“Bob-the Builder” Never Wins 🚧 🔨 👷‍♀️

persephones_torch · 2020-02-03T04:32:31+00:00

100%. Why my LVM ex husband immediately knew what to say and what to do to get another replacement easily, and I'm taking months (maybe years who knows) of healing before I get back into trying to meet men again.

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-02-03T03:03:20+00:00

I feel this 😪

HoneyNJ2000 · 2020-02-03T11:16:06+00:00

Meh. Do these scrotes REALLY learn anything and improve? I'm thinking the answer is no.

Some of the damaged losers I dated years ago are STILL single and can't get their shit together.

topumasum · 2020-02-03T10:38:21+00:00

I wonder if we can learn how they end up becoming better for the next woman. I mean is it their lack of awareness of their own shittiness that makes them better for the next woman, or he just gets a more submissive woman? I feel I am objectively better for the next man with good job and financial status. But mentally I only feel worse because i am aware of my own lacking. Men usually dont have these inner awareness which makes them shine fake glitter and attract vulnerable women.

Firefly10886 · 2020-02-03T06:21:50+00:00

Holy fucking shit. I tell every guy I date that I don’t want to help them out too much, because I don’t need to be indirectly helping their future ex-girlfriends.

BionicWoahMan · 2020-02-03T05:39:22+00:00

I'm laugh crying at this. I was joking with my internal monologue that I should probably put on an OLD profile, "Strengths: I'm really great at being the woman you meet before you're with the one you're gonna marry. "

laeriel_c · 2020-02-03T13:20:26+00:00

Ugh hits close to home. Took me months before I was ready to date again, meanwhile he's doing all the things right for his new woman that he did wrong with me. Sickening!

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-03T04:52:44+00:00

Most men are vampiric 🧛‍♂️

modernmedusaa · 2020-02-03T09:17:50+00:00

Parasites

behappyaimhigh · 2020-02-03T04:32:26+00:00

This is so awfully true

ivy176 · 2020-02-03T08:18:05+00:00

Very true. My NVM ex husband hit me, verbally abused me and expected me to financially support him indefinitely. After I kicked him out, he knocked up sone woman and started working. Years later, they're still together and he's still working. I'm left with PTSD and lots of health issues and injuries.

2020-02-03T18:08:18+00:00

It's just partially true. Women learn from their mistakes and there comes an age where they've learned enough to ignore guys like that. Men don't grow, on the other hand. They'll be miserable but their lack of reflection will prevent them from changing that. They'll die ugly and alone. Probably suffering both mentally and physically, because they can't take care after themselves.

aTrueJuliette · 2020-02-03T04:06:52+00:00

Oofff

shiwanginaithani · 2020-02-03T08:42:11+00:00

I felt this

CrownWaster · 2020-02-03T16:13:34+00:00

THIS. My LV ex basically noped out of our relationship and was too cowardly to tell me so (but was okay with me planning an elaborate birthday for him to see his friends), and immediately knocked up another girl. He told me at the end that I wasn’t a great partner. This among a lot of other things has given me great pause to try again. Meanwhile, he’s stuck with another relationship and a kid, and still trying to contact me.

itsinthewriting · 2020-02-03T12:01:58+00:00

This hit me hard !

littlecuterose · 2020-02-04T14:57:22+00:00

Not accurate. He’s just going to fuck up the next relationship he enters.

mad-liv · 2020-02-06T18:12:59+00:00

Men may damage women, but they don’t damage them “for the next man”. If a woman is “too damaged” for a man, he’s not the right man.

CandyCaneQueenz · 2020-04-28T16:08:34+00:00

Been a victim of this

Title	“Bob-the Builder” Never Wins 🚧 🔨 👷‍♀️
Author	CuriousCatNYC777
Upvotes	1261
Comments	33
Date	February 3, 2020 1:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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