonomy /uniqueness we as human beings truly have .

1v1crown · 2016-07-18T04:11:53+00:00

She will still get dick though. That's why you can't really beat women, because men essentially beat themselves. All you can do is act logically and keep your eyes open.

nsfw_solipsism · 2016-07-18T03:53:25+00:00

this isn't necessarily some massive trend so much as an example of a woman who's single for a reason. i see plenty of dumpy women with dumpy guys - they've got something resembling a sane view of what they can get

elevul · 2016-07-18T05:13:16+00:00

To be fair, most low-end men want the top 20% of women, too. The only difference is we don't delude ourselves into thinking we're actually entitled to it.

vengefully_yours · 2016-07-18T05:10:06+00:00

I have you beat, OP.

One of my hits on Tinder was a 39 year old woman with two "special needs" kids. After I told her I was not interested in any single moms, she told me off and I unmatched her. From then on, I kept seeing her profile for some reason. In it was the following: "6ft tall successful business owners please. PS: I have two severely special needs children" I'm staggered how she doesn't seem to understand how that hinders her dating prospects. This is a common theme with single moms in general, but Jesus H. Christ; almost 40 with two retarded kids, and she wants either Christian Grey or Edward Fucking Lewis. Back to Earth space cadet. She was the reason I deleted my Tinder profile. For those of you still on it, the latest trend is to omit the fact they have kids.

CQC3 · 2016-07-18T03:53:17+00:00

There's a specific mindset on Tinder that I don't believe is representative of reality in certain aspects. Being able to swipe is a minor feeling of power most people use. Fatties aren't going to admit that the best they can get is so far below what they idolize, much less do it so overtly on a dating app. Reality can obscure, feelings can interfere, people can seem better than they are. But when it's just a cold swipe left or right people practically disassociate from reality and only swipe right for the best.

Career helps but doesn't necessarily lead to more lays. I've seen baristas at Starbucks who slay more than guys making good money with solid careers and future job prospects.

Luckyluke23 · 2016-07-18T04:45:43+00:00

this is what I struggle with at the moment. I mean, I know I'm not the BEST looking guy or whatever... but to get NOTHING, ( even from the REALLY LOW-quality girls) is really disheartening.

it's not like I'm NOT getting my life in order either.

oh well I'll just have to work harder at it.

manwhowouldbeking · 2016-07-18T07:19:31+00:00

Ive been noticing this more and more. There is a girl in my class who is in the 45th percentile of women. Shes not overweight but just an average looking basic bitch. She constantly swings her bat with a couple of guys in my class who are competing natural body builders. Its hilarious. But the other thing I've noticed recently is that these women get laid by guys way out of there league fairly frequently. They never end up in a relationship with them but just having sex with guys outside their league makes them truly think that is the tier they should be pursuing.

-LiterallyHitler · 2016-07-18T07:23:58+00:00

I wonder how many men die virgins.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T13:31:36+00:00

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What is this?

RPFlame · 2016-07-18T07:37:24+00:00

I mean, isn't that obvious?

A fat greasy manchild in his parent's basement still wants to fuck a perfect 10.

Attraction doesn't look for "fair comparisons", it's instinctual.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T05:28:12+00:00

And...that's why these women end up alone, obviously.

Gawernator · 2016-07-18T08:01:44+00:00

Nice post. The new entitlement generation has only magnified this effect ten fold

Geleemann · 2016-07-18T09:55:07+00:00

Career only matters to gold diggers. Infact, it shouldn't even be in your bio.

mehdreamer · 2016-07-18T12:14:01+00:00

On the same note. True story : A female friend of mine, a HB7 kept sending emails and letters to Orlando Bloom, famous British actor(He played on Troy with Brad Pitt). She is "in love" with him and believes really...I mean really he can be with her.

She kept refusing all advances from normal guys..because she was hoping to catch a male model hollywood actor.

yomo86 · 2016-07-18T06:59:55+00:00

The problem is men do not retaliate with indifference anymore. Fat chick: next. Singe Mom: next; CC rider: next etc.

Do not get angry about it. She is still the one who is going to get jellious at the whore who stole this 6/10 lawyer which was her back up.

#upyourbeautystandards

dxfifa · 2016-07-18T05:19:01+00:00

In real life it's better but still not great. I'm quite tall and decent looking but a bit overweight with a burly build and I get IOI/trying to gain my attention when i go out frequently but only by HB<4/10. I'm not a top tier dude but i'm above average. Point is that these unattractive girls are at least more realistic outside of their online bubble.

These girls rightly see the top guys they want as unattainable but the next tier down (the guys girls rate as average but are actually 7-8s) are still kind of handsome but much more likely to go for them as these guys aren't innately attractive for decent looking girls.

redditalias7 · 2016-07-18T12:44:20+00:00

Can anyone else see the conflicting forces at work here? Us men here are preaching the values of improving yourself while women are getting a constantly reinforced message of body acceptance.

The more us men improve ourselves, the harder it becomes to get into the top 20%. It won't be long before the lowest rungs of the top 20% still need to be 6 feet, have 100K salaries, chiseled bodies, outgoing, great hairline etc etc.

Meanwhile how much longer before the top 20% of women will consist of women that are 180lbs, with bad attitudes and shaved half of their hair off.

The more men as a group improve themselves the more women let themselves slide. Time to ditch this place for another country of more appreciative women.

JackGetsIt · 2016-07-18T13:56:34+00:00

This is where all the female hate for 'fuckboys' and 'players' comes from. They all feel entitled to a romantic fuck session but also a commitment. Neither of which they will get. Tinder is a validation feel good app for women and nothing more. It helps them to build up and sustain living in a dream world.

Brewju · 2016-07-18T04:54:04+00:00

Thought this was a standard thing for dating apps?

ex_addict_bro · 2016-07-18T07:53:58+00:00

Problem with such posts is that we already know that and writing and reading such things won't make us look like a Ralf Lauren models.

-LiterallyHitler · 2016-07-18T07:29:15+00:00

I don't use social media at all besides plebbit, so I basically have zero chance at getting chicks. It's kinda sad, most mediocre girls I know will probably get fucked by countless chads, and I will probably never fuck some random whore. In the end we are both sad and alone.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T09:21:10+00:00

I tried tinder. Only got a couple matches.. Met the first one at the bar, pretty sure her photo was 10 years old and thirtie pounds ago.. Did not go on any more.

satanicpriest13 · 2016-07-18T12:59:17+00:00

Not refuting OP, but the same goes for men. I see all sorts of fat balding men creeping talking about the fit women in my office, or joking about acquiring the celebrity tier girls.

This is more of a general problem with people today : wanting the very best without putting any effort yourself or into yourself. Just fat women think they deserve a ripped Chad, beta anime fags think they should be able to get high test qts with unreal tits-arse to waist ratio.

0kool74 · 2016-07-18T13:19:35+00:00

you know that dating has gone to complete shit when land whales think they should be able to have standards.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T14:24:19+00:00

That why RP is mostly fail.Majority of us will never get to top 20% so why bother. Time and money invested into getting into 'top 20%' should be rather invested into your wealth and health or you risk spending best years chasing the pussy and end up as poor and lonely looser.

thisishowiwrite · 2016-07-18T04:48:55+00:00

People want the best for themselves. Thanks for the insight, champ.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T06:01:03+00:00

Hilarious. I am guessing it has something to do with having so many options thrown in front of your face in such a short period of time. She can be picky and still get online matches.

MikePatton-yakyakyak · 2016-07-18T07:08:44+00:00

The top 20% of men

How is that quantifiable? What separates the top 20% from the top 30%, for example?

marinewannabee97 · 2016-07-18T09:48:19+00:00

Yeah, I get the feeling this is why I failed in tinder. I failed at the first hurdle, eg getting a match. Protip: being a powerlifter is fine and dandy, but women care about abs not how much you can deadlift.

evoblade · 2016-07-18T11:12:09+00:00

Wait, people put their occupation on Tinder? If it's a meat market, why the hell would you put your actual occupation? Put something that makes >500k / yr, like Orthopedic Surgeon or Litigation Attorney or something like that. Even better, investment banker, that's vague as hell. I would lie like a MF'er and take a cab and say my Mercedes SLR was in the shop and I gave my driver the day off.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T08:49:56+00:00

You could say the same about men, what's your point?

hamstercide · 2016-07-18T07:35:31+00:00

pursuing an advanced degree (doctorate)

Uhh, I'd say if she's pursuing an advanced degree that means she is furthering her career and prospects. You don't have to be a wagecuck to have a career.

johnchapel · 2016-07-18T07:55:43+00:00

Is this really true? I mean, if we're talking about the VERY BOTTOM 20 percent of women here, when most of us don't even dip our toes into the bottom 70 percent....

I feel like the ABSOLUTE bottom 20 percent of women probably relegate themselves to their lives of misery, obesity, white trash, mental disorders, and old age.

But having said that, your post is solid and I get what you're saying: Women, in general, always want to date up, even the 3s and 4s who haven't realized they're 3s or 4s yet.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-07-18T12:36:17+00:00

Well that sucks for bottom 20% women, because the top dog don't need one.

drqxx · 2016-07-18T12:38:02+00:00

1. Be attractive
2. Don't be Unattractive
3. Learn to sell yourself. I took a job as a B2B (business to business) sales job ; commission only. I sucked really bad, but eventually it just clicked. Now that job is long gone. However the skill set I learned can be applied to women. Your product changes but the end result is a sale.

[deleted] · 2016-07-18T05:18:36+00:00

When you're done with todays women hate you could maybe see that men are exactly the same. That'd be nice

4thepill · 2016-07-18T04:36:20+00:00

How is this any different from men? Maybe you explained, but I didn't read since you started with AWALT.

Literallyoprah · 2016-07-18T04:46:26+00:00

No shit, straight men are gross. Would you ever choose to have sex with a 7/10 straight man if there was nothing in it for you other than venereal disease?

Title	Even the bottom 20% Women still only want the top 20% Men
Author	BurnTheToast
Upvotes	289
Comments	165
Date	July 18, 2016 3:16 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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