‘Most of these people are men in their mid -30’s’ Man kills entire family because he wanted out

Ink3dmama · 2020-04-24T19:54:53+00:00

I convinced my ex husband to sell his handgun to buy weed before I filed for divorced because I was afraid he’d kill us all when I told him (he’d been knowingly overdrafting our account to buy weed for over a year and he’d threatened to kill me and the kids multiple times).

nurseratchet1212 · 2020-04-24T20:56:52+00:00

The thing that continues to irk me about him and Scott Peterson are that there are asshats out there that want to portray Shannan and Laci respectively as “controlling” for wanting their husbands to act like HVM husbands. And that there’s a shitload of pickmeishas that write them fan mail in prison. -_-

Men like them are why I’m scared to get married, ever. And why I’m never going to accept fb friend requests from rando men I’ve never met, no matter how cute they are.

brainsandb00bs · 2020-04-24T20:41:14+00:00

I don’t understand why men are in such a rush to go back to living in general filth and squalor on their own, with no bed sheets, no head board, and an inbox full of women leaving their messages on delivered or read.

Davina33 · 2020-04-24T19:27:05+00:00

Utterly heartbreaking. I'll never forget this family.

TheOGJammies · 2020-04-25T00:18:09+00:00

I don’t understand men who do this in countries where divorce is perfectly legal. Just leave. Or do it old school style and say you’re going down to the liquor store for cigarettes and never come back. Hell, if you really want totally out just fake your own death. So many options other than kill your whole family.

2020-04-24T20:49:54+00:00

In light of all the rise in domestic violence due to the shut down, here are some facts from the NCADV National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.org. The statistics are actually sickening. And men wonder why women feel the way we do. Makes me laugh sometimes how men like to Conveniently Ignore this clear cut data.

I also linked a fact sheet PDF below where sourced this from. 📊

DID YOU KNOW?

Domestic Violence

1 in 4 women, and 1 in 9 men experience severe intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner traumatic stress disorder, use of victim services, contraction of sexually transmitted diseases, etc. commonly considered “domestic violence”.

1 in 7 women, and 1 in 25 men have been injured by an intimate partner.

1 in 7 women, and 1 in 18 men have been stalked. Stalking causes the target to fear she/he/they

Domestic violence is prevalent in every community, and affects all people regardless of age, socio-economic status, sexual orientation, gender, race, religion, or nationality. Physical violence is often accompanied by emotionally abusive and controlling behavior as part of a much larger, systematic pattern of dominance and control. Domestic violence can result in physical injury, psychological trauma, and even death. The devastating consequences of domestic violence can cross generations and last a lifetime.

SEXUAL ASSAULT

1 in 5 women and 1 in 59 men in the United States is raped during his/her lifetime.

9.4% of women in the United States experience intimate partner sexual assault in their lifetimes.

STALKING

19.3 million women and 5.1 million men in the United States have been stalked.

66.2% of female stalking victims reported stalking by a current or former intimate partner.

If you are in crisis, contact The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or www.TheHotline.org. Please visit the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence’s website at www.ncadv.org for more fact sheet

https://assets.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence2.pdf

edit: corrected formatting

Novemberinthechair · 2020-04-24T21:44:08+00:00

These assholes don't even get pregnant, gestate then caretake the kids. Oh no, you may have to support the family you didn't even have to put yourself in medical danger to have, you fucking jellyfish? Boo hoo. Get a vasectomy next time and be realistic enough to realize you can't handle adult shit.

FDSmom · 2020-04-25T04:04:47+00:00

This is why the #1 thing to look for in a man is empathy. Can he truly feel empathy? Helps weed out all sorts of personality disorders.

Does he feel compassion? How does he treat those less fortunate than him? How does he act when no one is looking?

charliefoxyfeet · 2020-04-24T20:31:32+00:00

Ugh this case shook me to my core, I think because I could see the man I was with doing something like this. I felt it in my gut. I was obsessed with this case.

I’m so glad I’m out of that now.

ItsInTheVault · 2020-04-25T00:38:59+00:00

Even before clicking I knew it would be Chris Watts. The details of the children’s murders are especially horrific. After seeing her sister strangled the other daughter said to Chris “are you going to do to me what you did to Bella?” (the sister). Not to mention the way he disposed of them. (I used to be active on the subreddit, that’s how I know the details).

It is sooo rare that women kill their children and when they do they usually have postpartum psychosis which is ignored by their husbands. (see: Andrea Yates).

Haagen-Dazs-Queen · 2020-04-24T20:01:34+00:00

Of course. Men are naturally more aggressive so I'm not surprised.

Ink3dmama · 2020-04-25T15:20:24+00:00

Thank you all!

Title	‘Most of these people are men in their mid -30’s’ Man kills entire family because he wanted out
Author	throwaway09871234456
Upvotes	115
Comments	33
Date	April 24, 2020 7:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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