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[–]MalloryDameFDS Apprentice195 points196 points197 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yup, no point teaching them, especially because once they master it they'll go treat some other girl well - not you.
[–]Inspection-CriticalFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They'll go bother some other girl for sure, but in my experience, they don't actually treat her better.
[–]cupittycakesFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol this is hopeful, my gfs tried to remind me of all his negative qualities after he left
"He's still going to be boring to the next girl!"
Hope so, I hope he didn't take/learn about the extroverted/fun part of me!!!
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know if they treat them better or not, but sometimes they lose interest for you (or never were that interested in you to begin with) but will do grand gestures like marrying the next one shortly or apparently be all head over heels for the next one and do with them lots of the stuff they didn't do with you.
Many years ago I had an ex who said he didn't want to marry or have kids. I was a ride or die pickmeisha (I'm still cringing at my old self) and he broke up with me out of the blue by text and a few months later he was proposing to some girl and they're still together with 2 children after all these years.
[–]Marionberry12345FDS Newbie133 points134 points135 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This! It’s better to become less available and start seeing other people than to “have a conversation about the relationship/situationship/etc.”
[–][deleted] 74 points75 points76 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Plus that shit is exhausting too. Especially since lvm Or nvm always try to find a way to one up you and force the conversation where they want it to be. No thanks, did that enough. I’ll quietly make my exit
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m like...🙄
[–]cupittycakesFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This so true, keeps my situationship on his toes 🤭
Lol I mean I softly exit if you getting lazy!😝
[–]LittleBitchyBananaFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We are not their mother ladies 💁♀️
[–]stackofwitsFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This might be better as its own post, but, out of curiosity, how has everyone else been doing since COVID-19 turned the world upside down?
This tweet really hit home for me because I myself have struggled with balancing how I want to be treated by a partner with the implications of a global pandemic. In fact, I ended my relationship with a man I considered a HVM; we live ~3.5 miles away from each other, and the fact that we only spent 5 days together between March and July was an insult to my primary love language (quality time). I just couldn’t do it anymore.
I don’t regret my decision, but, at the same time, the thought of meeting someone new seems so exhausting, especially since we are still in a pandemic. I’m just curious to hear how y’all have been managing because it has been a tough few months!
[–]chainsawbobcatFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
5 days between March and July is NOT cool land that's my lowest love language
[–]stackofwitsFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh yeah no doubt!! I was giving my experience as an example since I’m asking other people for theirs! The five days is the exact reason I dumped him!
[–]chainsawbobcatFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yup and let me validate that decision again sis!!!!
[–]stackofwitsFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh thank you so much it is legitimately life-giving 😂
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't know what is my love language but I for sure need quality consistent time in person. I can not live off just texting and phone calls. Even if long distance there needs to be a plan to meet and as the relationship progresses of finding a way of living close. You did good. Maybe the pandemic didn't help of course but 5 days in person in 5 months is very little to sustain any relationship I think.
I'm also scared of dating in this pandemic. I live in a place with very low numbers of cases (compared to many other countries) and it was dying down here but now it looks like it's spiking a bit. It's scary. I went on a date while I was on holidays but felt very unsure if I was doing the right thing or not (we're not on a lockdown and have very low numbers but still). Complicated times to find "the one".
[–]XiekoFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You definitely made the right choice to get rid of him. Quality time is tied as my top love language and I've been in a few long distance relationships. He didn't care to spend quality time with you, or else he would have put more effort into electronic dates.
[–]makeitfeelfarawayPickmeisha™️42 points43 points44 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i'd rather be alone than go through this emotional trauma.
[–]riseofthericeFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As if they're common enough to get 2...
I'd just enjoy the mirror wall in my room, none of the heartbreak and time waste, all of the love and respect.
[–]ughme2222FDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is so incredibly important
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I have 5 on rotation...🔥
[–]cupittycakesFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol oh 'the days'
I don't even have the energy for that rn!! Haha
Plus y'all made me realize a few on my rotation were not deserving of the rotation 😉
[–]ShondaGivesFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FACTS!!!!!!
[–]reeesushisauce69At-Risk Pick Me Youth16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
matter fact, get 2
QUEEN SHIT 👑✨😤
[–]degnan1214FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
WAT
[–]PicklesNBaconPickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s no way
[–]degnan1214FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see!
[–]potatocreationsFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean communication is important, but there does come a point where there are things you should be doing already out of respect for me and not because I asked you to. Like, yes, I obviously want to hang out, don’t make me ask you five thousand times.
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[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]makeitfeelfarawayPickmeisha™️42 points43 points44 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]riseofthericeFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]reeesushisauce69At-Risk Pick Me Youth16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]PicklesNBaconPickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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