I’ve been following FDS for a while, but this is my first post here. Some of the strategies have really helped me overcome some pickme behavior.

Recently, I was on an airplane. I was sitting next to a pretty attractive guy. We talked almost the whole ride and I thought we were getting along. I didn’t make any moves even though I wanted to ask for his name and number he didn’t bother to ask me for mine. At the end, he shook my hand and thanked me for the company. I took that as my sign and moved on. When my friends asked why I didn’t get his number I simply said he didn’t ask for mine.

I don’t want to chase men who are not interested in me anymore. I’ve raised my standards and thank FDS for helping me see that I deserve better.