He is LV or NV if you see any of these 🚩also, “sexual compatability” is a myth. Only a porn sick man or a man with bizarre kinks struggles to get and sustain an erection in the presence of a woman. Notice how the bumblers make basic dating etiquette and healthy sex/intimacy seem like rocket science.

The only man who tried that “I need to see if we are sexually compatible” nonsense confessed to me that he had very specific kinks and like butt play. I smiled and pretended like I wasn’t disgusted but in my head I knew I would never ever be having sex with him much less dating him.

So many 🚩 1. Met on OLD. 2. Asked me my love language. Men do this as a shortcut to intimacy. 3. Had me meet him halfway for dinner but then he didn’t eat anything because he was on a special diet. At least he paid because even with my pickme tendencies I want going into my wallet. (News flash- he was broke.) 4. Told me that if we didn’t have sex by the 3rd date it meant that I wasn’t attracted to him and was just trying to use him. No, I didn’t have sex with him. 5. Had me over to his 2 bedroom apartment that had almost no furniture in it and had us grocery shop and cook a meal together. I don’t enjoy cooking. How TF is that a date? 6. Kept calling/texting me after I ended it. 7. Suggested we be FWB when I pointed out to him that he wasn’t in a place to provide for a wife and kids. 8. He was short and not that cute. He should have been grateful if I were to spit in his direction.

And yes, I was being a 🤡ette. But I give myself a break because FDS didn’t exist yet and I was surrounded by LV people that normalize this.