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Cat Lady is not an insult

CelebrationKey

January 28, 2021
259 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title Cat Lady is not an insult
Author

CelebrationKey

Upvotes 259
Comments 23
Date January 28, 2021 6:07 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/l745gp/cat_lady_is_not_an_insult/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/cat-lady-is-not-an-insult.742877
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[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cats clean themselves daily and wipe their own butts. Cats 1 Men 0

[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I even joke about the crazy cat lady trope and take the Mick out of myself a bit for being a cat lady, because I'm not bothered or offended by it. I ask my neighbor if she's seen my husband, she knows I'm referring to my 🐈

[–]Altowhovian93FDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s amazing XD

[–]CNhumanFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

A co-worker said I was a spinster like it was an insult, but just because he's sad he's single doesn't mean I am. 😘

[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men are so ridiculous. They have no lives or hope or light without a woman and yet they treat women like crap. Should have been nicer and you might have a wife!

[–]CNhumanFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep! He wants to have children, and emotionally dumped on me about how poorly he treated the woman he wanted to marry, and how sad he was when she got married to someone else. I just said, if you care so much about this woman, aren't you glad that she's happy, and found someone who treats her well?

[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol great response.

A man should always treat a woman like a prize because she is

[–]-pop-fizz-clinkFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He's an idiot. Here's why:

Spinster is a neg on women who did valuable and often VERY expensive sewing, needle point/embroidery, lace making et cetera before the industrial revolution. Women could be unmarried and make a good income. Our contributions to the textile industry were enormous.

Then industry came along and men went to work in factories, women started being shunned from working and were only allowed to pop out babies and clean, while machines tried to replicate the work we did with our hands.

Now that we are allowed to work, it's : if you want the right to work full time and not starve then you better still do all the other stuff to and DO IT ALL. It almost feels as though the supermom/woman trope was created by men to exhaust us to the point of illness or death, to get back at us for wanting and attaining financial independence (while simultaneously not being providers for us or sharing a labour load for the home he lives in, too?). Just a thought.

[–]CNhumanFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, I was like, of course I'm a spinster, I'm a financially stable independent woman by my own skills.

It's a good thought!

[–]-pop-fizz-clinkFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Totally, sis. And thank you!

[–]Davina33FDS Disciple53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love cats, it can never be an insult to me. They keep themselves clean and give daily cuddles.

[–]Altowhovian93FDS Newbie41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I love my cat, he’s the best! He was a birthday present from my husband who was anti cat until pandemic exacerbated my depression. So he surprised me by saying hey we are looking at cats I’ve already researched food, costs, local vets, let’s goooo!

[–]honeybeerollFDS Disciple16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Aw that was super sweet of your husband!

[–]Altowhovian93FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He has also grown to love the cat and our cat loves him!

[–]honeybeerollFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I was against the pet but now I would die for the pet" stories are the most heartwarming 😭

[–]randomgirlimokFDS Apprentice42 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Cats don’t spend all your savings on stupid car parts

[–]PornruinedsocietyFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or onlyfans

[–]LevelTurbulentFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My boyfriend is not a cat person but he got me the most adorable kitten and calls him his little furry son. He’s definitely a keeper. We’ll see how the boyfriend works out.

[–]warinmymind94FDS Apprentice16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why is crazy cat lady a thing and we don't have deranged dog dude? There's been so many over the top dog obsessed guys on OLD that have tons of pics of their dog, ask you on a walk the dog "date" and act like the dog is their most prized trophy- i do enjoy pets but some of the guys are seriously obsessed!

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The simplicity and effectiveness of the fruits and vegetables roast is just lovely.

[–]BabyBlankieieieieieFDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Side note: “seashellronan” had me laughing WAY too hard

[–]ReignOnYou950 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ive never known a guy that uses tumblr wtf..

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