How did y’all handle the Ex reaching back out either directly or with family/friends? Ultimately, there is no reason for me to make sense of it but right now at the grief stage past survival and into clarity and anger.

Separated end of last year and finalized last month no kids thank God. Dealt through the social fallout many of us in this sub experienced from her vocalized false victimhood narratives while I kept to myself and began building a new, better life. She’s blocked everywhere including in laws and all the trash taken out during the process but just recently had a wound reopen. She reached out to my sister and cousin for a lunch to catch up since everything went down. My sister waited to ask me on how to proceed before I told her no and to block her. Of course, Ex shared her plans ahead over text to her.

Why do these people care so much to try and share updates even indirectly for us to eventually hear about? Some sort of manipulation tactic? Shit’s tiring.