I am a black woman,23 , It bothers me “a lot” of black men are stuck in their toxic masculinity and “red piller” ways . I am currently dating someone and they sometimes watch influencers such as Kevin Samuels . Men like Kevin Samuels utterly send rage down my spine and throughout my body. Kevin speaks A TRUTH but not the TRUTH . Yes, there’s a lot of hypersexuality, people who need to get their stuff together, and downright awful women. BUT he never speaks about the underlying issues or psychological reasoning. The dude doesn’t even normalize people going to a therapist . All he does is sit, criticize, call women fat , and tell them how she’s gonna die alone . He wants to “heal” the black community but never speak on why “many “ black women are “hyper sexual” or single mothers. I’ve probably met more black women who’ve been adultified and molested as children than those who haven’t .. And I can also say out of those who were molested and adultified most were called “fast” or even slut shamed . If he cares so much why not look at the bigger picture. Sexual abuse and assault is something most people will never get over without healing process and professional help. Samuels literally only focus on how women are convient to men and if yoy don’t fit his “standards “ are trash . It pisses me off someone so closed minded and hypocritical… How can you turn around saying how “sluttish” but say “high value men” do cheat and how yoy should just accept it … Kevin has motivated me so much to make my own money( I never would use anyone for money in the first place) and teach my future daughters to never depend on a man for money … He confuses “high value “ with “high paying “ . Then have the men and pick mes wrapped around his fingers because he makes those men feel as if having money is a personality trait and he makes those pick mes feel as if being a doormat is a way to keep a good man . Before I end my Ted Talk , why are they even listening to a divorced twice guy who argues with women … Isn’t that the opposite of what “Alpha “ men do