Sorry delete if not allowed. Sisters what do you think of someone that seems like a HVM (he has a great career, very educated, professional, dresses well, knows how to take care of himself) but I have this worry that he might be gay? This isn't to offend anyone in the community. He keeps bringing up that "everyone thinks I'm gay but I'm not". He even said it's because of his voice sounding "gay" and "woman like" and because he is so passionate about broadway, female fashion, singing, and the LGBTQ community. He has a very professional job and recently had an incident where some of his coworkers were saying homophobic things. He was deeply and rightfully upset so he stood up to them and took action with higher levels. I was impressed. He later told me he has to go to a lot of professional events with all of his coworkers who always bring their wives and girlfriends and hes worried about his public appearance. He wants to bring me. His longest relationship has not even been 5 months and he is 30 years old. This was concerning for me as well. My friends have all said that they think he is in the closet or just in denial, worrying about how hed look bringing a Male to his events. One other friend she just would friend zone him. My gut is telling me he that he is either gay or bi and hasnt been honest with himself. I dated a man years back that was gay and knew it the whole time he dated me. He said he just needed to please his dad by acting like he had a girlfriend. I'm scared to repeat that. He didnt tell me he was gay until we broke up. FDS what is your opinion on this? Drop him? Give him a chance?