Utilizing Sexual Energy (Clear your brain fog)

RenaissanceMan79 · 2016-10-11T04:26:17+00:00

what if you just get laid a lot?

FrgElder · 2016-10-13T02:50:36+00:00

I've found there's a huge difference between the outlet for this sexual energy (ie sex vs masturbating). When you have sex often and don't masturbate, the sexual energy is still there for the most part. When I'm sleeping with many women very frequently, I can have sex multiple times a day. I've had sex with 3+ women in one day and haven't quenched my sexual energy desires.

With masturbating it's different, there is definitely a release of that pent up sexual energy. This can be a good thing if you need to focus and think reasonably for a while, but it lowers confidence and drive significantly. I think a big distinction between the two is the stimulant sources. With masturbation you typically have fantasy visual stimulation (ie porn or fantasizing), where as actual sex you have a lot of physical stimulation. I think the physical stimulation is a more healthy if your end goal is to be the "alpha" that fucks lots of women and has high confidence. Whenever I picture the guy I want to be, ie the high-status alpha, it's hard to picture that man hunched over in a computer chair scouring the internet for porn and playing with himself. When that man has pent up sexual energy he grabs a woman and has his way with her. Think of the alpha gorillas in the wild, they literally do whatever they want to whoever they want and indulge in their every desire. I think masturbation is a survival-mechanism that came along to keep beta's sexual frustration low and their sexual energy in check to stop them from constantly challenging the alpha and starting problems. Occasional challenges are healthy for the group as they ensure the biggest baddest gorilla is at the head of the pack. But constant infighting would be detrimental to their tribe-like society. Just as it would be to humans. Hence, masturbation.

I rarely masturbate anymore. When I do I usually binge 2-3 times in a day and watch porn. The next day I feel groggy and like complete shit. I can have sex 2-5 times a day and feel completely fine though. I don't know the difference in brain chemistry and chemicals released during self-induced orgasm and one with a partner, but I definitely notice them. I'm not ruling out a placebo effect, but all I can say is the different feelings is hugely noticeable.

Toolman890 · 2016-10-11T05:09:45+00:00

I get too hormonal on no fap. I go from on top of the world to agitated to angry to depressed all within a few hours. I guess it's because I'm not getting my usual dopamine release, but these hormones don't go away even after 20 days of no fap. It's too much to deal with. And I'm 27, not a teenager.

I've also tried to 'focus' my sexual energy and it is genuinely impossible for me except when it's on physical tasks. Try to study for something or write something and it is the most distracting thing in the world. All I can think about is sex and no matter how much I try to channel that, I can't.

I do still have no fap breaks of three to five days every now and then to recharge. Once it gets too distracting though I have to release or I'll get nothing done.

Peter_B_Long · 2016-10-11T20:27:32+00:00

As someone who has gone 223 days with no porn or fap, I can testify that this post is legit. I witnessed the same results.

Orbiter42 · 2016-10-11T08:50:18+00:00

i'd like to throw out a bizarre side thought.

humans communicate through a variety of methods. body language is commonly talked about.

scent is communication method. when your stressed, other people smell that. i'm very curious, i think that fapping, makes you smell. people pick this up at a subconscious level.

over the years, i've noticed, highly aggressive men, have a smell. i mean, x-con type men. the kind that will punch your teeth out. you can smell this type of aggression.

it makes sense to me, that men that blow their testosterone in to the air, would put off a smell.

snakehayter · 2016-10-11T04:02:28+00:00

I started NOFAP a year ago. I went from jacking off three times a day to working out 5-6 times a week and taking up painting/reading classic medieval literature.

NOFAP works, it just takes getting used to. If you can last a month then you can last a year. If you can last a year, you can last a lifetime.

RedPillandNoFap · 2016-10-12T02:46:01+00:00

A Red Pill inspired NoFap shouldn't last more than 2-3 weeks. Fap or Fuck after 2-3 weeks max. Then start over after a day or three. Heed my warning. Shit turns weird if you don't.

fidelity_ · 2016-10-11T14:42:44+00:00

Or you could just up the tren. Boom - unlimited sexual energy.

blackedoutfast · 2016-10-11T20:59:28+00:00

i don't know how you guys do it. if i go more than 3-4 days without busting a nut i'll start having wet dreams.

Dartex · 2016-10-12T18:51:45+00:00

http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com.es/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=d407ac8d83abab11

Redbeam100 · 2016-10-11T13:52:01+00:00

Look at it from an even simpler standpoint. After you're done jacking off you mostly feel like a sad fuck yet after banging a fine piece of ass you feel like a million dollars. I think masturbation is the lonely monkeys way of releasing sexual tension. Instead of doing healthier and more productive things like getting laid the monkey rather just keep pressing the jizz button because it's easier. Truthfully it fucks up your game because you grow comfortable knowing that even if you don't score in a date or succeed in an approach that you can just go home and whack it.

subjectivealpha · 2016-10-11T03:49:54+00:00

I tend to get agitated after a few days of not fapping. I need to abstain due to a pelvic floor injury but haven't had any success yet. What did you do to contain your urge to "just peek" and subsequently relapse?

zigg-_-zagg · 2016-10-11T06:31:10+00:00

I lost my libido on fucking NoFap . Fuck that shit!

Theophagist · 2016-10-11T17:55:48+00:00

I am very interested in "transmutation of sexual energy." The whole concept rings true to me. But I don't exactly understand how it is practiced and how it works.

Nm473 · 2016-10-11T21:51:34+00:00

What if I still get wet dreams if no fap/sex for more than 7 days? 23y..

endlessmindset · 2016-10-11T22:53:09+00:00

What if you wake up with huge morning wood and masturbate without porn?

throwawaypuatrp · 2016-10-12T17:40:48+00:00

Great post. In your last paragraph you talk about transmuting that energy. I've been having a hard time with this. Anytime past 3 days, I cannot focus at work at all. I actually end up leaving work on some days earlier than I should, to go day game or just do a quick fap to get the urge away. What have you guys been doing for this? As shitty as this is for me to admit, I have not been able to control it.

EntreFoxarwin · 2016-10-11T05:08:55+00:00

Aw man, 1 more fap isn't gonna hurt, am I rite?

Title	Utilizing Sexual Energy (Clear your brain fog)
Author	CamTalbot
Upvotes	80
Comments	55
Date	October 11, 2016 2:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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