Anybody’s ex obsessed with Taylor Swift?

Mine is completely obsessed to the point it may be a mental illness of some kind. Obviously there were much bigger factors to our split but I definitely attribute her obsession with Taylor swifts music as extra motivation. We all know what she sings about and the messages she delivers.. I’m almost certain it pushes women into becoming toxic and view relationships differently. I could be wrong but would love to hear if anyone else is experiencing this.