Wondering if anyone had been through this. My wife had an affair with our neighbor, and when I found out I hung on for four more years trying to work it out. I knew they were still talking, and he divorced his wife right away. I was pretty pitiful during those four years, and I final decided to divorce her. It’s been three years since the divorce, and I just had lunch with who was a mutual friend of ours. We hadn’t seen each other since the divorce. The friend mentioned that they are still together. I thought I had healed, but a little piece of me was sad. I guess there has always been a little wondering, and I feel jealous that she is happy, and I’m still struggling. I’m much better, but feel off, that she had no problem moving on, and with the same person. I’d really like to get this behind me, but telling myself to move on is the same as reminding myself to think about it.