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What helped you the most to get a 'I am the prize mentality'?

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December 13, 2018

I used to wonder if a girl likes me instead of would I like to have sex with her so my frame is not strong yet. This comes from scarcity I guess. How do I develop an abundance mentality without having abundance?

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Title What helped you the most to get a 'I am the prize mentality'?
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Date 13 December 2018 11:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Lorddevonshire125 points126 points  (4 children) | Copy

Lift, pay attention to your grooming, get a few new stylish pieces of clothing, nice shoes and a nice watch if you aren't already doing these things. Read books. I have a stack of books I have read and refer to often. Get over the fear of rejection. A great book is "the little red book of selling" by Jeffrey Gitomer. I read it years ago and it was a kick in the ass. Get used to talking to people, not just women. Read "the rational male" by Rollo Tomassi and then read it again. Hang out with other guys who are good with girls and successful in life, even if they aren't red pill aware but exude the qualities you want to have. Once you start having success it will snowball, sometimes quickly. Be prepared.

[–]peacemakerzzz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for this reminder.

[–]FightForYourWay1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Dope post dude.

[–]Lorddevonshire1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man, I appreciate the compliment!

[–]Count_Giggles112 points113 points  (4 children) | Copy

fake it till you make it.

But seriously. projecting the mentality will make for a smooth transition once it sinks in.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the right answer.

Change your behaviour by actually changing it. Your mind will follow.

[–]Evelion16 points17 points  (2 children) | Copy

fake it TO make it is the better approach ;)

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

[–]Count_Giggles1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i like that one

[–]cant__find__username24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

Raise your SMV. With a dirt SMV, you can believe in it as strong as you want, but reality is nothing will happen.

[–]empatheticapathetic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Basically. Success breeds further self belief. But you need that first tiny bit, even if you sort of made it up in your head.

[–]m0xyZep57 points58 points  (33 children) | Copy

I don't usually like sharing cheesy inspirational YouTube videos, but here you go:

That dude is nuts. A madlad, even.

Here's the weirdest part about what he is talking about: it doesn't matter what you believe, the technique just works.

[–]bruiser1849 points50 points  (22 children) | Copy

It's crazy isn't it, craziest part is it actually does work.

At the risk of sounding like a schizo, I really do believe your subconscious mind attracts things into your life. Listening to or writing out positive affirmations is a great way to reprogram your mind. It hugely helped me, as I really often repeated in my head things like how I am what every woman wants, how great I am, how successful I am etc.

Listening to/writing this shit out changes the way your subconscious thinks and so projects into your reality. If you fucking drill it into your mind that you're the shit, guess fucking what, that becomes your reality.

Call me mental, call me cheesy whatever but I swear reprogramming your inner mind will reflect hugely on your outer world. Stop thinking you're a pussy, stop thinking you're poor, stop thinking you're weak; get into the mindset that you are the single greatest thing on the planet, and that is how it will be.

Edit: Conor McGregor talks a lot about this. Whether you like him or not, he's got life at his fingertips.

[–]m0xyZep15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

The only crazy part is society itself.

And to risk over-simplifying, how often do people make great realizations and have epiphanies about what's "really important" in life to only forget these things a few weeks later?

Plenty of techniques for "programming" although the most effective is to shut off the TV and stay off Facebook and just relax or take a walk. TV is not the good kind of "programming."

[–]1redhawkes6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Read The Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz if you want to understand why it works.

[–]bruiser182 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

If this is the book I'm thinking of, pretty sure I've read into it before. Good book. All about using the subconscious mind, changing your self image and living as that version of yourself. You attract more of what you feel, your vibration is everything.

[–]1redhawkes0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yea, but the core thing is to act as if. Thinking that you're the shit alone won't do much, but if you act as if you're the shit, your subconscious mind will catch up with time and it'll become second nature.

Your subconscience believes whats true or not what your conscious mind tells it to be and acts accordingly. Also Pook talks about that in The Book Of Pook ('unite the dream with the day').

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. If you seen what I've replied to other people, that's exactly what I'm saying. That's why it's gotta be subconscious. You've gotta believe it and it's gotta be part of you.

I might have forgot to mention that - it's no use writing/saying affirmations and forgetting about them. Getting it into your subconscious mind, acting as if and believing that you already have this, that's how it comes about.

"What you think, you create; what you feel, you attract; what you imagine, you become".

Glad to see other TRPers embracing LOA.

[–]robbiedigital0014 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

So you're saying literally write out the person you want to be? Is there a specific way to do this that has worked for you? Thanks

[–]bruiser1811 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy

So you're saying literally write out the person you want to be?

Ehh, yeah that's kind of it.

I'll explain more: basically you think of some affirmations. What do you want to be? Write it out in the "I am" form and make it present tense.

"I am successful"

"I am wealthy"

"I am powerful"

Repeating these things in your head and writing them out changes your subconscious to think "oh, I'm actually not a beta faggot, I'm a successful and powerful man". It's reprogramming your brain.

I won't go on about it too much here, but for those interested search "reprogram your subconscious mind" on Google or YouTube. There are good YouTube channels like YouAreCreators that have great content.

As for what worked for me - listening to affirmations. It rewired my brain to make me more successful in a good few different ways. Good luck bro.

[–]robbiedigital0011 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Cheers I will give this a crack

[–]isodomize2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you really wanna try something maybe do Jordan Petersons authoring program. Something along the lines of writing out where you want to be in 10 years and also writing out where you dont want to be in 10 years and using that as your little hell that ultimately scares you from slipping into your bad habits.

[–]isodomize2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeaaa, all great until you check your bank account and realize you're not wealthy and have sub 10k in there. Then what do ya do? Change the meaning of wealthy to instead mean you've got your good health and a decent family??

[–]bruiser181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol I see your point. But that's why it's called reprogramming. You don't write affirmations a few times and then check to see how much you just made. It's continuous, over a long time, that's when you start to program your mind to attract more of what it is you want.

I don't believe in the "ask the universe for a million quid and you'll have it next week". It's about training your brain for success.

[–]MeanCaregiver2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

When I was 15, I was sick of my life I hated how I was I was morbidly obese I was depressed and I was failing school and my family life was fucked up and one day I woke up and said fuck all this shit and I started to subconsciously manifest my life in 20 years I wanted to be financially free and live in peace alone from everyone I’m 18 now I’ve lost nearly 90 lbs I’ve cut my toxic family members out from my life and I’ve went from a few thousand dollars to a multi-millionaire and I dropped out junior year focused on making money and daily putting in 60-70 hours a week but to the outside world my family and family friends think I’m a loser low life who’s got nothing going on and all this from training my subconscious and being self aware of the bigger picture.

[–]bruiser182 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's fucking amazing man great job. Visualizing, affirming and acting as if is the best way to manifest the life you want. It's working for me right now too.

Congratulations bro keep on winning

[–]Mr_KenSpeckle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If your approach works for you and others, great. I’m not going to try to change your mind. But what works for me is slightly different.

I don’t tell myself I’m the greatest in the world. I think I would feel like I was full of shit. But neither do I beat up on myself. I tell myself that everyday is mine to win or lose. It’s all up to me.

And if I do the things I need to do, then much more often than not, I’m going to win. And if I don’t do the things I need to do, I’ll probably lose and, yeah, I’m a piece of shit (today). But tomorrow I have a chance again to win or lose.

With this attitude, over time, you start to internalize this correlation, yes, you can do this IF you put in the work; but, no, you’re not special.

In my experience the outer confidence comes naturally from faithfully putting in the work.

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If that's what works for you, then you keep doing you bro.

The law of attraction dictates that what vibration you are in is what you will attract more of. If you feel like the greatest ever, you will attract more of that. Some people won't believe in that which is cool and I see why, I used to be one of those people.

Naturally I have days where I feel like I'm nothing, but I always try live in that vibration of "I'm the best version of myself". Got rejected by a girl? Why would I give a fuck I've got plenty. Lost money? Fuck it, I'm a money making machine I'll get it back.

[–]slimslap17 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Do you have anything (links, etc) with Conor talking about this? Great post btw

[–]bruiser180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


There's so much stuff about Conor and the law of attraction. Literally just search into YouTube "Conor Mcgregor law of attraction" and you'll find plenty of good videos

[–]frontiermarine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

programming your subconscious mind while you sleep is very powerful . I used to think all that spirituality stuff was nonsense at first but i discovered this blog post on the subject years ago and it changed my life.

[–]bruiser181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great post. I used to be the same, I thought it was bullshit. If you were to walk up to me this time last year and start preaching all this to me I'd have thought you were a headcase.

Subliminal affirmations are really great because they change your subconscious mind to believe something, without the doubts of your conscious mind. Early this year I listened to an "attract beautiful women" sub for about 3 weeks. I didn't really pay much mind to it, I'd listen for about 20 mins a day while doing my homework. Shockingly, I was (still am) getting approached by girls all the time, girls randomly adding me on snapchat, shit like that.

The power of affirmations + visualising and acting as if I already had my goal is what got me where I am. Last year I was about 135 lbs (6ft), done bad in school, was in an unhappy relationship. Fast forward to now - everything I visualised and believed I already had is now true. I'm 170lbs, regularly fuck HB8s+, am making a lot of money at 18, doing well in school etc etc.

Its amazing shit man

[–]HumbleTrees0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Read the biology of belief by Bruce Lipton. Talks to the same effect at a physiological level. But yea I don't think this is quacky at all. 'The Secret' calls it the law of attraction and the universe provides. I'm not so sure it's that though. I think affirmation and subconscious belief beget the actions required to then make that a conscious reality. The universe downstairs provide, you alter your actions subconsciously to acquire.

[–]bruiser183 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yup you're spot on. A lot of people will call bullshit but I am 100% convinced the law of attraction is real.

I don't really talk about all that magic genie stuff like trying to manifest certain objects, but I have had huge success by changing my thoughts to be more positive, listening to positive affirmations and that brought about major things in my life like more wealth, specific friends, success in business, girls always approach me and more.

[–]HumbleTrees0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Glad it works for u man. Check the book out btw. Fascinating read. Starts out a bit science but get past that bit.

[–]cojohnso2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is actually real - Kaiser uses this technique for faster physical, mental, & emotional healing after operations.

Basically, you give the anesthesiologist what you want/envision moving forward, and he reads them to you as you’re waking up from anesthesia

[–]m0xyZep2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

*if you wake up from it

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[–]cant__find__username0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Have you used any of these programs?

[–]sh0t0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bruce LIpton is personal hero

[–]m0xyZep-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

I would stay away from online pay services if that's what you're asking, in fact, the YT video was pretty straightforward and I'm not so sure what question you're asking.

[–]Divine_Instrument4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

I think he’s referring to the part of the video where he mentions using headphones and programs just as your falling asleep sort of like hypnosis. He also mentions you can buy programs. Are there programs for this kind of thing that you can listen to available anywhere you know of? Videos on YouTube? I believe that’s what he’s getting asking.

[–]m0xyZep0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Well, personally I find that it is possible to produce one's own "program" with pretty basic equipment + a computer (most smartphones could probably handle the whole job tbh) but you could literally spend unlimited monies gathering equiptment to make the "perfect" audio track. My point is that it doesn't even have to be a perfect "program" to work to your advantage.

The recording I experimented with was more focused on "monk mode" things with stoic attitude and anxiety relief type things sort of mixed together. I woke up the next day feeling better than I had in probably over a year.

I haven't done any "sessions" more than one night as I'm trying to figure out comfortable headphones, I can sleep on my back but full size headphones are very uncomfortable with any movement, and in-ear headphones are just as bad if not worse in my opinion.

Just simple stuff with a basic FX loop and some white noise in the background. It's almost like deciding what you want to focus on and not having to stress about remembering what you want to improve or second guess what your main goal is. Program your mindset, and go do it, basically.

Key template phrase from video: "You want to improve _________."

One of the few times I did this (so far,) I actually had the volume just right and I started to really really relax and doze off but it was such a deep, calm relaxation from basically just laying down - it amazed me.

On buying programs: not sure what to say and just from a layman's perspective, I think one's own voice may be best suited for something like this. As far as the actual content of what to put in it, it can literally be anything if you think about it... Just put what you want lol

[–]Divine_Instrument1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is interesting. I’ve actually noticed something pretty similar with listening to podcasts and YouTube videos. I like to throw my headphones on and listen to them while I’m doing chores, in car, lifting, etc. I’ve noticed I’ve started to internalize some of the things that are discussed despite having not really been paying too much active attention to them. They’re kind of just background noise but my subconscious brain seems to pick it up regardless. It does sound a bit wacky but I might try this. I don’t know anything about recording audio so I’ll have to experiment a bit. Thank you for this.

[–]m0xyZep0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh yeah, slow it down a bit, lower the pitch, add a delay and reverb and you'll shit yourself thinking the voice of God is commanding you to want to improve your shit test contingencies...

and welcome.

[–]dtyler8628 points29 points  (6 children) | Copy

Analyze the choices most women make. When they’re alone, do they read? Do they exercise not JUST to post it on social media? Do they only do what society expects of them? Are they “basic”? Do they build anything? Are they passionate about anything?

When I start to ask myself these questions of girls specifically attractive ones the answer to each of those questions is almost always a definitive no. That said I don’t believe anyone is better than them if they answer the questions the same way. I can go on a laundry list of things that I do that growing up I thought we’re just kind of geeky hobbies but now as an adult I can say have contributed to me being a well rounded and knowledgeable person that is very entertained by myself, loves to explore and learn. If girls look like they are just being pretty waiting to be hit on and still pass judgment, they can get right the fuck out of my life and often my mentality is what makes them want to stay in my life.

I’ve had a girl that thought she was hot shit walk into my apartment and ridicule my guitars on the wall, my framed art and a satanic bible next to the Wall Street journal on my coffee table. She couldn’t fathom what I was or why I displayed any of these. It’s not a display, it’s where I live; I read ANYTHING and love and make art as well as am a musician. Just her tone and judge mental look didn’t convince me I could own her, it made me not want to deal with her entirely.

THAT is the mentality I believe the TRP encourages. Not pretending but really valuing yourself above the approval of boring, vapid “basic bitches.”

[–]SalporinRP21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

Exactly. 99% of women consider some bullshit like traveling or netflix to be a hobby.

So I just remember that and am like "yeah I'm definitely a prize compared to that bitch" lol

[–]dtyler869 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. Traveling is fun and I suppose could be a hobby, but even then it’s amazing to see “how” they travel. I know one girl who used to be a suicide girl and I had so many judgemental thoughts about her, but when she travels she travels alone, she hikes, she stays in tents by herself and I’m truly impressed by her overall zest for life and completely independent and totally self-sufficient manner and lack of constant social media updates.

I’ve traveled with ex-gfs that don’t care about museums, they’re picky eaters, they bitch about the locals all while CONSTANTLY updating Instagram.. it’s pretty obvious when you’d rather be gay with yourself than be with this girl for the combined moments you spend orgasming with her that it’s time to move on alone with a higher self worth mindset.

[–]no-negativity-3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

She sounds classless.

[–]dtyler861 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Totally. The kind of girl that does nothing but talk about brunch every time I see her which fortunately has diminished greatly

[–]acithetic1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

satanic bible

Just curious, why?

[–]dtyler862 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have read a bunch of other religious texts just out of curiosity and the Satanic Bible seemed like it was next in line. I don’t claim or feel that I’m a Satanist, but I do have some pretty luciferian views so it kind of made sense to check it out. Not as intriguing as I thought it would be.

[–]Stokestix 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Actually work my ass off to become a prize?

I look great in clothes, even better naked. -> lift

I have good job. -> work hard

I am confident and outgoing and social. I make people laugh all the time. -> play even harder

I have my own hobbies, interests and missions.

[–]no-negativity-11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m not gay or nothin but you sound hot bro

[–]cojohnso4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude, for real

[–]EnthuMotivInspir8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

"If you build it, they will come"

I lifted weights and lost weight, which made me traditionally attractive. Having a better body, I bought new clothes that fit my muscles well.

Being traditionally attractive alone did not give me that mentality, but girls reinforced it by showing me more attention. As you go about your day, when girls start referring to you as 'the hot guy' or start approaching you, the mentality sort of manifests.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Become excellent at something, or a couple of somethings, and the Confidence will flow. Ex. I am a good athlete (from youth) and I write and perform original music. Once you have that, whatever it may be for you, it's easy.

[–]GetMeLaidAlot17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Seeing other guys that don't put in half the work that I do get laid and reading the sidebar. Taking hold of your own life and realizing that you get to decide where people fit into your life. This part goes beyond sexual strategy and more so into the territory of just valuing your own time that makes up your life.

[–]cafeitalia6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Work on yourself and you will be the prize. If you are in school get your lazy ass to the gym, swim, run, play sports be active. Your energy will make people want to be around you. Don't be lazy get your mind out and get a job. Make money. Learn to make money, learn to balance a budget instead of leaning on financial aids student loans mommy and daddy. You will then not give a flying f*ck about whether a girl likes you or not. You will pick and choose.

[–]Olram_Sacul10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Getting my shit together and remembering the times I was successful

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Having an above average physique

[–]1319Skew6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your life is the most priceless thing that you have jurisdiction over.

It is finite.

You will die and with it your experiences and perspective will be gone forever.

Friends, family, loves and experiences will come and go. You will still move forward. You can't move forward once you're gone.

With that in mind, I choose to value myself above all others. It doesn't mean that I can't care or love others. It does mean that the most priceless thing I can give someone is my time. I can never get that back. So, I choose to surround myself with people that bring value or happiness to my life. All other things would be a waste.

This works for me.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Honestly, I look at myself in the mirror and ask “how many guys your age are in this good of shape, are as smart are you, and are as creatively talented as you” and the answer is always very few.

[–]dingleburry_joe5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

For real, most guys like getting drunk and playing video games all the time on their day off. Many work out sure but spend so much of their time chasing pussy. It’s better when that shit comes to me. I don’t chase my whiskey why the fuck would I chase you.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t chase my whiskey why the fuck would I chase you

right on

[–]ht2k97 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I go to the gym, run, my body is in better shape than most guys, I improve myself everyday by reading, working, studying and I can talk well and argue with my knowledge. I am a fun a guy to be around and I have my intersting life.

What fucking thing women offer other than pussy.

[–]plenty_of_eesh2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

I moved to a far flung part of the world where I was rich, tall, and exotic instead of average, average, average.

I didn't stay there forever, but I brought back some extra confidence and experience with me.... Plus a generally more worldly outlook which has social value as well as SMV.

[–]meowsero1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Where's that?

[–]plenty_of_eesh0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

In my case: Bahia, Brazil. But there are thousands round the world.

[–]Mfkn_Starboy0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

are you fluent in Portuguese? or were you able to get by with just English alone

[–]plenty_of_eesh0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Somewhere in between.

It took me about a few months to get any traction at all.

Was still somewhat spurious though.

At the two year mark I hit my stride... my text game reached some kind of level that seemed to open more doors.

But obviously YMMV. My style is more nerdy charm... Of course being ripped and a great dancer would go a long way towards success. You can work on those almost anywhe as well, though.

[–]Rkingpin8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lifting + Having a mission

[–]ChemicalGiraffe2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Lift and make sure every corner of your house has a mirror.

  2. Improve yourself finance wise and make sure you achieve goals in this area.

  3. Network with the best people you can.

When you achieve 2 out of the three, you will clearly know you are the prize.

[–]Andgelyo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Going to class with mostly girls while retaining my masculinity, being physically fit, popular, and one of the most intelligent people in my class. Would get IOIs just waking past groups of girls. People telling me “I feel like most of the teachers like you”. People wanting to be my friend out of nowhere. People being nice to me for no reason. Matching with plenty of girls on tinder. Getting hundreds of nudes. Having an above average lay count. Having an above average education level.
Guys getting insecure around their girlfriends around me. Girls feeling my arms when I was in class. Guy friends telling me I’m charming. The list goes on.

All of these is the result of extremely hard work and investing in myself.

[–]redbananaboard1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mixed Martial Arts, more money, and male fashion. In other words, build a life I'm fuckin' happy with on regular basis.

[–]El_Serpiente_Roja1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Setting a real concrete objective goal and meeting gives real confidence not this gimmicky fake shit. Small stuff too like i had a pair of pants i couldnt fit and after diet and working out now they are too big...regardless of what i think or anyone else i am objectively skinnier so i can have confidence in that.

[–]lacaguana1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've worked out everyday 5 am, 2 hours, im buff and have a nice start up, do you think any self entitled girl deserves to be with someone who has put this kind of work into himself? Dont think so

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[–]sh0t0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This creature speaks truth

unless your face is ugly then nothing will turn you into a prize

[–]MNCPA1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 6' and earn six figures*.

*Most of this is from my salary, which mostly goes to child support. I average 80+ work weeks, including my side hustles. Essentially, I'm working myself to death, trying to afford a life that I don't want.

I'm the prize because I simply don't have time to waste.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being the prize

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

To be honest it was because I simultaneously improved myself in many ways (lifting, better grooming, better style, career planning, hobbies, etc.) while realizing 99% of women weren't shit. I had destroyed by BP programming of thinking women were "strong" or some bullshit just because they existed.

I realized that I actually am the prize compared to some harlot who's looks will fade in 8-10 years and then she'll be stuck with having "traveling" and "netflix" as a hobby.

[–]StopGaming12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Literally do what it takes to be the prize.

Every single day we have multiple choices to make. And even though we all know what we should be doing or what would be the better decision in the long term, we still chose the easier path.

I guarantee you that you can't have a loser mentality if you do all the shit you know you should be doing.

[–]checkmarks260 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lifting imo is the start of everything. Or it was for me.

[–]ArdAtak0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think you can pretend or fake it all you want. But to truly internalize it you have to have success with women, receive IOI's, and hear them tell you how they feel about you enough times until you believe it.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Work hard to own your frame, and improve it. We all have down days...self doubt, self criticism...but the more we work at changing limiting beliefs...those down moments become challenges, devalidate all the negative thinking.

Reading no more Mr Nice Guy' was big, for me. Lifting...and realising I had defeated the kind of life challenges that would kill most guys.

My frame is strong as fuck, on a good day...and it literally is an honour for a girl to be qualified by me.

[–]hugaddiction0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

make yourself into the guy the girl you want, wants.

[–]1Tarmyniatur0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What helped you the most to get a 'I am the prize mentality'?

Being elite at something.

[–]FwoGiZ0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Maybe you are misunderstanding redpill ? You are supposed to build yourself into such a person, not fake it or pretend.

After you have your shit together, you're buffed up from hitting the gym, you have your career in gear and good decent friends around you, you won't be able to not see yourself as the prize.

[–]Bitscoinmooning0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I literally mog everyone at my gym my strength level is far beyond the 99.999% in the world I'm not even roiding yet.

[–]UsefulClue-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

When I started making $350k/year, I felt like nothing could get me down. It's amazing what money can do for your ego.

[–]Dat_Black_Guy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

prove it, lemme have some.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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