Commenters blame op 🙄

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-20T08:52:39+00:00

Yeah he totally asked for sex with another woman to fulfill his porno fantasy because the two of them are really secure and he totally respects her! /s

2020-02-20T09:07:45+00:00

Sounds like you need to actually talk about it.

It being the END of the relationship.

Because a man who asks for a 3-some is giving you important insight into his mind. This is a man who is not ready to settle down monogamously and prioritizes "sowing his wild oats" over having a happy relationship.

He also does NOT love you as much as you think he does.

Kekekeke7777 · 2020-02-20T09:50:06+00:00

Bothers me that the advice is always to talk about it, as if these men are soooo easy/warm/loving/understanding/empathetic to talk to about how they hurt you.

LadyHormoneMonster · 2020-02-20T09:50:26+00:00

Guys love to say “Let it go” to dismiss your concerns. Oh I bet you’d just “let it go” if your gf asked for a MMF threesome.

CeriseNoire · 2020-02-20T10:11:24+00:00

Amazing advice. He uncovered something about himself that she hates and that makes her feel awful. So the logical thing is to let it go and wait for more red flags. It's totally normal for a man to turn her bisexuality into a porn fantasy for himself. It's totally because they're SO 🤡 secure, not because he sees her sexual orientation as an opportunity for himself to ogle at two women together and because he really wants to fuck another woman and not call it cheating. These eXpErTs are really having some big brain moments. I wish I had such expertise. Wanna see the male commenters get asked to bring another man in and then calmly talking it out and saying it must be because their relationship is SO strong

ReignRain95 · 2020-02-20T10:28:04+00:00

this is why you dont go posting your problems on reddit 🙄 most advice on reddit is shit

redbirdflies · 2020-02-20T13:54:06+00:00

I love how these lvms think there is some magical supply of women just waiting to be asked to jump into bed with them and their girlfriends. They’re lucky they even got ONE girl to sleep with them. Most of them can barely keep it up for one round of sex with their porn sick limp dicks. 🙄🙄🙄

MidnightCarp · 2020-02-20T13:38:13+00:00

The first comment, ewww. So women just aren't allowed to have boundaries and clearly express them without HaVinG a TaLk aBouT iT, even when it's about him fucking some other woman which is, idk, usually not something that warrants a longer conversation? Oh I'm not saying you have to do it, just don't shut it down without a fair discussion where he can plead and manipulate you into accepting it! Maybe you can meet him halfway, just have a threesome a few times instead of constantly like he wants? This would be a compromise between what both of you want :) :)

I bet no one would be telling you to not "just shut it down without discussion" if it was a woman asking to bring another man in the bedroom. 🙄

greenappletw · 2020-02-20T14:35:03+00:00

The gaslighting 😩

He showed her doesn't really care all that much about her as a person. How do you ask someone you love to basically cheat in front of them?

He doesn't love her, he doesn't respect her, he probably views her and all other women as objects. Her instincts are 100% right.

The way the public reacts to this shit is why I can't stand most people. I hope someone from here sends her a lifeline.

darkhorse8419 · 2020-02-20T15:50:13+00:00

I love how men expect us to understand we’re just objects. They couldn’t possibly be satisfied with one woman. We’re replaceable holes, but how many women would get beaten for even asking for a MMF?

1Here4Bach · 2020-02-20T14:46:22+00:00

When ever I see stuff like this I imagine what the average reddit males reaction would be if the genders were reversed and she asked to have a 3 some with another man.

They would tell him to leave her and if he stays he’s a cuck.

Title	Commenters blame op 🙄
Author	VeganRatGod
Upvotes	45
Comments	22
Date	February 20, 2020 6:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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