I don't know what to do. My wife thinks I cheated, so she's making life miserable. She doesn't show up to the court ordered supervised visits (which were only granted based on nothing but her request), I haven't seen my boys at all in over two months.

So far this has cost me over $35,000. My lawyer is working for me, but I just can't afford much more. My wife has taken away my home, children, gym, and everything I own.

The entire system seems like it is designed for state sponsored extortion. I understand that these things just take time, but I can't take any more. To survive this, it seems like the only real choice I have is to run and start a new life somewhere else