Why do women like withholding sex?

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-11-02T18:21:33+00:00

The only card women have is sex.

comcain · 2020-11-02T18:08:29+00:00

It's a power trip, basically. Can I make him beg for it? What can I get from him in exchange for it?

"There's some whores in this house..."

Musicgoon · 2020-11-02T20:13:16+00:00

Most guys are SIMPlords. Their chick will withhold sex and they will hang their head low and sulk. They will take it like a little bitch. This is a nuclear shit test. And a whole month without sex is ridiculous.

I tend to laugh at this stuff. I've had a few girls state ,"I'm not fucking you today", after a disagreement. They might as well put up a neon sign saying ,"I want you". All I had to do is dial up the charm a bit and I was back inside of them.

What a SIMP or cuck won't do is call her bluff: "Ok. You're not obligated to have sex. I respect your right to say no.😊 Let's just call ourselves good friends. You won't be burdened with having to have sex with me. I'll go get sex and you get a platonic friend. Win win". Then just smile like you're proud of such a great idea.

Edit: Something I would like to add after reading the comments. Someone stated that when you're exclusive you give up all your power. I used to think that way. You still have power if you have balls. You can walk away from a LTR at any time, for any reason. Soft next, demotion, and hard next still are tools for a guy in an LTR. Keep that in mind.

mesnok · 2020-11-02T20:06:49+00:00

gives them a sense of power

all relationships have a power dynamic and in most of them these days its swung ridiculously far into the womens hands because men dont know their worth and are willing to put up with stuff like this

don’t put up with anything you find unacceptable and stick to your boundaries

i-am-the-prize · 2020-11-02T18:35:57+00:00

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Jiu-Jitsu-addict · 2020-11-02T20:37:51+00:00

Because they are all ego-tistical cunts. Don't waste your time with these broads. Find ones who will never do that

daddysgotanew · 2020-11-02T22:27:34+00:00

They don’t if they are actually attracted to you. This most likely means you will date down a couple points but she’ll always be ready in that case

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-11-02T21:37:20+00:00

Because that is the only thing you cannot achieve without them.

cfbovernfl · 2020-11-02T18:21:47+00:00

They don't if your SMV is high. Focus on yourself first.

Pelikahn · 2020-11-02T22:41:28+00:00

Because it’s the only power they have

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-11-02T19:16:56+00:00

I heard there was gonna be a "pink out" aka a pussy embargo if they don't get a female president soon...yawn....

__TheDon__ · 2020-11-02T23:40:04+00:00

It’s their only source of power, so they treat it as such.

SeriousAccount0 · 2020-11-03T00:34:34+00:00

Because it's the only thing of value they have and therefore their only bargaining chip.

Rev_Irreverent · 2020-11-02T19:55:22+00:00

My wife never dared doing this. (1) We both know she needs it more than i do, (2) i believe i'm damn good at pleasing her in bed and (3) that would basically be the death of our relationship.

TheMistakesWeMake · 2020-11-02T18:45:41+00:00

To be honest, I think some women enjoy withholding as a power trip, but in my experience most don’t. If they think you’re hot/attractive they’ll jump into bed with you. Whilst they can/do play games, a lot of the time we men tell ourselves that due to not being high enough SMV (in their eyes).

That’s not to say there aren’t entitled women out there who are 5s but think they warrant a 9 before they’ll put out... but then why would you care about them anyway.

Women’s thoughts are like the weather, forever changing and fluid. They’re neither right nor wrong, mostly just a representation of how they feel in a given moment. The posts are just attention seeking crap. There’d be no celibacy if Chad were to walk through their door, so why give a shit what they post about, it means nothing.

Snowboard18 · 2020-11-02T19:08:11+00:00

Because they know how much men would do it get that

It’s really the root of all their manipulation on men. A mans desire to fuck is very powerful and women know that, so they want to make the guy do tons of shit for them by withholding sex.

It’s like the “how to train your bitch” thing w do here. Withdrawl your attention when she’s acting out of line and reward with extra attention when she’s being a good girl. But the women train men with rewarding him with sex or withdrawling sex

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-11-02T19:15:38+00:00

Their all bitches but only a certain type withholds sex and uses it as a weapon and that's your cluster ladies!

redhawkes · 2020-11-02T22:05:12+00:00

I’m seeing post from women

blabla actions/words

HauntingYam0 · 2020-11-03T02:37:48+00:00

It's their only leverage... if you let it be.

IXseed · 2020-11-02T21:19:41+00:00

Stop caring so much about what ppl say on social media. If a girl has the power to keep from giving a dude the pussy, she don't find him attractive. That's all that matters.

DullIntroduction · 2020-11-02T18:25:15+00:00

This is what happens when men give up all their sexual power and leverage by entering an exclusive relationship.

Of course when you're that empowered as a female you'll tend to have some fun with it.

moontripper1246 · 2020-11-03T01:21:55+00:00

I've literally never experienced this

Title	Why do women like withholding sex?
Author	RuleTheOne
Upvotes	9
Comments	36
Date	November 2, 2020 6:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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