The most sexually prolific men I’ve ever known don’t fit common CHAD stereotypes.They’re nice.

They’re not manipulative or particularly analytical about how to date. They’re picky, and only date women they really like as people. They have lots of close female friends, including former lovers—again, they like the people they sleep with, so why not hang out with them after? They're fit, but don’t hit the gym all that much. They’re not rich, and wouldn’t date anyone who needed to be spoiled. They tend to be better-than-average-looking, but not super tall or outlier-handsome (most wouldn’t get near a 6 on TrueRateMe), super masculine or dominant—in fact, many have to explain they’re straight, because you wouldn’t know for sure.And they grow their n-counts by 10-20 a year with very little effort and no particular goal in mind. If they go out on a tinder date, they’re probably going to fuck. If you introduce them to your female friend, they’re probably going to fuck. Does he see a cute girl on the dance floor? Probably going to fuck.

The primary characteristic that shapes their success with women is personality. They are fun to be around, “not like other guys,” and very comfortable around women. And yet everything BUT personality gets hyped by every pill I see.

A legitimate question is whether what they’ve got can be taught. It can certainly be “learned” through experience. In theory, that should make it teachable. But no “pill” seems to be instructing men on how to do so. The closest we get is blue pilled advice which, frankly, isn’t all that concerned with getting men laid, and can arguably be said to not even really exist as a single ideology in the first place.

note: I won't deny the existence of players and fuckboys. They're out there. But this other type of guy seems to be rarely talked about. And a lot of pilled men will literally just tell you they don't believe he exists. What can I say? I'm 36, active in nightlife, have lived and traveled in many different cities of varying sizes around the country and world, and find these guys everywhere I go (except reddit). Where is their movement?