I am62 and have been married for 36 years. I have come to the realization that my wife and I have maybe reached the end of our time together. All intimacy is gone in our relationships and she has a couple of groups of friends that she spends all her leasure and vacation time with going on trips both shirt and long, doing this to the exclusion of any time with me.

And in all honesty I don’t care. I value the time to myself and while it annoys me that she chooses to spend time and money being away from me i say buena fortuna to her.

So now it occurs to me that we should just end this so that we can both pursue some sense of happiness in the last part of our lives and not just run from each other, but the thought of starting over at this point in life is frightening and sometimes I feel like just living with the situation rather than maybe spending the rest of my life literally alone.

Has anyone ut there split late in life? What was your experience?