Is 29 too late for a real change in dating life?

themostgianthorse · 2021-02-09T18:50:30+00:00

No. It’s not too late. Stumbled on this at 33. Sidebar and lift. Get to work.

Musicgoon · 2021-02-09T18:40:58+00:00

No. You're making excuses. You still have your peak smv years to go. Get out there and spin plates.

Snowboard18 · 2021-02-09T18:42:32+00:00

No it’s not too late. Why the fuck would you think it’s too late ??

Sounds like your just rationalizing an excuse to not better yourself

ReeeeDrumpf · 2021-02-09T18:39:31+00:00

Are you at 8% body fat, have a 6 figure job, a house/condo and a nice car?

No?

Then you havn't tried anything and coming up with excuses to carry on doing the same thing that hasn't been working. Yes life sucks for ugly/average guys and you have to try harder. Sorry you didn't win the genetic lottery.

AnonChadThunder · 2021-02-09T20:16:52+00:00

It’s too late when you’re dead

-Ivar-TheBoneless · 2021-02-10T00:24:57+00:00

What that is when real life starts for a man. Pretty soon you'll get easy pussy thrown at you from desperate 30+ year old chicks and you can still go after the fresh 24 year olds. It's a win win.

You better pick yourself up now and get it together before you end up here again in 5 years asking the Same question.

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-02-09T20:09:02+00:00

I'm 42 and do just fine with women of all ages more or less, although I'm not really interested in the ones younger than 24 or so

Don_Draper27 · 2021-02-09T19:15:08+00:00

You could be plating and living the fuck out of life if you really wanted to. You don't seem to want to, or at least, really want to enough to get your shit together.

You're gonna be 30 anyway, at as well spend it living the life you want.

You're gonna be 40 anyway, at as well spend it living the life you want.

Etc.

reddit_hypnosis · 2021-02-10T03:20:57+00:00

At 29 I actually tried my GFTOW event after a long breakup. That summer I did a cute 19 year old and several others. At 30 I started dating an honest to god 21 year old 8. She was beautiful and smart and other than being a bit fucked up by her friends and social media pressure to fit in, she was a good girl. We spent a year together. At 34 I started dating a cute 23 year old that looked more like 19.

We never stayed in a hotel over $125, never ate a meal that came out to over $70 with drinks, and we drove around in my 10+ year old pickup truck.

I dont have instagram. My facebook hasnt changed in years.

2021-02-09T20:21:47+00:00

Not really.

I just started spinning plates when I was 25. I went basically three years without intimacy on monk mode. I then left monk mode and have been spinning 3-4 plates consistently for a year now.

amwfhunter · 2021-02-10T04:32:42+00:00

BusterVadge · 2021-02-11T00:49:09+00:00

Take good care of yourself and maximize your SMV. Fuck social media. Stay off it, and do your own thing. Women find it more intriguing if you look like you should be on, but aren't.

BlondeHornyElf · 2021-02-10T17:33:08+00:00

fat loser 22 year-old boy vs. handsome successful 40 year old man.

^^^ which guy do you think your oneitis wants to fuck???

Usmc5523 · 2021-02-09T20:38:14+00:00

Guys don’t even really peak until their mid 30’s. That is provided you are taking care of yourself and working to better your life. I’m only 23 so I can not speak from experience but from what I gather being a single attractive guy in your 30’s is when a lot of things start to go your way, if you’ve been grinding.

btt069 · 2021-02-10T11:01:28+00:00

its never too late to do the good thing. it will be late if you overthink it.

Lift, meditate, eat healthy, sleep well, save money, dont do drugs, socialize.

chicks will always be there if you have high SMV.

SoulRedemption · 2021-02-09T22:24:04+00:00

Any type of change requires you to make the change.

You are here looking for some sort of validation to help you motivate to make that change.

Stop.

Check the basics. Make the changes you think that can help your dating life.

You are here because you are either looking for an excuse or a kick in the ass. Ask yourself this. Is it the age, or is it you that is reluctant to change cuz of some sort of fear?

bearbludaddy · 2021-02-09T22:19:20+00:00

I got better numbers and better women in my 30s than my twenties. 40s now and smv is still high.

Men don't have a wall.

berttbeans996 · 2021-02-09T21:08:00+00:00

No.

Hit the weight room. Get in amazing shape. Upgrade your wardrobe. Take high quality pics. Hop on a dating app for passive girls. Go out and meet women.

Kodiak01 · 2021-02-09T19:57:58+00:00

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cunningcaring · 2021-02-09T19:23:22+00:00

Twenty nine is young and your best years are all ahead of you.

Warframe_Immortal · 2021-02-09T18:54:05+00:00

I have money and I look good, I just lack... GAME :) Women have interest in me, but not the quality of women I want, I just wanted to know it's not too late, because most guys have their greatest memories with girls in their twenties, I had multiple arguments with LTR, breakups and so on and I want to better my dating.

I have money, and train, but I just lack other things. I'm not looking for excuse, just for motivation that someone has been there and done it.

Title	Is 29 too late for a real change in dating life?
Author	Warframe_Immortal
Upvotes	5
Comments	39
Date	February 9, 2021 6:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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