Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?

CoolMelonade · 2020-02-10T01:11:41+00:00

It’s the 1000 fap stare that Coomers get. It’s all the excessive porn use.

Parking-Act · 2020-02-10T01:52:53+00:00

Yes, this is true. The other day I was in the laundromat and I walked passed a guy and I felt him looking at me. He was staring so hard because he wanted me to look at him. I walked right by him and put my clothes in the dryer. When I came back he was conveniently standing very near my dryer machine so I walked by him again purposefully letting my laundry bag hit him so he had to practically jump out of my way and then I swung the machine door open so hard that it almost hit him too and he backed off super quick almost seemed frightened. As I left I looked at him so that I could id him if I ever saw him around again and he looked at me and quickly looked back at his phone.

I dont know what kind of let me stare at you and lure you in shit he was on. He was some pretty boy obvious fuck boy. Some woman with low self esteem would probably be delighted that this man was staring at them and they would probably smile, smirk and flirt with his creep stares cuz he's "so hawt/cute like omgzzz and he's looking at me? Omgzzz"

Fucking dusty ass fuckboy.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-02-10T02:39:13+00:00

YES! It’s getting creepier and creepier.

It’s like their pornsick brains try to undress you with their eyes. 👀

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-02-10T02:24:00+00:00

Totally.

Going on OLD site many of the men look so predatory in their main photo even. No smile, just this stare. Hard pass.

ReignRain95 · 2020-02-10T00:29:23+00:00

yeah.

quaintlyspoken · 2020-02-10T01:39:02+00:00

Yep. Went out today and basically every guy was staring and looking after me. It's f*cking gross. There's nothing for them to even look at anyways but it doesn't stop them.

FuturePigeon · 2020-02-10T13:04:38+00:00

My test is always the "boob eye flicker". If I catch them doing the eye flicker, they are immediately relegated to the "necessary conversation only" category. If they can't figure out a way to look without being caught, they are not smart enough to hold a conversation with.

Recently though, I did make a huge error. Building maintenance guy at work would always go out of his way to shake my hand and make small talk, but he would never make eye contact - just staring straight into my chest. I'm 5'8 in flats and he's just over 5 foot. I let it go because his conversation never veered into anything more than the weather or work. Last week, his male boss came to ask him a question and the boob stare guy gave all of his answers while staring at his boss's chest. Oh. Ohhhhh. Not sure if he's on the spectrum but it's possible looking back at our interactions.

darkhorse8419 · 2020-02-10T11:46:24+00:00

Yes, it’s the same way they look at a nice steak, or an expensive sports car. We’re objects to them.

ivy176 · 2020-02-10T10:20:27+00:00

Personally, men don't stare at me. They glance and may look a second time but I kind of stare them down unconsciously. I also dress way down and I need to lose 30 lbs. There's nothing like weight gain to become invisible in my experience.

ghygdryhchmmmmjj · 2020-02-10T04:42:35+00:00

No. Not at all. But maybe I'm thinking of two different things here. I've know one that did... and wow that'a a whole thing. In my experience Not most. I've dealt with really crappy guys who had nothing of the sort. A predatory state is usually a sign of a person with a personality disorder. If you feel you're surrounded by that, it is not good. I've had guys check me out in non psychotic plain old gross ways And look away real fast embarrassed. One man ever gave me the hard state down and he turned out to be a sociopath.

pinkmacaroons · 2020-02-10T09:41:07+00:00

balladwilds · 2020-02-10T13:08:00+00:00

YES i actually just experienced that this morning and its just grosses me out and scares me. They're truly trash

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Title	Does anyone else feel like most men have a predatory stare?
Author	Throoooowawayyyyy55
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Comments	27
Date	February 10, 2020 12:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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