Saw this meme somewhere where a guy says "I'm the world's first ethical incel. I don't hate women I just don't get coochie" and I really resonated with that lol. I'm thinking of community that talks about the struggles of being socially awkward and unsuccessful in dating while also challenging all misogyny and helping to deradicalize people. Subs like this are more focused on the red pill and challenging that but I'm thinking of something that would be a next step, helping people who have moved on / were never sucked into the red pill and misogynistic stuff cope.