I'm going to admit here that I was like many guys. Victimizing myself thinking women were so cruel and selfish. Thinking that all women were supposed to treat me like my mother does. Put up with all my shit and love me unconditionally.

I felt entitled to sex just for being a good person. This stems from the fact that I thought life was fair. Or should be fair. That there was too much injustice done to me.

I still believe that everyone deserves to be loved. And ideally everybody should be sexually satisfied.

But it's not women's fault if you're born unattractive. It's not women's fault if you were born weak or raised weak . Women arent cruel. Life is.

It honestly feels liberating to stop blaming another gender. I feel stronger now. I was finally able to look at things objectively like someone on the outside instead of getting so emotional about things.

I still have moments where I want to shift the blame and say shit like "women are too picky" or "women should have empathy" but again women can have any standards or criteria they want.

I want women to be aware of the hardships of men but what else can they do about it? Date men they're not attracted to to spare feelings or force themselves to sleep with men they dont want to sleep with?

Biology and life dont give a shit. The idea that everybody gets sex and everybody gets an attractive partner is a modern construct that will leave many people dissapointed, depressed, and suicidal.