I wonder how you guys see this, perhaps a bit, cynical?:

((''allowed''; not necessarily meaning express our opinion, but actually letting that opinion affect a group (for example ban/flag/destroy/embarrass))

Because men and women are different, and we are selfish by nature, I believe that we inherently lie and manipulate our partners non-stop. There seems to be this belief that this is appalling, with a strong focus on telling ''the truth''.

Example; men vs FDS/Female YT: If a woman directly says to a man that she cares about his money and how much he is willing to give to her, we men see her as low value, and disgusting. Golddiggers. So, All/If not most women = disgusting. By nature, women have to hide this and manipulate to get the above in indirect ways. Women understand that does not exclude love. Men reading these strategies will get defensive and rage.

Example; Women vs men-to-men advice, e.g. pickup sites/RP. If a man directly tells a woman he thinks with his penis first and sees sex as lust initially, he is seen as low value and disgusting. This means, all/most men = disgusting. So, to get partners, men have to lie about this and thus manipulate to get it. If there is a post from men to men on how to get women to have sex, women rage. Men understand that the above does not exclude love after.

In it's bubble, it all makes sense from the perspective of that sex. But it does not make sense from the perspective of the other. Most humans are not ''evolved'' enough to be the neutral judge mixed with cancel culture = bloodbath. Should we be more respectful of the other side?