Living with my girl for a month, bad idea or no?

Annapolis_Duck · 2020-04-26T16:54:37+00:00

Lol go have fun and stop overthinking this dude.

SIR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2020-04-26T17:23:38+00:00

This is a great and rare opportunity to try before you buy and then being able to slip back into living alone with ease at the end of the experiment before ruminating on what to do next.

A month is a bit long but fuck it, just go for it and have fun bro life is about trying things out, sometimes you've got to just put yourself out there and take risks to learn and grow and live a little

drewaki · 2020-04-26T18:09:19+00:00

This sub is so fucking funny, not everything needs to be examined at a microscopic level. This isn’t scripture, if you want to go then go, if you don’t then don’t what the hell

jababa_1 · 2020-04-26T17:34:14+00:00

One month will :

Give you the chance to see how she is like when you live together and vice versa.

Expect her wanting more after it ends though.

z2a1-9 · 2020-04-26T18:28:19+00:00

yes we approve, permission granted

Acromion94 · 2020-04-26T17:01:03+00:00

Yeah bro just fuck the hell out of her for a month and then go back to your normal lifestyle

Whisper · 2020-04-26T18:29:52+00:00

Now I know you should generally never cohabitate with an LTR.

Stop listening to retards. I've been living with one of my LTRs for six fucking years.

treehauz · 2020-04-26T17:07:29+00:00

Keep your game on bro! Its gonna be a good test for your skills. Frame is the key. Have fun!

lolomotif12 · 2020-04-26T17:56:10+00:00

Keep her in your frame and take your daily red pills. This is a good opportunity to also vet her and see if she is actually LTR worthy. Just enjoy it and work on your sport fucking.

DerpJungler · 2020-04-26T19:29:47+00:00

Make sure you give her a good fuck every night and you will be fine.

Pimpcool420 · 2020-04-27T04:22:10+00:00

No reason not to, you just have to have to be able to handle lost attraction if it happens.

I had a tourist girl who came back to my city several times and we ended up taking multi-day trips together; later I stayed at her place in her city to save on hotel costs. Undoubtedly there's less attraction now than there was when we met the first few times staying at our respective places, but no regrets (live in the moment, focus on now, and if you lose some attraction layer who cares?)

shouldergirdle · 2020-04-27T15:01:48+00:00

Dude, LTR is making her move up to "wife" status. Be careful. Here is how it works:

1) Temporary living arrangement

2) She is on best behavior, cooking, cleaning, pleasant, fucking

3) Joint bank account, you know, for rent, utilities, groceries etc. She actually pays her half

4) Get a pet together

5) One month is up, everything is so great may as well just stay in the apartment together and sign a 1 yr lease

6) She gets pregnant

7) Living together, banking together, pet, baby on the way...may as well get married

8) Married

9) Sex declines, bitchy, she stop paying into the joint account, you are picking up the dog's shit, take out food, you are doing the dishes.

You are not ready for this. This is her life's mission. She has been scheming and preparing her whole life for this. You are not ready. Don't do it!

niceguylife · 2020-04-28T16:23:39+00:00

It's good you're aware of the cohabitation dangers. This is a no brainer in my mind. A test run without the commitment. If you see yourself slipping or her getting controlling, it's a lesson and you'll be better at the end of it!

__TheDon__ · 2020-04-26T18:55:52+00:00

Good idea to test the waters in regards to future cohabitation

beardestbird · 2020-04-26T19:02:30+00:00

Good test run. Enjoy

44361066 · 2020-04-26T19:14:00+00:00

Good learning experience dude! Fucking do it.

She loses attraction? Drop her.

BigTreats · 2020-04-26T20:00:50+00:00

you’re letting microscopic details get in the way of life experiences. You obviously want to

The-Real-Hulk · 2020-04-26T20:14:34+00:00

Anybody that thinks living with her for one month somehow reflects what it's going to be like living with her permanently has never lived with a woman before...

idevastate · 2020-04-26T20:34:15+00:00

Bro what. Go. This sub is a little autistic sometimes.

Krebota · 2020-04-26T20:55:14+00:00

Why the fuck should you never cohabitate with an LTR? Who told you that?

goblinboglin · 2020-04-26T20:55:24+00:00

Go do it lol.

Doesn't matter what some pRoS say.

Many have done it and are happy. Many have done it and it fucked all up.

You only hear about the fuck-ups.

TheDopestPope · 2020-04-26T21:07:47+00:00

go do it, and if it sucks then leave. you aren't going to be held hostage (probably)

L0nerizm · 2020-04-26T21:40:09+00:00

Nope not allowed! Rule 834 in Red Pill. Otherwise you will be arrested by TRP cops.

Lateralanouncer · 2020-04-26T22:59:05+00:00

Do what you want to do. If your faking it. She will figure that out. If your a natural all good and do what you want.

nexther · 2020-04-26T23:10:29+00:00

Fuck it. You know you want to... don’t let some internet losers tell you otherwise. This is about you...

nexther · 2020-04-27T00:32:25+00:00

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cfbovernfl · 2020-04-26T19:13:04+00:00

"only be a month long" mate that's quite a long time, much more than a weekend getaway. You also shouldn't be vacationing anywhere other than your home during the quarantine.

fakeaccount687 · 2020-04-26T17:04:22+00:00

A month? That's tricky. Idk if that's long enough to cause the same issues that cohabitation does.

Loss of attraction, resentment

Title	Living with my girl for a month, bad idea or no?
Author	Desadarius
Upvotes	62
Comments	69
Date	April 26, 2020 4:49 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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