NEVER DO 50/50!! This is terrible.

Sabrinacolada · 2021-06-05T13:08:51+00:00

Doesn’t want anymore kids

They already have kids and he’s still separating finances? Fuck that noise.

Most_End4804 · 2021-06-05T13:08:58+00:00

Hey maybe you should delete this and post it again but without the relationship subreddit name. They'll complain about brigading.

Curiousquest2 · 2021-06-05T13:18:46+00:00

“It all started when he asked me to split the bill at chili’s and I agreed”.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-06-05T13:44:06+00:00

See if she had been following FDS none of this would have ever happened to her because she would have dumped him when he refused to wear condom.

Notice she calls it 50/50 but then immediately says that his take-home is more than her every month. Also notice how she's not sure how much more it is. That is by design. He is keeping his finances secret from her. Guaranteed he makes hundreds more than her a month and he's been hiding it the whole time. She's really going 70/30 with this scrote and doesn't know it.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-06-05T13:05:15+00:00

Divorce this loser. Can you imagine? I told my ex after my last child I wasn’t having sex w him until he got a vasectomy. 😂😂😂 It worked. He was still a whiny bitch for weeks about it, but whatever. 🙄

throwaway88043468 · 2021-06-05T13:48:57+00:00

He doesn't want to wear a condom and that's apparently fine and worth glossing over, but her obvious hesitation for tubal ligation doesn't mean shit? Cockholm syndrome

Impossible_Mud_7599 · 2021-06-05T13:46:19+00:00

Men who refuse condoms, or throw a fit about using them = trash. Unequivocally.

CuntWaffe · 2021-06-05T13:57:59+00:00

If he doesn't want anymore kids...then why be against a vasectomy? Oh, i know. Because 1. It'll make him "less of a man" and 2. He wants to be able to have babies with other women.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-06-05T13:49:43+00:00

She should definitely refuse sex then. Sounds like the only option that makes sense until her appointment.

gutsandgorey · 2021-06-05T14:06:29+00:00

I've seen redpill discussions where they are against vasectomies if the wife is pushing for it. The argument is that she's ruining his sexual market place value. What if he meets a younger woman and she wants kids?? What if he wants more kids with his new wife?? Can't permanently close those pipes, he's got a legacy to continue!

MilkMadeMe · 2021-06-05T13:38:45+00:00

I am speechless. I thought this was a parody post...

cherryloaf · 2021-06-05T14:21:20+00:00

I have never seen a bill-splitting couple be truly happy together. Many of them claim to be happy, but you can tell that they aren't.

One example: My aunt and uncle split bills. What ends up happening is that she comes home to cook and clean, and he comes home to drink and watch TV. She thought it was just delightful when he offered to pay for her prescription glasses that she needs in order to function in day to day life, which is so sad to me. In weak moments, she reveals that she is miserable with him and has tried to leave him multiple times. She pays for the mortgage which I believe only has his name on it. She also has to foot the bill for his parents living with them a lot of the time. She's been on multiple medications for her depression and anxiety for as long as I can remember.

Another: My ex's parents split bills. His mom always made more money than his dad, and she comes home to cook and clean and he comes home to play video games. She was horrified to find out that I would refuse to split bills with a man and heavily implied that I'm some sort of spoiled princess that doesn't want to work. Yet, her entire life consists of having zero time for personal fulfillment and hobbies, and she's spent most of their marriage being on weird diets and trying to be sexy for her LVM. She was thoroughly one of the most miserable women I've ever met, and her comments towards me clearly came from resentment and jealousy because I haven't yet gotten myself deep into an unfulfilling relationship like she has. I broke up with her LVM son because he expected me to move in with him, pay for half of his bills, and do all of the house chores. To this day I get random texts from them, they appear to still be scratching their heads at why I didn't feel like I got anything out of that relationship.

AnniaT · 2021-06-05T14:23:04+00:00

I'd divorce this disgusting scrote right away. If not possible then no more sex. Abstinence is a 100% effective as contraceptive and no need for condom or vasectomy like he wanted and has the advantage of not having to get intimate with this selfish scrote.

oh_shit_oh_fuck · 2021-06-05T14:27:17+00:00

Divorce that man!!!

Title	NEVER DO 50/50!! This is terrible.
Author	2oatmeal_cookies
Upvotes	62
Comments	16
Date	June 5, 2021 12:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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