Question to the married women with n-count of 1

Cobra_x30 · 2020-04-18T21:34:18+00:00

Well, I only slept with two men, both in long term relationships. My fiance is my second and last. So I'm not a vrigin waiting for marrige, but I did decide to never have a one night stand and only have sex after the man actually shows me and tells me that he loves me.

- I'm not religious at all

- I don't have any psychological problems

- I'm interested in sex, but only in regular, vanilla stuff. I would be probably called a prude by many men on ppd. That means that I will never try bdsm, deep throats, anal or basically anything that could cause me pain or would feel like a porn sex. No tighting up or porn-like sex. And I definitely don't want to have sex everyday.

I have firneds who kept themsleves for mister Right and had only one partner (they didn't wait till marriage though) and they are pretty similar too me.

FlavFal · 2020-04-18T20:49:23+00:00

Religious

I'm not religious at all.

Sexual disinterest

No, my sex drive is quite high.

Psychological problems

Yes, this one is true. I was a terrible person to deal with before I started dating and I feel ashamed of how I treated the people around me. Thankfully I stayed alone and didn't abuse a romantic partner.

Do you think your husband is satisfied with his sex life with you?

100% sure he's happy.

Mimoxs · 2020-04-18T21:26:10+00:00

virgin woman make for unhappy marriage

According to whom? Some edgy atheist redditor with 100k in umpayable debt? Some thot who's pissed that years of getting fucked in alleys has left her empty and devoid and no man wants put up with her for more than a few days?

This post starts off assuming their perceived truths are reality and goes from there.

NarniaFox · 2020-04-18T23:32:06+00:00

I guess the author of statement assumes that every woman, whose first experience was with her husband, did it after 20 y.o. I wonder how common is it.

In my case, we've been together since 16, we're both agnostics, there aren't any psychological problems that could lead to less satisfying sex life and I'm interested in sex as much as my husband is. We're both open to experiments and we're attentive to each other. So I think we're both pretty happy with our sexual experience.

LillthOfBabylon · 2020-04-19T01:33:00+00:00

What ever happened to "Practice makes perfect"?

All of these are going to make for very unhappy sex lives unless you're a-ok with starfish sex, having to initiate every time, and knowing full well your wife does not enjoy having it with you.

Thats a huge assumption! Lord forbid that the main motivator is love and not wanton impulses.

cohost3 · 2020-04-19T05:20:39+00:00

Two of my best friends are married and have only been with each other. They both seem to have a fulfilling happy life.

DXBrigade · 2020-04-19T12:49:30+00:00

26 F. Virgin. Not strongly religious. Sex drive is normal. I suffer from social anxiety but overall I am pretty normal.

It's important to precise that my virginity is not a choice, it's a result of lack of Opportunity and lack of effort.

poppy_blu · 2020-04-18T20:19:46+00:00

Christ, people, give it a rest. Sex is not dirty or immoral, and a vagina is not a manhood prize.

Mimoxs · 2020-04-19T00:28:37+00:00

Hello, that's my paragraph

There is a direct correlation between the frequency of women attending church weekly and having zero sex partners. Source: institute for family studies.

Religious upbringings are known for undereducating children on sexuality and encouraging girls to not be aware of their bodies or sexuality, which very often results in psychological issues.

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Reisiluu · 2020-04-18T23:23:21+00:00

Do any of these apply to you? Do you think your husband is satisfied with his sex life with you?

I'm non religious or atheist, whatever you want to call it. I have never been diagnosed with mental health problems and I enjoy sex a lot. I can't read my husband's mind but I never say no to sex and often initiate, and he seems happy with what we do.

There is no way I would have waited until 25 to have sex lol. Guys who do casual until their late 20s and want a virgin girl are in for a rude awakening. You don't necessarily have to get married straight away but you do have to pair up early.

immaculacy · 2020-04-21T19:32:27+00:00

I'm not married but I really want to answer anyway.

The person who wrote that paragraph sounds really jealous and bitter.

I am religious but I became so when I was about 20-21 (I'm 21 now). I was a virgin all my teen years so I'm not a virgin for religious reasons obviously. Just moral reasons.

Psychological problems, no obviously not.

No, I'd have sex with my husband daily. Virgin married couple statistically have more frequent sex.

Troy016 · 2020-04-18T20:25:18+00:00

So you think woman who were pre married had body counts of 1.

Title	Question to the married women with n-count of 1
Author	SoUmek2
Upvotes	10
Comments	102
Date	April 18, 2020 8:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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