I had been dating this guy since the beginning of October. Please see my post history. The definitive red flags and LVM behavior popped up AFTER we became exclusive and committed (which he initiated!) Low effort, i had to be to he one to arrange to see each other, and blah blah. We live an hour apart. In hindsight, I should have bailed during the road rage incident. LOL.
I broke up with him shortly after the new year via text. I did not block because i foolishly thought he would not text me back. He did (these guys have no shame) and i let him worm his way back in. Not this time. I sent him this email and blocked him on my phone.
Here it is:
>> Last night made me think on things. I deserve a man that wants to spend time with me and is pro active in doing so. In the last 5 weeks, we have seen each other once for an evening. And it was me that initiated that. It's the same problem that caused me to break it off a few weeks ago, and since then, nothing has changed. You either have too much on your plate to have time for me, or I'm not important enough to you. Either way, I lose. Spending time together should come naturally, but it doesn't for us. It's quite bizarre.
It's over. This relstionship is going nowhere and I will never be happy with what you have to offer me which is phone calls and texts. I want to spend weekends with man, go places, sleep in his bed, have sex regularly, and be able to see each other like normal couples and even introduce each other to friends and family.
None of the above is possible with you. It Doesn't matter why at this point.
Good bye.<<
His 'response':
>> Please do not e mail my work e mail my boss has access to this. <<
LOLOLOLOL....his response assumes that I will even contact him again. Such a entitled fuckwit.
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