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[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie362 points363 points364 points 6 years ago (32 children) | Copy Link
Don’t send nudes. I’ve been posted and embarrassed for the world to see. I’ve read horrible comments about myself that people left. I’ve been called a slut. What’s sad is people keep saving the same nudes that keep getting posted. And then they’ll repost it and ask who has more. Or ask “who’s hit that” .. it’s so humiliating.
Trust no one.
[–]hamsters-FDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Hey, same thing here. Got posted on a website called leaked sluts with pictures from when I was FIFTEEN. Horrible comments, people sending them to me, my family, awful awful. I'm so sorry <3
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m so sorry you had this happen to you too! That’s disgusting. Especially since you were underage in the photos, they could have gotten in serious trouble. The sites I keep getting re posted on are truly repulsive. There’s threads from different states/towns and the guys are basically trading nudes of different girls.
[–]EverlastingAgonyFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s child pornography, illegal, and fucked up, I’m sorry, you should call the FBI, CIA, somebody, because that is not ok!
[–]hamsters-FDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've contacted NCMEC multiple times and they couldn't take it down because it's hosted in Latvia :/
[–]EverlastingAgonyFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is he still around much, because if so you can go to r/RBI. They’ll help
[–]rubymoodFDS Disciple74 points75 points76 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
i’m so sorry that this happened to you. you didn’t deserve that.
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Thank you so much. It’s really stressful. I’m constantly on edge. If I meet someone new, all I think is they’re gonna see that and think differently of me. I’m afraid to apply to jobs. I’ve cried reading the mean comments and the way people have talked about me. Nobody deserves stuff like that.
[–]halyc0nAKFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m sorry you have to live through this :(
[–]greatmanatee2FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't take this the wrong way, but are you currently seeing a therapist? While your fear is very understandable, I think it wouldn't hurt to get some help working through the troubling emotions. Especially when you say you're afraid to apply to jobs.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You are within your right to sue
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I wish I could! I have no proof of who did it and the cops told me it was my fault for taking pictures like that. Completely ridiculous.
[–]babysoymilkFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's nauseating that this is the misogynistic world we live in.
[–]rosapalmeraFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What country do you live in? I was in a similar situation and I got then taken down.
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m in the US. All I’ve gotten told is they will maybe get taken down “eventually”
[–]MidnightMumbaFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I assume you’re an adult, so the people calling you those names are childish fucking idiots. No one should’ve posted your nudes, but please don’t feel ashamed. You did nothing wrong.
A word to other women; if you’re going to send nudes, make sure your face isn’t in it.
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m 31 years old, and this kind of bs still happens! Isn’t that ridiculous?! But thank you though, because I have felt so incredibly ashamed.
[–]MidnightMumbaFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It IS. I do not understand why women are being policed so bad about things most everyone has seen. Even more so when they didn’t intend for it to happen. YOU are the victim, not the villain. Remember that. If anyone I knew ever had that happen to them I’d find the person who did it and have them beaten.
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I know who did it, but I can’t do anything about it, that’s what kills me. And my recent ex boyfriend got sent the link to it, and completely made me feel terrible. He said he knew there was “red flags” with me and he knew I was too good to be true, and how it’s embarrassing the world can see his girlfriend naked. I felt so low. I’ve cried a lot over this whole situation.
[–]MidnightMumbaFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh he needs to shut the fuck up. I bet he’s looked at plenty of women naked who were someone’s girlfriends, mothers, daughters, etc. I don’t like him already and I don’t know either of you. I understand why you’re crying, but you should not feel bad at all. These losers love finding ways to manipulate and control women. Do you not know anyone who can pay the leaker a visit?
[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That relationship didn’t last long because of things like that. He really asked me “why I would take pics like that and send them” which is where I started to feel ashamed. Not to mention the person who posted the pics also leaves comments to make it look like multiple guys have gotten with me when they haven’t. It’s so disgusting. I wish someone had my back to the point they’d pay them a visit. Sigh.
[–]MidnightMumbaFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m glad that you’re done with him. <3
[–]DiligentDaughter2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tattoos. Distinguishing marks, of which some have many that are visible with clothing on, etc.
People are shits. I can't wait until the world gets to a point where more people than not have a nudes out so it's just the norm. It shouldn't an issue.
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[–]pinkliquorFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s sad it was someone I really trusted who I thought was really close to me. It sickens me. I could never even imagine embarrassing someone like this even if I was mad at them or something. People can really be awful at times :( He still tries to act like everything is fine, and completely denied doing it even though it would not be anybody else. Truly sick.
[–]kimkardashian101FDS Newbie72 points73 points74 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don’t ever send nudes, I repeat.
DON’T EVER SEND NUDES.
[–]throwaway379748232 points33 points34 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never
No man is trustworthy with them and the ones that seem the nicest are usually the ones that will use the threat of leaking your nudes to blackmail you into sex (personal experience)
Guy lost his $25,000 scholarship and basically ruined his life but he deserved it.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple203 points204 points205 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Relatable, but for real, you queens should stop sending nudes. If they want to see a nude they can just google it, they get turned on by the stuff they make you do. sending nudes is a big risk and could easily ruin your life and career, doesn't matter for how long you've been dating it could always turn around, and what if someone steals/hacks his phone? you can never be fully protected from it unless you just don't send them.
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[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very true, but until that we have no other choice but to not share pictures.
[–]kiksuya_FDS Newbie71 points72 points73 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My stupid ass lmao
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH86 points87 points88 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They are NOT entitled to photos of your body. This could end up causing you so much anxiety. It’s a form of self-violation to do this. Men are already so entitled to watch porn and gawk at women online and IRL. Don’t add to his collection. There is no reason to send him nude pics. Women need to stop with the attention-seeking. You are not helping our cause. You don’t need men ooohing and ahhing over your body parts. You’re giving them power when you submit yourself this way. Take it back. Block men who ask you for pics - they are not quality men.
[–]butterflymeadowzzFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
110% Say it louder, sis
[–]Harriett-FDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never send nudes. Period.
Men are evil, they will use it for to ruin your life.
Yeah it’s fun making men beg like pathetic dogs for nudes, but never actually send them.
[–]letsberealforamomentFDS Disciple46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Without qualification, send nude pics of yourself is a bad idea. Don't do it. Have some respect for yourselves, and your privacy ffs!
[–]missyou2017FDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If your bf is asking you to send nudes it's already a red flag
[–]FiveFruitADay4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel attacked
[–]merlinsmoonFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m almost 30 and have never sent a nude. I lowkey brag about it sometimes. I’ve sent a couple lingerie pics (no face) but that’s it. Not even to my boyfriend of 4 years. I’ve just always thought, they don’t deserve them. And no, I don’t care if that’s me ~putting myself on a pedestal. It’s worked for me! And I’ve never had issues with finding a boyfriend.
[–]abicus4343FDS STRATEGY COACH4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂🤮😂🤮😂🤮😂
[–]Monetacasadeluna3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I never include my face 🤷🏽♀️ I kinda get off on the risk but of it but I try to keep it as identity concealing as possible.
[–]MidnightMumbaFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it’s not reasonable to expect all women to never send nudes. They will do it anyway. That’s why I also said to never show your face.
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