Been seing this girl for almost a year exclusively, and before anyone asks why im in a relationship, well, I promoted her after plating 3 different ones. This is a keeper.. for now atleast.
She’s always been keen on having me move in with her, asks around about serious stuff which I’ve always just laughed off or avoided all together.
However this morning she hits me with the «When are we getting married?» bomb. She had a grin on her face and had this false joke of a tone which instantly gave away that she was indeed 100% serious.
Now, I’m obviously laughing in my head and I couldn’t possibly go down that road so I told her «We can do it whenever you want, I just need to notify my other girlfriends and see if they are okay with me settling down».
Afterwards I would just dodge the bullet, but I have a feeling she’s always gonna be looking for my ultimate commitment both by moving in with her and ultimately marrying her, which I obviously have no intention of doing.
Is there a way to keep these comfort tests fed without having to actually give in to such nonsense? Do I give her a false idea that I actually will marry her one day?