The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & Women

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-08-11T10:20:01+00:00

This is definitely one of my favorite episodes so far. You confirm what I've been saying all along: Your attention is your social currency. Spend it on valuable actions you receive. Rewarding LV behavior with your attention is a bad investment of your currency. Not only won't it have the desired outcome - it will back fire at you, you will achieve the opposite.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-08-11T11:41:01+00:00

Re: the discussion about not typing paragraphs, Andy Warhol never used to read newspaper or magazine reviews (good or bad) he simply measured the SPACE they gave him with a ruler. The same applies to the attention we give men. Your time (much like space in the New York Times) is worth a LOT.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-08-11T11:49:11+00:00

Also the discussion about not showing anger or letting them know what you're thinking---reminds me of elite soldier selection trials where the army gives the candidate no feedback on their performance until the end. This is to weed out the candidates whose behaviour is motivated only by others' reactions rather than their own judgement. They also feed them false negative feedback to see they will react and weed out egotists. https://youtu.be/hhZSEfvdrPo FDS is the new SAS.

Illustrious_Dream751 · 2021-08-12T00:42:18+00:00

At first this episode got my back up. I'm a cryer and a venter, so the part about "emotional self discipline" just felt like more of the same "don't be so hysterical, have control of your emotions, you're being irrational" type bullshit we get from men all the time. The story about your friend and her dad made me want to cry.

But then I spent some time digesting this episode and reflecting on all the times I cried and vented at men in the past and I realized it never actually got me anything. Looking back, every time I ever showed strong emotion to a man, he either shut down, blamed me, used it to manipulate/gaslight me, or he would just tell me what I wanted to hear without actually changing anything. In the end I was just playing myself.

Clearly, this is something about myself that I need to work on. I want to learn how to be a cold ruthless strategist with men.

Does anyone know any books and podcasts on how to have better control of your emotions? Maybe you could explore this in a future episode?

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-08-11T11:35:48+00:00

Nothing clears the head and fortifies the resolve than the FDS podcast. 💖💖💖💖

Bluemonroe26 · 2021-08-11T22:00:58+00:00

Loved this episode! I actually listened to it twice already lol does anyone else relistens to episodes like multiple times or is that just me 😅 Is there any other resources or FDS posts about developing emotional self-discipline? That’s something I definitely need to work on 😭

Muffcakelord · 2021-08-12T17:50:34+00:00

I find it so funny how everything boils down to "women fear men will hurt them, men fear women will ignore them"

flower_vulva · 2021-08-11T18:46:24+00:00

Great episode! I don't have anything to add, just wanted to say that it always cheers me up & motivates me, keep going, Queens 🤍💛💙👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I always also give a like on YouTube to balance out the pissed off scrotes hating on there 😁

nanofarm · 2021-08-11T22:34:46+00:00

This was sooooo good you guys! You all are doing such and amazing job, I cannot wait for each episode and bonus to come out! Thank you so much for the thought, planning and effort you are putting in to this.

secularwitch · 2021-08-11T22:46:52+00:00

This is one of the best ones! I enjoyed it a lot. Please do more of these because yeah we know the concepts here but hearing again with different stories makes is much more memorable and understandable. I love you queens💜

greenteathyme · 2021-08-11T20:20:17+00:00

This was such a great episode you guys! I listened to this at the gym today. Keep on doing the Goddess’s work helping women! 😭❤️

goodluckjordan · 2021-08-12T16:19:30+00:00

Easily one of my favorite episodes thus far. Listened to it twice. No bull shit. Just the cold hard truth, and strategies navigate it. Beautiful!

Also, this episode really made me consider switching from bi to full lesbian 😂

cherry_blossom_szn · 2021-08-12T21:55:14+00:00

This is accidentally one of the most blackpill episodes so far 💀

AutoModerator · 2021-08-11T08:56:40+00:00

[1] - We Just Launched a Website: wwww.TheFemaleDatingStrategy.com. Click here for registration information. Please also join our Twitter and Instagram Pages for updates!
[2] - Please read the FDS Handbook and Wiki before commenting. Repeated comments demonstrating lack of basic sub knowledge will result in a temporary or permanent ban.
[3] - Please REPORT any comments that do not follow the sub rules. If you do not report it, the mods will not see it.
[4] - PLEASE REMOVE ALL PERSONAL IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION from images (Name, Location, Job description, education, phone number, etc). Failure to remove ID info will result in a 1-2 day ban. Repeated failures will result in a permanent ban.
[5] - This sub is FEMALE ONLY. All comments from men will be removed and you will be banned. DO NOT REPLY TO MALE TROLLS!! Please DOWNVOTE and REPORT immediately.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & Women

There is a fundraiser for $10,000 going on to help grow FDS so they can make more content!!

Savannah is doing an ASK ME ANYTHING FOR PATREON SUBSCRIBERS FIRST WEEK OF AUGUST!!

Comments

Title	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 23 - Examining Communication Dynamics between Men & Women
Author	SnarkSticks
Upvotes	147
Comments	34
Date	August 11, 2021 8:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p298s6/the_female_dating_strategy_podcast_ep_23/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-female-dating-strategy-podcast-ep-23-examining.958914 https://theredarchive.com/post/958914