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[–]BumblingBetaWannabe Chad Thundercock19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
They want you to open up about the feelings when those feelings are positive. Not when they're negative feelings and not when they make you seem weak.
Well that's what I gathered anyway. I might be wrong.
[–]paint-the-world-red5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup. This the way I do it, just keep all the dark shit, well, in the dark.
[–]phantomholiday143[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sir please...do not...do that...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Guns are therapeutic
[–]phantomholiday143[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You said it. As long as your feelings aren’t uncomfortable or inconvenient for anyone, please share them lmao
[–]SocietalEngineering7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’ve realized that when women tell us what they want “men” to do, they are actually only talking about the top 5%. Anyone less than that isn’t really a man and isn’t even on their radar at all.
[–]IfThenPill"too cute to be a SJW"3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Even if you're in the top 5% falling for it is failing the shit test. She'll be happy for a while then you lose your Chad status.
[–]SocietalEngineering1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ehh I know the newer Redpill theory says that, but older PUA theory says don’t be predictable, which I tend to agree with more. If you’re always cold/masculine in response to every situation, you get boring.
[–]IfThenPill"too cute to be a SJW"1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think agreeing and amplifying to absurdity makes up for that. Talking about feelings in a comical way is enough. But never in a serious way is what I've learned...
[–]Ecocavalry16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a shit test you failed.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Music? Novels? Poetry? Men are at the top of these fields that require talking about your feelings.
[–]BothWaysItGoesLibertarian11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Novels? Poetry? Men are at the top of these fields that require talking about your feelings.
Literally noone cares about this stuff unless you are studying English Lit PhD or hang out with NEETs with Creative Writing degrees.
[–]tickledpic8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I guess you didn't know that movies are produced from written text...
[–]BothWaysItGoesLibertarian11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Ah, Avengers and Star Wars, the pinnacle of expression of timid human nature.
[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I really wouldn't brag about not reading books and only watching superhero movies.....
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_34 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That's not what he is saying, that's what the majority coomsomes
[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Literally everyone consumes more forms of filmed media than superhero movies. Wtf do you think television is?
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_31 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What do you think are the highest grossing movies?
[–]flamingoinghomeIs three lizards in trench coat0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Gone With The Wind, Avatar, and Titanic--inflation-adjusted.
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_30 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm talking about current day
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A large chunk of the world cares about these things and they’re what survive from one century to the next.
[–]inkybreadbox1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is this... a serious comment...?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everything you do and see is shaped by books, movies and music. It might not be a direct influence but it's there.
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_32 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No one fucking reads you idiot
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I do and I’d rather be single than w someone who doesn’t 🤷♀️
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_31 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah we get it your not like most girls, tea and a good book ect
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao I literally have a bottom barrel preference that as a human being you have a minimal amount of curiosity and intelligence. The bar for men is on the floor.
[–]IHAVETHEHIGHGROUND_30 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha movie goes burr
[–]DebatePonyLet's ride!2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You should be open about your feelings, just don't become a whiney bitch and start treating your gf like your personal therapist. You have to spread that shit out to multiple people.
Women tend to already do that with their family and friends, men seem to think that they can only do it with one person. And it gets exhausting being that dumping ground, maybe guys should stop shitting on other guys for being open so men can spread out their negative feelings to family and friends, the same way women do.
[–]darkrelic134 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Both men and women fuck this up. So many times I have been the emotional sponge and just had to sit and suck up all the negativity of my partner and as soon as I say one thing that's even remotely bothering me I'm being negative and it's not attractive and blah blah.
[–]DebatePonyLet's ride!3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Very true. In general we humans kinda suck at putting other's needs ahead of our own wants.
[–]darkrelic131 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally agree with you on that. I won't say that men don't have a big problem with this, because they do. Something that we as men need to do something about. If only we could all just treat each other good. Totally agree with the "other's needs before our own wants" I like that.
Yeeeeees
[–]catemlBlue Pill Woman2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
If you're a man that expressed his feelings, and then you're like "YOU SAID EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS, BUT YOU DON'T SEEM TO CARE WHY I'M SAD!!!!":
Think about the last time your wife/gf/sister/whatever was crying. Maybe you said "Oh don't be sad!", and did want her not to be sad. Maybe instead you went and got your favourite spear to guard the door, to do your manly man job protecting the defenceless emotional women from the bears.
Try and remember how much you actually cared about what she was crying about.
Aaaaaand.... there you go.
We want you to express your feelings because y'all keep topping yourself rather than just going to a fucking doctor, and then we'd have to go to the shop to get a card for your mother, and it's a whole thing. And because if you cry its better than if you bottle it up, get drunk and beat the shit out of us for looking at you.
It's not because we actually care about the content of whatever bullshit existential crisis you're having. Any more than you care about ours.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Women are simultaneously the strongest and weakest person in the room. Amazing.
[–]catemlBlue Pill Woman0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't know how we manage it. Maybe vaginal discharge is magic.
But seriously guys: Talk about your feelings. It's good for you. It's not because it gets us hot to watch you cry. We'd rather patiently pretend to care about how it still bothers you that you didn't get picked for the football team when you were 9 and all your problems come from that, than have you kill yourselves or drink yourself to death. We do care enough to prefer you not kill yourselves.
It's only the same shit you've been doing for us when we talk about how someone was mean to us at work and you pretend to care. (Oh yeah btw - we all know you don't really care. It's OK. We realised some time ago that its still nice to talk about why you're sad even if the other person isn't finding it rational and fascinating. Try it.)
TLDR
[–]catemlBlue Pill Woman-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TLDR: I care if you're sad. I don't really care about why you're sad - I assume it's just one of the personally relevant bullshit reasons people get sad sometimes. Thats the way that men feel about women's problems too. In fact just people-people in general. So I don't know why this is surprising to anyone.
Valid point made
[–]psypD4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually what they speak about is even worse. They ask you to show "vulnerability".
'' The quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally. ''
Indeed only the biggest idiot would take that transparent shit seriously .
Pretty much:
Can you open up your legs to the possibility of me kicking you in the nuts?
[–]Bichonoidentificado0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also, this contrasts very much with the "be confident" thing.
[–]DicamVeritatemRed Pill Man5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most males with the least smidgeon of awareness learn at an early age that sharing their emotions is not a good idea. Punishments for it are severe and upsides minuscule.
Men are not women.
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now you see that evil will always triumph. Because good is dumb
[–]LillthOfBabylon3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Opening up about your feelings ≠ Telling us how much you wish Stacy would fuck you.
[–]9017351 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I find it interesting how, when asked how they feel, guys on average usually start listing things they did. Human doings.
[–]CyJackX1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
had a gf comment this to me once; when I am asked about my day/how it went, I'd just talk about things that happened. She found it more engaging when I talk about how I felt about those things, and I thought that was a pretty good point.
This is wholesome
[–]inkybreadbox0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth.
[–]Dawndolphin123 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody cares
[–]boomcheese441 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Its only OK if you are an Alpha male.
[–]blondierespondy-3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, stop being a PUSSYYYYYY
[–]trve_21e1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Holy shit your pic is so fucking blurry
Lmaooo
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[–]speakingintonguezNo Pill0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yeah and what about it
Idk dude like go to therapy?
[–]praisethesun799Not actually a fag 😉0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can be open about your feelings, and it's actually a requirement for long term relationships, but most guys don't understand you need to be at least somewhat masculine to pull it off
[–]stoicmanchild-2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
feelings are for broads and fags
[–]phantomholiday143[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Actually, feelings are for people who aren’t psychopaths
[–]stoicmanchild0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
not sadness or fear... those feelings are for pussies
[–]Zippo-Cat-2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True tho, if you believe the bluepill bullshit you are a fucking idiot
[–]spaceman_spliff777-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s time to understand dudes, there’s only one time it’s acceptable to talk about your feelings: when you and your friends are 11 drinks deep. You can unload on each other, share a good round of commiseration, then deny remembering the conversation ever took place.
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