I volunteer on a parks and rec team, some of us are just volunteering, most of the men are mandated by the courts to be here and living in transitional housing. Many of us, myself included, are in early recovery from drugs and/or alcohol. Anyway so today these men are talking dating sites and “b-tches” and I’m like hey let’s not call women b-tches, to which they apologized. I was like why are you guys dating, we don’t have a lot to offer right now, most of us aren’t even working (note I included myself, I just got out of rehab. I’m waiting to date until I have my life back on track.) To which I got ganged up on for being only interested in money. I said no, I’m not working either! We need to build our assets before we have anything to offer another person. The same guy who just called all women btches said that “says a lot more about you than me, I’ve got personality to offer.” Most average men are entitled pigs. Shocker, I know. I love that when I expressed having standards everyone got pissed 🙅‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ update: one of the men just called me entitled. Standards are entitled, of course.