ex send me a message

peguy2000 · 2019-10-18T07:45:13+00:00

This is a big brain move. Good job op

Astral-Projector · 2019-10-18T07:54:05+00:00

Block, ignore and ghost. Always.

If you reply, you have lost.

trseeker · 2019-10-18T08:39:50+00:00

If you make them think it is their idea to stay away, they will stay away.

FeedMeMore22778534 · 2019-10-18T07:47:43+00:00

I’m coming up on 3 years and lowkey hoping mine reaches out just so I can ignore and ghost her. Makes me feel weak to give her that power and I still feel pain she’s never reached out - thank you for listening

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-10-18T08:06:33+00:00

My guess is her f*ckbuddy flaked her and she didn't have an alternative at the moment. My advice: block and move on.

inushishi_no_kaze · 2019-10-18T09:31:57+00:00

Best move, she will not try to claim you raped her

x6x6x61982 · 2019-10-18T12:01:42+00:00

Damn this is really clever lol.

Maybe even should have mentioned how poor you are, and ohh thank god you contacted me, because I was just gonna ask you some money. See how quickly you could have been blocked forever.

RealHerrerasaurus · 2019-10-18T07:39:44+00:00

Hoes mad

throw-away_cuz_ynot · 2019-10-18T11:39:01+00:00

Last time an ex reached out to me I found out she had just broken up with a boyfriend. NEVER reply. All you are doing is feeding their ego.

markus_brutus · 2019-10-18T12:08:51+00:00

The most effective move is to show a leech she has nothing to leech of. Good move, stay happy.

kayfab · 2019-10-18T09:13:38+00:00

Tell her to go fuck a rubber duck

Gemjab · 2019-10-18T08:29:41+00:00

Good job their mate lol chick I use to work with did the same shit and asked me if I was still in school and what was my major I told her partying and getting girls she dropped me so quick and went off with her other potential victim Yeah bro awalt.

Nathaniel66 · 2019-10-18T11:27:19+00:00

Now type her, that you were joking, you're doing great and life never been better. Who wanna bet about the reaction :D?

2019-10-18T12:59:58+00:00

In today's day of rampant false accusations, intentionally turning them off is the safest way to do it.

2019-10-18T13:23:16+00:00

She misses you but 'fuck yer problems' apparently lol

SearchlightS0uL · 2019-10-18T09:14:22+00:00

Next level.

getfreeeeeeedom · 2019-10-18T12:37:03+00:00

I kinda did something similar recently. A sort of experiment. Girl from last year and I started texting again, I quickly escalated the conversation to telling her that I had some serious feelings for her. Even told her that I thought I was in love with her.

Her: “You really feel that way?”

Me: Yep. No doubt about it.

Her: (radio silence)

Lol

sirreaper4 · 2019-10-18T13:22:23+00:00

Dont fall for "I Miss You Season".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OTukEf6SwQ

2019-10-18T15:13:09+00:00

Its "I miss you" season gents. Never forget

Be_Memorable · 2019-10-18T15:13:19+00:00

"Miss you so much. Oh, you need ME to support you emotionally? Never mind."

Bitch of the year for sure.

Noitrasama · 2019-10-18T15:18:21+00:00

I presume most of us have at least read rollo tomasis's book the rational male or similar article from the TRP.

The rule that women are incapable of loving a man the way a man idealizes that love is so true.

another: Women love opportunistically while men love idealistically.

It's only a man who can love a woman as she is. A woman is not capable of that. It's rooted in biology.

ProdigalPlaneswalker · 2019-10-18T14:43:09+00:00

No shit. Next time this happens I'll be like, well o just got a new job as a fry cook at Wendy's. I think by next month I'll be able to move out of my friends garage into the bedroom once their grandpa dies. What's new with you?

pacman47 · 2019-10-18T16:01:48+00:00

I girl that I had a crush on back in high school (she led me on and rejected me) text me after years of no contact. She’s now divorced with two kids and tried to get me to meet with her. She said she regretted not going out with me and that she is done with “bad” men and now wants something with me. I send her a text telling her that I don’t date women with kids and ghosted her.

In a relationship with a woman with kids is a bad idea, because her kids will come first then your relationship after.

safado909 · 2019-10-18T12:14:52+00:00

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hores · 2019-10-18T14:04:03+00:00

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Loganphoenix122 · 2019-10-18T17:55:22+00:00

Never send a text before 10 am or after 7 pm, dont send more than 3 a day (1 at 10, 1 at 2:30 pm and 1 at 07:00 pm) only if she is tire 1 and shes already sucking your dick. Always be closing, phone is for meeting if shes not into it, just move on.

Global_MGTOW · 2019-10-18T18:12:56+00:00

Most women aren't interested in men who are struggling financially or emotionally. If an ex ever hits you up, just pretend you're broke and struggling with your emotions right now and she won't bother you again. Personally, I prefer to ghost exes, it drives women nuts when you ignore them and there's nothing they can do.

Either way, just goes to highlight how shitty the vast majority of women are.

Bosco_56 · 2019-10-18T20:03:42+00:00

Hopefully you don't live in a red flag state as she could use your reply to have your home invaded by the cops and any weapons you own confiscated due to you possibly being a danger to yourself.

2019-10-18T07:41:32+00:00

She's probably just in history class but I heard Robby had a crush on her so watch out dude

Metalismyfriend · 2019-10-18T13:41:25+00:00

"How to get rid of hoes".

Nice!

BadDad01234 · 2019-10-18T12:26:27+00:00

Well I mean who would be excited about that lol

Good way to turn people off. That's a hard nope to hit up an ex so was good move on your part

ScaredIllustrator · 2019-10-18T12:54:39+00:00

i just started hitting her with how depressed i am and how life is shit

took her around 5 hours to realize i wasn't in a good enough place for her to still be a good backup.

nasty bitch...

huazanim · 2019-10-18T14:17:43+00:00

Monkey brancher, she is.

mickenrorty · 2019-10-18T14:47:14+00:00

If you want loyalty get a dog. I would have strung her along to get my dick deep throated...

But each to their own

CerebralAbrasion · 2019-10-18T15:13:46+00:00

She expected to be able to say "hi I miss you" and have you put on the whole song and dance of trying to impress her. Buy her fancy dinners, be cool and witty at all times, get a fancy haircut and wear man perfume, whisper tingling details about how much money you're making.

sscoconutree · 2019-10-18T15:14:05+00:00

Sometimes you need to fake shit up in order to see the real intentions of that bitch.

MDMantis-Toboggan · 2019-10-18T15:23:58+00:00

Never to talk to your ex.

aj2467 · 2019-10-18T16:15:37+00:00

Girls do this after riding the cc for a while. Also when in between guys. Usually just pipe them with your rag on and keep it moving. Just make sure to put a packet of hot sauce in the used condom or flush it. These hoes be crazy !!!!

strainer123 · 2019-10-19T01:08:17+00:00

Depressed guys are not high value enough, I used to be really depressed and women would never go out with me when I was really down, when I got better it would rain pussy, I'm feeling a bit better right now and already women are lining up to sit on the strainer caulk, its quite ridiculous actually ahahahha

nishunter · 2019-10-18T09:29:24+00:00

Good Experience.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2019-10-18T12:53:17+00:00

Clever, u/philip_j_fry_y. That's a good test.

LOIKDU · 2019-10-18T13:55:57+00:00

Waw you've got some balls

Id rather just goast

WastrelEternal · 2019-10-18T14:38:17+00:00

She was just shaking the cat/dog biscuits to see if you'd come running. Good job getting her to leave you alone by simply being a human being with human problems.

LotBuilder · 2019-10-18T15:13:41+00:00

He played it smart. I am not MGTOW enough because I would have reconnected and banged her for a few weeks then shut it down.

NAILmg42 · 2019-10-18T15:26:51+00:00

Yeah well done. She will move onto something better now, until he is boring and never pays her attention because they lost the Harry Potter spark and never read her subtitles each time she talks;

"I'm a giant fucking child. Why did you let me vote".

Women with subtitle Hamsterlations would be the shit.

FaustoLG · 2019-10-18T16:18:27+00:00

Brother, you are smart... keep being awesome!

mgtowshrugged2020 · 2019-10-18T16:21:17+00:00

No contact is usually the best move... but what you did here, "gray rocking" her is second best option.

006rbc · 2019-10-18T16:24:02+00:00

Ah, she realized the wall is quickly approaching and is trying to lock down a provider with whomever. Good move on your part, i would never have thought to do that!

ransay3277 · 2019-10-18T16:33:29+00:00

Smart man... Make the brush off her idea.

jacketguy · 2019-10-18T16:46:19+00:00

gross what a scumbag move on her part.. “i miss u and care about u but not enough to help u when ur down”

come to think of it my ex did the same thing to me a few months ago

ogrelin · 2019-10-18T16:47:08+00:00

OP, wait until you hit your mid-30s, early-40s. That’s when they really come out of the woodwork.

FindingKeeping · 2019-10-18T16:50:37+00:00

they always do come back

Nemoitto · 2019-10-18T16:59:42+00:00

Got the texts to post up?

TacticalTamales · 2019-10-18T17:10:06+00:00

❌🧢

MysteryGhoul · 2019-10-18T17:18:23+00:00

She sounds like a narcissist hoovering you

surethingjanet · 2019-10-18T17:29:00+00:00

I’d have done the same if I was her.

Who wants to bother with depressed people? Especially when you feel emotionally needy ?

Not her, not me, not you. Legitimately no one.

Saying otherwise would be straight hypocrisy - ironically enough.

That’s why your point is flawed. You proved nothing here. Except that women are playing it smart when it comes to mating. It’s not like we didn’t know already.

DeliberatelyInsane · 2019-10-18T18:34:28+00:00

200 iq play.

ummagumma99 · 2019-10-18T20:38:29+00:00

Dont be sad, just block her

Griever114 · 2019-10-18T20:39:15+00:00

Well done. Kudos sir!

Sumfuc · 2019-10-19T00:45:49+00:00

Nice move. Need to remember that.

_Gnas_ · 2019-10-19T02:37:25+00:00

Reminds of this saying: "If you want to get rid of a girl, get down on your knees and propose"

Laliving90 · 2019-10-19T23:05:48+00:00

I’ll have to disagree on this one. No one likes to be around negative people including friends and family. You could have come across differently like “hey I’ve I’m going through some hard times right now but I’m trying to remain positive while I get back on my feet” you’re clearly stating you’re not doing well but your willing to change your situation. I understand trying to weed out trash women but sometimes you guys overdue it and shoot your self in the foot

leviathanch · 2019-10-18T15:38:11+00:00

Well. Yeah.
Women are all like "Talk about your feelings" but actually *never* do that. :'D

Going my own way is actually pretty cool, I can be way more productive and it's just annoying every time some retard comes and wants to convince me that I should get some random bitch just... because... there's no reason.

They come with "but that's irrational", just today. "Bulls*" was my answer, it's absolutely rational. There's no good reasons with I should put up with the shit of some random bitch.

There's exactly one person I ever met in my life where it would be no question that I would get together with her if she pings me, not only out of irrational reasons but also out of rational reasons.

Before I met her, I was further out on the autistic spectrum with an IQ of 105.

She was my motivation to work on myself, making use of the meds I took and now I've got an IQ of 140 (last time I've measured) and own an electronics company in China.

She's the only person on this world who has the right to ask me for a share of the cake.

Is everything peachy in my life? No. I'm fighting with emotional distress myself, mostly because I'm still beating myself up for how it went back then. But still. I don't see a reason why I should let some random hoe leech on my success, to which they haven't contributed anything.

While to this one person I owe what I am today, the engineer I am and the emotional wreck I am.

Only condition for the cake, she should try to clean the mess up she left behind.

SH3LLz862 · 2019-10-18T12:15:41+00:00

Why not just keep her on the shelf as a plaything? No commitment. EVER

2019-10-18T07:59:48+00:00

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2019-10-18T14:50:06+00:00

This post is why I’m unsubbing from here.

Love the idea. Hate the actual weirdos here. Y’all are hopeless and covering for just being weak ass men. Bye guys✌🏼

legalquestion4545 · 2019-10-18T07:46:41+00:00

lmao

you fucked up big time by expressing your emotions

you fucked up big time by adding that your sad and a loser etc

you fucked up big time replying

if your goal was to pump and dump you pretty much fucked up

the only way out is to text something like "wow my strategy of being a bitch to repel you worked great ! ;P" and then follow up by asking her for her availability and set a time for her to commode over to your place.

But honestly you don't even want to talk to her so good job on cockblocking yourself

If it was me I would pump and dump

bitch wants to monkey branch back.

Title	ex send me a message
Author	philip_j_fry_y
Upvotes	850
Comments	149
Date	October 18, 2019 7:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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