What is the red pill community's obsession with women with 'daddy issues'

dharkanine · 2023-02-24T18:13:59+00:00

Because the easiest women to abuse are those with little to no concept of a healthy male presence in their lives.

Moreso, by saying she has "daddy issues" they further degrade her. It's an easy in for the predator.

AceArguments · 2023-02-24T20:11:40+00:00

Honestly, it feels like a lot of deflection from the fact that men often leave the women with the child and rarely fights for the children. Nice men show their true colours real quick when they are shown a positive pregnancy test. And even when the man is in the child's life, they're super shit. If they were to put the entire equation together, a disproportionate amount of damage is being done by men onto women. And that's a reality they really don't want to contend with.

Also, male solidarity needs something to stand on. If they start to see the men standing next to them as rapists, con men, molesters, manipulators, sexual assaulters, dead beat dad's, and overall beta men that will screw you over any moment, it would be very hard to stay on that side.

Having sympathy for individuals that would gladly punch a woman or child because equal rights means equal lefts is very difficult.

In this case, I think it is very much an obsession for deflection scenario. Imagine if they had to actually call out fellow men for shit behaviour....

HelloSilverTongue · 2023-02-24T17:10:46+00:00

I was and sorta still am that woman (though I've been in treatment for many years and am much more healed than when it was being forced on me). After I got massively fucked over by multiple Red Pillers (got blackmailed, falsely exposed, career ruined, and everything) and saw professionals to heal from all the damages, every single one said that people like that typically are very predatory of woman who are 'at the bottom of the totem pole' because that behaviour and treatment is likely to be our 'normal', we're less likely to detect it early enough for intervention, we're easier to manipulate and use, and a plethora of other very predatory treatment. On the flip side, we can often be more entertaining, funny and sarcastic, sex can be better, we give a shit about a lot less, and many other things that make us very addictive and endearing.

xvszero · 2023-02-24T18:13:51+00:00

They like to blame women for everything. OF COURSE they can blame women for this. The narrative is basically this:

Woman divorces man. You've probably heard them many times talking about who divorces the most. It's women!

Woman cuts off man's relationship with his kid, teaches kid to hate dad.

Kid has bad relationship with dad.

Oh no look, now we have a bunch of "whores" running around because they had bad relationships with dad. And whose fault is that? The women divorcing these fathers!

Of course yes, if some evil woman destroys their kid's relationship with their father she's an evil woman, but they act like this is just the default setting of a divorce. In reality many men specifically don't WANT any fatherhood obligations and act accordingly, or are toxic men that even their own kids don't want to be around, etc. Like everything, divorce is complicated and messy not always black and white.

If you want to understand any given red pill position, the fastest way there is to ask "How would this make women look bad?" Because ultimately that's the one thing they want most, is to make women look bad.

Andromeda_______ · 2023-02-24T21:05:57+00:00

Unfortunately, many of those guys will end up having daughters that grow up to have daddy issues.

Free-Ad-6334 · 2023-02-25T00:00:08+00:00

Red pill logic:

Making fun of girls with daddy issues: fine. BASED

Making fun of a short guy: “THIS IS OPPRESSION, YOU BLUE PILL BETA SIMP.”

I think it’s bad to make fun of both. Making fun of someone who went through emotional abuse is not funny. It would be like making fun of a victim of divorce court. But in a worldview where it only matters if men get hurt, I am not surprised.

rafaman777 · 2023-02-24T22:42:37+00:00

"Daddy issues" is the watering down of real psychological theories called "Attachment theory". There is not just one but many such theories, its heavily studied and by no means is there major consensus in this field. The most important idea from attachment theory is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development. RP twists this idea down to a simple concept - a crazy woman comes from a crazy family (and usually one with an absent father). This is not what attachment theory says or is even about. Yes, some women and men do have dysfunctional relationships with family members but its not used as a damning condemnation on their life. No psychologist or doctor would ever say such a thing. It's RP pop psychology again. There is no empathy and another example of the community passing judgement on everyone, the woman, her parents, society etc. It another way for RP's to feel elite and above so called dysfunctional people and to discredit women.

RP is rage and projection so empathy is not part of its core.

SweelFor- · 2023-02-24T16:48:40+00:00

The reason why RP holds stupid ideas is that it is a stupid mindset, because it holds stupid ideas

boredbitch2020 · 2023-02-24T19:56:42+00:00

Right. They're just blaming men for things they don't like about women. Lmao

Significant-Dog-4362 · 2023-02-24T20:08:02+00:00

They don’t want girls with daddy issues, because they think those girls are crazy and won’t submit. Because they’ve never seen a healthy relationship between their parents. What they don’t realize is that the girls with daddy issues are really the only ones to really fall for their bs.

Naus1987 · 2023-02-24T22:06:56+00:00

I always imagined that red pill men had their own issues. So it doesn’t surprise me that broken people would be drawn to broken people.

If the guy was healthy, he wouldn’t chase a broken woman. And if a woman wasn’t broken, she wouldn’t chase a toxic man.

Xx_SwordWords_xX · 2023-02-24T22:51:13+00:00

Redpillers are misogynists and sociopaths of the highest degree. As you explained, they let other men who are abusers, be the dictators of the worth of the victims (girls and women).

LuvLaughLive · 2023-02-25T00:25:45+00:00

Let's be honest, they want to believe all women are broken, (cue the echo chamber of the hive mindset), but somehow they have not yet progressed to a single explanation fits all (coming soon); this is just one of many reasons they purposely chose to believe, to hate on a certain subsection of women. Stereotyping at its most pathetic and ignorant.

Red pill community, aka incels, live to eat, sleep, and obsess over f*cking. They believe that everyone lives and craves the same as them, men and women both. To the small-minded, since women must be as sexually obsessed as them, the only reasons red pill incels are undesirable, must always be all women's fault. Daddy issues are just one in a million excuses they fraudulently assign to women, to convince themselves that it's never them, but always women.

Can you imagine if they put the amount of effort they do to obsess over sex and to blame women for everything, into something productive abs beneficial to all, what kind of amazing world might we live in today?

Rook_Cross · 2023-02-25T03:43:03+00:00

They want to make them feel like a ruined object. They feel it gives them power to turn others, particularly women, into objects, good or bad. They also want to hurt people and those who have been abused make easy targets.

Dr_Lovemuchmore · 2023-02-25T03:15:59+00:00

Honestly, unpopular opinion. But people with daddy issues are often full of their own issues and a drain to be in a relationship with. Goes for men and women.

Awkward-Manager5939 · 2023-02-25T12:55:00+00:00

I believe that a women with daddy issues may have abandonment issues. I'm not sure why they treat them badly, but I see how a relationship would be a bit unhealthy with some that has issues.

waffleznstuff30 · 2023-02-26T16:14:43+00:00

They think.

That a woman with Daddy issues will be easy sexually, and have paper thin boundaries because of a not present father. That she will do "anything" and put up with a lot of bullshit because she needs that male presence. It's kind of sick actually.

And then at the same token so because she is psychologically damaged at the expense of a negligent man. That her behavior "negatives" are because of a lack of a father figure. So she's very independent and not "submissive". Daddy issues. She has a body count that makes him uncomfortable...daddy issues. Won't take his crap and calls him out on mistreatment...daddy issues.

Title	What is the red pill community's obsession with women with 'daddy issues'
Author	Syphonfilterfan93
Upvotes	64
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Date	February 24, 2023 4:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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