I see a lot of posts on here from women who are upset about how they handled LVM behavior. Maybe some nasty scrote made a sexist comment to them at work, or when they were out in public a LVM harassed them, or whatever. I see a lot of times the women react with kindness or making nice, only to regret it later.

I want you to know that, first of all, women have been conditioned to be nice to pretty much everyone, so having an initial reaction of niceness is to be expected and nothing to feel ashamed of. The fact is, these men are not going to change no matter what you tell them. Even if you came up with the perfect, dead on comeback, they would just turn it into "she's a bitch!" or "she was mad cause she's jealous!" or some other scrote nonsense.

When I first became HV, I became really obsessed with coming up with the right responses to men and letting them know what was up. Now I realize- worrying in any way about a LVM's feelings is a waste of my precious time. So if that means I smile at a LVM after he disrespects me- who cares? It's not to say I accept that treatment- it's that I realize that their warped reality and view of the world is not mine to carry or fix. I'm gonna go on being happy and feeling high value, while scrotes are doomed to live the rest of their lives in their perpetual anger and dysfunction.

So if some rude, nasty guy makes some gross sexual proposition on OLD, or makes a sexist comment at work, or is nasty to you in a store, feel free to react however YOU want. if that means going off on them, good for you and I love that for you (and love to read those stories on here)! And if you have a response of clamming up or just being silent, that's okay too. The key is doing whatever is best for YOU and not prioritizing the male viewpoint, which is what "trying to teach him a lesson" does. Just keep yourself happy, which often means blocking or just ignoring their stunts for attention. They are desperate for female attention in any form, so you denying them that is punishment enough. Know the power you carry and focus on that!

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I mention this because yesterday some scrote got extremely angry at me while he was driving next to me, and started screaming at my car that I "dont know how to drive". I just stared blankly at him with a small smirk, and that seemed to run him off quickly. Afterwards though, i wondered if I should have rolled down my window and said something back, or told HIM off and his disgusting behavior. Then I realized- no matter what I said- he'll continue to be crazy and unhinged, and angry and violent, and I get to be in queen energy. And I'm so glad I didn't engage with this weird nutcase, and in a strange way, he seemed to sense it and he looked kind of sheepish as he drove off. So... anyway... there is no need to feel the need to engage with loser LVM- just staying in your own power is punishment enough for them!