Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girls

BPasFuck · 2021-05-09T19:09:58+00:00

All plates break eventually.

You need to basically tell her something that's essentially, "sorry, not sorry, I like you, but I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing. I'm sorry if that's a deal breaker-- I want you to be happy."

Of course, what you're really saying is, "I want you to be happy, but not enough to change a fucking thing that I'm doing."

So-- figure out how to express all that, nicely, in words that are yours, and rock on.

Protocol_Apollo · 2021-05-09T19:39:36+00:00

Ignore.

No need to get into a DEER conversation about why you need to bang other girls etc.

Plates have to inspire commitment not strong arm you into it.

HillaryRodhamFan · 2021-05-09T19:30:20+00:00

This happens all the time. Call me a fortune teller because this is what will happen, 100%: You say you won't be exclusive. She threatens to stop things. You say "ok". Forget about it. Later she will come back wanting you more than before. Pretend this episode never happened.

throwitdownman · 2021-05-09T20:06:23+00:00

News flash, every plate in the history of platehood gets jealous and eventually wants their man’s exclusivity.

You do whatever you want, don’t do things to make her happy. She’s in your frame, not the other way around. If you stay strong, she’ll change her life to cater to yours.

sauceyzaddy · 2021-05-09T23:04:15+00:00

Bro who the fuck cares lmao if you don’t like it next her

-since · 2021-05-09T21:21:47+00:00

Plates break. It's why you spin a few

One thing you didn't mention is how long you've had this plate for.

If its kinda like a month, then just hold firm. You can string her along if you want and just say you like to take your time and see how things develop.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-05-10T00:10:35+00:00

Suggest you both hook up with other girls, together.

Current-Ticket4214 · 2021-05-09T21:23:20+00:00

You know the answer in your heart. It’s a no. Stop letting your hamster tell you she’s worth it.

jrr6415sun · 2021-05-09T22:56:46+00:00

anytime I go exclusive with a girl they immediately lose interest even if they were extremely interested before. Then it makes me feel like i'm cheating if I go to a different plate. I don't really do exclusive anymore.

ThatOneTy · 2021-05-10T01:53:44+00:00

Ehhh girls always have a guy or guys on the side and lie through their teeth that they don’t do do whatcha gotta do. Play by their rules or yours.

PiperBigBell · 2021-05-09T19:47:14+00:00

Your plate should nevee assume she's the only one. Next due to you ruining the interaction

drkinferno72 · 2021-05-09T23:25:50+00:00

Promote another plate

Of course remember to wrap it up

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-05-09T20:41:32+00:00

Tell her you're not interested in exclusivity, and you want to take a break. You need to initiate the break.

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-05-10T05:26:34+00:00

All women want to put the wild tiger in a cage. As soon as she gets the wild tiger in a cage, the wild tiger loses what made it a wild tiger in the first place and becomes a tame domesticated animal. Then she loses interest.

If she knows you’re a player but still wants to form a real relationship with you, then she is unwittingly trying to turn you into something that she would never have been attracted to in the first place. I agree with the other commenters, stay the course my friend. When you meet a woman that is worthy of your monogamous commitment you’ll know it.

akihonj · 2021-05-09T21:11:49+00:00

Hard next move on replace one plate with a shiny new one.

dynospectrum7 · 2021-05-09T20:37:53+00:00

The sidebar answers this question better than 95% of the responses you will get here including my bs.

But if you really don’t care just say some dumb shit like “Oh, thought you were doing the same” and don’t bring it up anymore.

froze_gold · 2021-05-10T02:25:13+00:00

Hit her with the "Do what you want" liner

Intrepid_Artist · 2021-05-10T15:37:53+00:00

It's not what a girl wants, is all about what she needs.

She needs your dominance.

Girl plays tricks with your mind. She has male friends and checking out who is more alpha.

You tell her, ok i will give a thought of it and next time when she brings it up, hey babe you didn't take that seriously, right. Aren't we grown up?

MrNeurotypical · 2021-05-10T23:56:44+00:00

Plot twist: make her an orbiter. Use her to trigger pre-selection in other women. Be that one-sided friend who never does anything for her but expects her to do everything. "let's just be friends". Keep leading her on that one day, when you've had enough pussy, you might consider the possibility of committing to her, but right now you're "finding yourself" and "want to be sure". In the meantime, she may accompany you to the bar as your buddy while you go get a bunch of other girls and sleep with them, not her.

tetrachromancy · 2021-05-12T04:44:47+00:00

She’s trying to force your hand in this game of poker.

What would a red piller do?

You call her bluff, be fine if she ends up ghosting you for a few weeks, and then bone her again when she doesn’t get commitment from the other simp she’s fucking right now.

SteveSan82 · 2021-05-10T01:50:51+00:00

Why are you even asking? Male friends means guys that she fucks.

Exclusivity? Haven't you The Rational Male?

curvedbymykind · 2021-05-09T22:31:09+00:00

Is she plate #1 or #4? Drop her if anything less than 1.

If she is the best one by far i say keep her

King_of_kings4 · 2021-05-09T23:51:36+00:00

Just next her, it ain't worth it. Never is.

Once you take the bait it will very rapidly turn into "what are we, where is this going, you never buy me flowers".

Unless you're ready to marry this girl, next her.

Alittihad01 · 2021-05-09T19:49:13+00:00

Cheat and let them all find out.

that is the fun and exciting part of banging multiple bitches , it's nerdy to try to hide it , men like that are cowards.

tell the bitches phrases like:

- i was training

- i'm a great man , just because i fuck lots of girls doesn't mean i'm not good

- i'm at the highest level of men , what do you expect me when you're not around? sit home and play video games?

- baby these things happen , you should act more mature

make fun of them , humiliate them , tell them to fuck off if needed

and always make them believe you gonna fuck other bitches when they aren't around , even if you don't.

RedDeAngelo · 2021-05-09T20:53:06+00:00

with her but a huge flag was her having a lot male friends

Ask her to stop talking and hanging out with all her male friends, and when she says no, then say well im gonna keep my female friends too.

Lice138 · 2021-05-10T02:21:30+00:00

That’s a weird way to ask for a promotion

2021-05-10T04:24:22+00:00

Yes. You’ll be doing her a favor if you let her go.

michael1962-01 · 2021-05-10T05:46:06+00:00

You do what she wants....

.....the way to the dark side young padawan....

powermetalvictory · 2021-05-10T07:43:39+00:00

How about stop being a degenerate fornicator?

Title	Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girls
Author	RepresentativeTale14
Upvotes	104
Comments	67
Date	May 9, 2021 7:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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