Well Guys, Ive been divorced for just over 3 glorious years. I kept my house my property and got 50/50 custody of our son with a 7 on, 7 off schedule.

But after 3 years of attempts to be manipulated and controlled by the EX. I am done with it. In the 3 years we've been divorced I have gone exactly 6 months, not consecutively, of NOT having an attorney on retainer. The ex gets mad, we go to mediation. She gets the attention she wants, some miniscule thing in out paperwork gets changed and repeat.

But I'm tired dudes. I have spent over 3 years and who the fuck knows how much money trying to prove I'm a good dad and our son is my only priority in life. So this time, Fuck her. We're going the distance. Trial date was set Monday. I'm going to let a judge decide, cause I honestly cant do it anymore. It is never going to end, there will never be a break the only way I feel I'll ever get any peace in life is to put it in someone else's hands. So, thats the plan. Its just starting to hit that these are some consequences I wont be able to live with. But I think I'd rather do it this way than keep a lawyer on retainer for the rest of our son's childhood.

I normally try to stay positive and offer positive advice on here. I don't have any today. Que será, será. I guess.