Hoe phase.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-10-10T21:18:44+00:00

Women can't live with the consequences of hoe phases because they have been allowed to live consequence free up to now. They've gotten to have their cake and eat it too for decades now.

I have no problem with women having hoe phases. I have no problem with women fucking whomever they want, how and when and where they want.

I have a problem with women lying about it. I have a problem with women gaslighting men about it. I have a problem with women who shame men who won't wife them up because of it. I have a problem with women who complain about the natural consequences flowing from their promiscuity.

[deleted] · 2023-10-10T20:01:09+00:00

I don’t shame promiscuous behavior, but it isn’t right to lie about it and deceive a partner. I imagine a guy hiding his own escort phase where he slept with 30 escorts from his partner would be frowned upon too. Aside from the deception often involved and entitlement to commitment, the problem I see is a maturity and experience gap between someone who had a hoe phase and someone who didn’t. They usually aren’t suitable partners for each other but that’s ok, just find someone compatible.

kek2w13213 · 2023-10-10T21:23:41+00:00

Just bundle it under "Preferences" then double with a response such as "I want someone that treats sexual relationships with same importance that I do"

Black pill element of this is most woman won't care what their male partners count is as long as it's not in the extreme.

LifeIsAVeryBadJoke · 2023-10-11T06:43:36+00:00

I had this argument this morning. A woman was telling me that "the past is the past." But that's not the issue. The issue is she did things for certain guys in the past and disrespected other guys. Then she settles with the "other guys" and doesn't do those things for him.

From an objective standpoint, it's not fair. It's pretty intuitive, no use in really talking about it.

Horses4causes · 2023-10-11T05:16:46+00:00

Women hit the wall by having hoe phases. No virgin woman has hit the wall, even at the age of fifty years.

FitDomPoet · 2023-10-10T21:37:25+00:00

If a woman has a ho phase she better get out of it before her mid 20s if she wants a higher chance of long term commitment in this day and age. I've seen some real slooters Get married and have children and live the white picket fence lifestyle because they grew out of it by their mid 20s.

Men are waking up and the word has spread where even the most normie norman has heard about hypergamy. They know women sleep with Chad and ignore normies when they're young as the rise of online dating gets harder for young men.

What many women don't take into consideration is that as they get older they become less attractive and far less desirable. A woman in her young 20s looks far better than a woman that turns 30, which means it's going to take even more effort to convince a man to lock down an older woman that has already been conditioned to remain single.

Just as men are not guaranteed sex, these women are not guaranteed long-term serious relationships and that is what pisses them off, that men are no longer on their timeline of what women want out of dating. Many men have simply reverted to casual dating because it is the path of least resistance.

Single women that are over 40 still looking for Chad will be a common theme in the media in the next decade or so. Society will say the men need to man up. But who wants to marry an old fat lady? Not to mention their standards are usually overshadowed by the ghost of Stacy's past.

Aafan_Barbarro · 2023-10-10T19:50:47+00:00

What consequences? Men marry literal porn stars.

LaGuajira · 2023-10-11T02:12:01+00:00

This subreddit is insane. One post talking about engineering women to accept all sexual propositions and the other complaining that hypersexual women want to get married. You either want us to be whores or want us to be wives. That screams sexual dysfunction.

Hubris1998 · 2023-10-10T21:25:03+00:00

There are no consequences for it, unfortunately. In fact, society encourages it, or at least the internet does. It's like running the gauntlet.

depressed_apple20 · 2023-10-10T22:18:43+00:00

I wish I could have a hoe phase. Sadly, I'm a virgin against my will.

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2023-10-11T10:12:01+00:00

I’m a guy and I had a long how phase from the time I joined a fraternity in college to the time I was 32, and it was a blast. And I certainly wouldn’t care if a woman I dated did the same stuff I did in my promiscuous phase, plus I didn’t do anything that bad, I mostly had sex with women I had just met in weird places like my university library, in a random person’s garden outside a club, trains, cars and other random places and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s the type of stuff people do when they’re young, adventurous and not married and as long as the chick doesn’t have STDs and she’s also over that phase like I am then I have no issues.

SilentFroggy · 2023-10-10T21:15:53+00:00

They’re trying to push for hoe acceptance

RopeorDope1 · 2023-10-10T19:56:20+00:00

Oh no, another angry man is trying to control women's sexuality. Such a creative idea.

Everyone goes through phases throughout their lives. Whether its people becoming more conservative as they get older, drinking certain drinks, etc. Your hyperfocus on the hoe phase is to serve a very obvious agenda.

It's not like your use of "consequences" really changes much, but doesn't it get tiring being a broken record?

fancy_leftovers · 2023-10-11T15:01:13+00:00

I had a hoe phase just after I left my abusive husband. I was a single mother, and I was sleeping around with 6 different men regularly. I would just do it when my daughter was visiting her aunts or grandma. All the men knew that I was sleeping with other people, so nothing was being lied about. It was fun, and I got to know the different guys on a somewhat personal level. I didn't love any of them, I didn't want to be with any of them, but they were fine people.

Then one day I met a guy and we looked at each other and something clicked. I broke it off with all my fuck buddies and pursued this new guy. I never lied about my past (I didn't go into graphic detail but I laid it out there). Didn't seem to be a deal breaker considering we've been together for 10 years now.

There is nothing wrong with sleeping around when you're young! It's kind of a fun way to get to know people. This prudeness around sex is driven mostly by religious ideals, STD fears, and of course jealous people and insecure people; just use protection and get tested. And fuck church bitches and men who are afraid of other men's cocks. There doesn't have to be consequences if you're careful.

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-10-11T20:28:40+00:00

There really isn’t much consequences. The men who won’t commit because she’s a hoe that overlaps with men she wants to commit probably we’re never going to commit to her regardless

Title	Hoe phase.
Author	throwaway__jay1
Upvotes	29
Comments	105
Date	October 10, 2023 7:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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