Dating for women 35+

m4dam3x · 2019-12-08T02:38:23+00:00

Please don’t ever get the impression that the older a person is, the more “wise” or “self-aware” they have become.

React to a person based on their actions and the way they communicate with you.

Uglyoldncranky1982 · 2019-12-08T02:49:40+00:00

Lol no, they don't get any better. If anything, they get more set in their idiotic ways.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-12-08T03:15:48+00:00

Be careful. They have a lot of dark corners and issues and they are more skillful at hiding their dirt. Imagine thinking you found a mature partner at age 50, remarrying, only to receive a child support subpoena in the mail with your new husband’s name on it. Then imagine opening it and reading that child’s birthdate was your wedding day. True story of my mom & stepdad.

Trust no one.

juliannawackenhat · 2019-12-08T03:01:22+00:00

Unfortunately, it seems that men just perfect their tactics with age.

JuddHerpatow · 2019-12-08T05:06:10+00:00

Here's the shitshow parade of the over 40 men I've in the last three months. It's not great. They're not great all "high status" none "high value"

Doctor, 48?: Ghosted me multiple times. Called on Thanksgiving with a "Hope you're good." No apology for the early year ghost.

Attorney 43ish: Breadcrumbed me for three months after I disclosed herpes. He could have just said no for fucks sake.

Pilot, 50's: I told him I did not like his hot/cold shit and he replied with a neg.

Age + Education DO NOT EQUATE TO HIGH VALUE. A lot of OLD older dudes are coming back form a divorce so they're on the casual track but want to spend a lot of time talking about what a crazy bitch their ex-wives were. Or they are 48 and want to have children.

It's horrifying.

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-08T03:15:49+00:00

Not at all. Same shit but bald with limp dick. Barf.

PlatyupsCommittee · 2019-12-08T03:56:45+00:00

My thought is, if you are lucky enough to be past their desirable age (35 or younger) you don't have to worry and/or fear them approaching you.

No no no. Not true. It's true that some people become more mature and just over all better with age, but it's not something you should expect or rely on. A lot of men assume 35+ women are desperate and treat those women accordingly. In reality, older women (and I don't honestly see a 35yo woman as being "older" - women who take care of themselves seem to age way more slowly than men - but I guess RedPill dudes think that's old) can still be extremely desirable. It's just that some men think the older women don't know that. So they think they can bang a hot woman while also making her kiss their feet since the guy thinks the woman will have no self-esteem past the age of 35.

You absolutely cannot assume that you're "safe" once you reach a certain age or that men are mature once they reach a certain age.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-08T02:59:24+00:00

I'm sorry to say that you are VERY wrong. I gave an ugly, overweight 41 yr old NERD, who hadn't had a girlfriend in five years, a chance. He love bombed me until I started to fall for him. As soon as I did, two months later, he verbally abused me and then tried to excuse it. I ended up in a very toxic relationship for over a year. I dumped him repeatedly. He's the reason I know so much about cluster B personality disorders. I was in a weird place when I met him and used him to get away from my roommate and for a once in a lifetime trip that HE paid for. I recognized the abuse tactics early on and pushed back very hard. But as soon as my roommate was gone, I got TF out. I contacted his last girlfriend and he treated her much worse and was much more low value with her. He improved, but BARELY. I had to do a lot of self therapy to get over that. And now I'm back to being absolutely ruthless to men. It feels good to go back to my roots.

Ugly, old, fat......they don't change. They're either high value or they aren't. Men don't improve with age at all. I personally think they get worse.

You also run the risk of major erectile dysfunction or lack of libido. That keeps happening to me with men over 35. It KEEPS happening. I am a very fit, very feminine, and very young looking 39. I personally think I look better than ever. I'm having as much trouble as I did at 21. We have to vet these men like crazy if we want to be truly happy.

letsberealforamoment · 2019-12-08T03:36:37+00:00

The only good thing about them is you are less likely to get dick pics (ed maybe) and the inane fuckbois lingo like "wyd?"

APrivatephilosophy · 2019-12-08T06:06:22+00:00

Imagine they’re taught to play piano at a young age. Then they play every day for 35 or 45 years.

Do you think they’re less skilled because they don’t have a teacher anymore? They are the teacher.

Misogyny gets to be second nature, they still do it all day every day, they just quit bragging about it.

rftw2013 · 2019-12-08T07:53:36+00:00

I'm sorry to report that they're just as bad as the young LVM. They lie, about the material (age, relationship status) and the trivial. They cheat.

LVM don't change as they age, they just get fatter and grayer.

throwawayy92838383 · 2019-12-08T04:01:29+00:00

All men trash. Older men are just uglier.

Title	Dating for women 35+
Author	intersIn
Upvotes	23
Comments	26
Date	December 8, 2019 2:31 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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