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[–]curlywurlyprincessFDS Newbie 120 points121 points122 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
It’s an instant red flag. Men know how damaging it is to label a woman crazy so they weaponize that term to silence us. When a guy claims his ex was crazy he is not to be trusted
[–]Twolipz_78FDS Newbie 57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And he doesn’t even have to use the word “crazy” but complain about her personality as well.
[–]Amazing_Wolverine_37FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of my last serious crushes ended when I realized the person I liked sort of complained about everyone in his life. It wasn't whiny so much as confiding in me for emotional labor but I figured dollars to donuts I'd be on the other side of that eventually if we stayed connected and, well, I've already experienced that.
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 102 points103 points104 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"All my exes are crazy" = "I'm a gaslighting, cheating fuckboi who will make you insecure by negging you while I look at insta models"
They always tell on themselves.
[–]BezzazzFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bonus points if they "hate saying their ex(es) are crazy" but they would "always accuse them of cheating"
100% it's because he fucking WAS. Ask me how I found out 🤡
[–]samara37 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They were doing something shady that made her radar pop off...some of these guys are constantly paying attention to other girls when they have a girlfriend, or act ambiguous in public on purpose, then wonder why they have girlfriends who are insecure. Instead of consoling and lifting them up, they will compare them to Beyoncé and wish they had a bad a$$ bitch who pays for all their shit and looks hot even after a long day of work and taking care of kids
[–]NanaNanaBooBoo_ 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or they actually had mental health issues which he exploited! Used and abused a person who was mentally unstable.
[–]LeyMioFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If a restaurant owner claims that all their former customers went into hospital due to severe stomach cramps, would you even give their foods a chance? Same for a guy who claims that all his ex gfs went crazy. He is obviously the problem.
[–]Struggleis4realFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaa I remember telling some scrote “WHY YOU LYING” over and over (broken record method) and he finally packed his shit up because I wouldn’t succumb to his gaslighting.
[–]nnanna11FDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
mhm. especially if the stories are patterned. why would 'such a great’ man attract all that negative energy. nah, bro! you the crazy one.
all my hvm friends never talk shit about their exes. even if the girl did them wrong. they never stoop so low and call them ‘crazy’
[–]galian84FDS Apprentice 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gaslighting at its best and responsibility avoidance! Note they never acknowledge what they did to make their exes act “crazy”.
I had 3 exes like this. One was a gaslighting, dismissive misogynist who felt entitled a young mommy bangmaid. The other two were batshit crazy, super insecure with shit communication skills, and one verbally and emotionally abused me. Who’s the crazy one?
[–]Tatterhood78FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've always been "the crazy ex". Apparently all you have to do to be labelled crazy is "not want him anymore". Pffft.
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And still chose to having multiple children with her.
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love how they always tell on themselves. I fell for this years ago and now I use this exact example in recognizing LVM. As soon as a scrote tells me this, blocked.
[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There’s a post on a popular sub right now where apparently the mans ex wife messaged his current gf to warn her. But the ex wife is lying... I just don’t believe it. Especially if the ex is claiming he withheld sex... the current gf would know if that’s happening. If she believes the ex it’s because they’ve compares notes.
[–]mandoa_skyFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i saw it too. it's a weird one. he says it was sexless because she refused to have sex with him.
[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea I don’t believe him. I’ve had someone withhold affection (like normal hugs and cuddling) and then try to have really rough sex with me a week later. It was a pattern. I’ve also seen other women say they’ve experienced it.
Edit : my point is that she prob wouldn’t have sex with him... because he was a huge fucking asshole.
[–]Sonshinesas54FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
His lips are moving, it’s a lie lie lie! Theme song for ex!
[–]Coupon_Problem 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of my exes called his ex “psycho” and spoke about her with so much contempt. I should’ve seen that for the flag it was.
When we were breaking up, he called me crazy and told me I needed to “be committed.” Sisters, one of us was threatening to burn their own house down during that conversation — and it wasn’t me.
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[–]Amazing_Wolverine_37FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]whiskey_and_oreosFDS Newbie 102 points103 points104 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]BezzazzFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]samara37 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NanaNanaBooBoo_ 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LeyMioFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Struggleis4realFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]nnanna11FDS Newbie 42 points43 points44 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]galian84FDS Apprentice 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Tatterhood78FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]YellowsunflowerloverFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Apprentice 6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]mandoa_skyFDS Disciple 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]luvmyvulvaxoxoFDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sonshinesas54FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Coupon_Problem 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link