Is this really happening?

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2023-05-11T23:01:25+00:00

Yes, your spouse has exploded your life and is actively dismantling your relationship with your kids, while at the same time badmouthing you to everyone you know. She's been doing it for a long time probably. Welcome to the club. Your kids still need you. Though your wife is actively poisoning them, they need to see you fighting for them. They will still get older and you will still be able to have a relationship with them. Play the long game. First, lawyer up. Second, no drinking. Third, your own wellbeing is paramount now. Fitness of mind, fitness of body, fitness of spirit. Do what you need to do to take care of those three things. If you don't care for yourself now this situation will bury you. I'm in this too. Welcome to the worlds worst club.

syro23 · 2023-05-12T06:35:08+00:00

Yes. Your spouse is no longer the woman you believe her to be. She is now the enemy. Act accordingly. You have a rough road ahead, Keep to it for your children. Kids need a father more than they need a mother.

rhett342 · 2023-05-12T00:37:09+00:00

Sorry you have to go through this. Life really isn't fair sometimes.

upvotersfortruth · 2023-05-12T08:35:30+00:00

Am I really being forced out of my home because my ex mother-in-law owns the house and my lease is up?

Sounds like a yes.

Am I really losing all of my neighborhood friends because of a smear campaign that I am abusive?

You're learning who your true friends are. If they seek your side of the story, they might be friends. Otherwise, fuck em. They ain't gonna be your neighbors for long anyway.

Am I really losing the beauty of waking up to our children's faces every single morning?

Yes, but you'll gain the beauty of waking up to their faces slightly less often on your terms without some untrustworthy cheater within earshot.

Am I really losing the magic of singing them lullabies every single night?

No, you can get a goodnight phonecall with them every night they're not with you at a set time where you can sing to them.

Am I really going to have to spend half of my week alone in an old beaten up quiet house?

It's only as beaten up as you let it remain. Great divorce project. Get the kids ideas for what they want and make it happen.

Am I really losing the love of my life to another man?

And he'll lose her to another. You love her, she didn't love you. One sided love is the same as heartbreak. Grieve. Get angry. Talk to someone. No matter what you're feeling, you need to put on your game face for your kids and this divorce. This is what men do.

No_Analyst_5235 · 2023-05-12T09:37:18+00:00

Yes , the common theme is women today are just looking for sperm donors . But they realize it’s better to get married rather than go to a sperm bank because they cant make the sperm donor at the bank pay them and make them financially secure but the Sperm donor they marry , is now on the hook for life .

Women push for marriage and give ultimatums . Not men . And then after they are married they are 80% and higher the ones to file for divorce . That tells you everything you need to know about them . Act accordingly

jujumber · 2023-05-12T05:12:18+00:00

Narc daily on youtube!!

Second_Story · 2023-05-13T04:19:26+00:00

The love of your life? You don’t even seem to like her. I’ve read your divorce journey, and the only positive thing you’ve said about her was about her boobs. People who hate each other shouldn’t stay married.

Title	Is this really happening?
Author	tecnic
Upvotes	20
Comments	11
Date	May 11, 2023 10:15 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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