So brand new account, mostly because... well, Reddit is a sexist fucking trashpit, and I've only sorta read some stuff here or there. Anyway, let me tell you about the worst guy I've ever met.

So I met this guy summer 2018 and we started going out. I saw some red flags and ducked out, and wanted to be friends. He completely disappeared for 4 months and ruined my entire fall, since I honestly enjoyed his company. Then he came back, and seemed to have matured, so we gave it another try.

A month in, things are getting physical, and he backs out the last minute. While this is going on, he's having sleepovers with his female "BFF". He leads my dumb ass on until he freaks out and (thankfully) blocks me, because I accidentally missed a date.

Last week I found out he is dating my best friend. They have apparently been talking for 2 straight months, and she finally felt comfortable sharing it with our friend groups. She's super into him, and basically anything I say about him is dismissed as lies.

She's stressing out because he threatened to leave because "I make him uncomfortable", and that he "can't stand being in the same room as me". He refuses to commit to her, just because he apparently despises me now, and doesn't wanna be close to anyone associated with me. I still stupidly care a little bit, and this guy is destroying us both, emotionally.

Aside from the blocking, I honestly thought we were decently cool, but apparently he absolutely hates my guts, and honestly, this seems like a scheme or some shit to ruin me, (sorry for sounding conspiratorial). So, sisters, what are your takes?