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[–]REDfanradfemFDS Newbie108 points109 points110 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How inappropriate!
[–]DiamondsareagirlsbffFDS Apprentice288 points289 points290 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never mind what the actual message is... PRETTY GIRL MAKE PEEPEE HAPPY DUR
I am so disgusted.
[–]BovvsetteFDS Disciple180 points181 points182 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
LVMs have no regard for what women are saying, what kind of messages and ideas are being put out, they only want to gawk at the women and grab them like meat in the market. They are like animals in never-ending heat.
[–]LeanOnMeMorganFDS Apprentice[S] 78 points79 points80 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your eyes are beautiful
[–]VastSomewhere4FDS Newbie74 points75 points76 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
They are animals, they're just more creative. Have you noticed their fascination with objects and mechanical parts.There was a study on babies where girls would rather look at faces (and understand them better) than objects, the opposite was true with boys. This extends to all things in life where males carry out social interactions in a robotic manner, they don't empathize with people they just respond to them and carry them through as if they're solving a puzzle. This is most likely why males can't see women as human.
[–]scarlettbutlerO14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is so spot on.
[–]LeanOnMeMorganFDS Apprentice[S] 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But fr you are right on the money. Don't waste your breath, he ain't home sis
[–]FodderFigureIllushunFDS Newbie76 points77 points78 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He goes into the "do not mate with" pile.
[–]whathisbastardidFDS Newbie138 points139 points140 points 6 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Porn has deteriorated their brains so much. They aren’t good with words, reading or speaking. They just look at pictures and form very basic sentences.
It’s called hypofrontality. Hours of porn use is correlated with reduced gray matter in the prefrontal cortex. For references check pinned post on r/PornFreeRelationships
[–]MeredeenFDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Honestly I think there is something to this. When I worked in my college's cafeteria, I served food. Here's how some of those interactions went between me and braindeads:
Me: Hi!--
BD: Meatloaf. points
No smile, nothing. Like for fucks sake at least acknowledge I'm a person? I've NEVER had this happen with a girl. And these guys weren't all unattractive either, just so socially inept that they talked to me like I was a voice activated vending machine or something. I wasn't offended, it was just... weird.
[–]DunRutherFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reminds me of working in a grocery store in high school, 15 years ago. We had a grocery rewards program and if you didn’t have the card, we could look up your account by your phone number. A lot of interactions with males went like this:
Me: “Hi, how are you doing today?”
Scrote: “555-867-5309!!” (yells phone number for rewards program, ignoring me and my question)
It’s been 13 years or so since I worked retail but now I work in an environment where I see a lot of very young military men, and I think my 12 year old daughter is more mature then most of them, and has way better people skills. I don’t know why empathy is so hard for LVMs.
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
thats honestly scary. but also i think men look down on customer service people.
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
I was surprised at how few hours of porn per week were needed to see significant reduced frontal lobe activity.
My ex was a porn addict and he probably got an hour a day, more than double the weekly porn exposure that basically crippled a mans ability to reason.
By the end of the relationship, he was nothing but a violent temper. He functioned as a dangerous, 200lb toddler with less emotional awareness than his own 3 year old.
It was remarkable watching him for twelve years just devolve. He’d always been a violent porn addict, but a decade of selfish and obsessive, possessive behaviors, of financial irresponsibility, of delusions of grandeur, of narcissism had turned him into an unpredictable, wild animal.
The children were afraid of him, he made everyone uneasy. He would launch into a rage at no provocation, his response to conversation was a nasally sort of grunt. His face was crooked and ugly way beyond his years, and he was utterly disconnected from reality. He would deny doing things we all watched him do, he would accuse others of outlandish things.
He was a physically strong, dangerous dementia patient.
He once assaulted me and then called the police on me for being abusive. He was arrested for domestic violence. He never understood that him hitting me, bruising me, was his responsibility.
He has always been deeply, profoundly fucked up, by it twelve years of daily, constant porn use turned him into some otherworldly monster.
I found pictures in his camera roll that he took of me while I was sleeping or showering that I didn’t know about let alone consent to.
After I kicked him out he was sneaking in to my house to take these pictures.
I moved far away and got a restraining order on him, but knowing he is out there is like living with a real life boogeyman.
My comfort is that he’s too lazy, poor, and intellectually deficient to be able to stalk and assault me so far away.
[–]whathisbastardidFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Will you please do something for me? Will you please copy paste this whole comment exactly as it is and post it on r/PornFreeRelationships
It’s our sister sub, run by multiple fdsers
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I used to go there. I was one of the first subscribers, and 99% of posts are women in denial, pick mes just venting, and people encouraging women to believe the man who hurts them can or will change.
I unsubbed fast as fast.
[–]whathisbastardidFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You may be remembering a different sub - we all left that one and formed this - just because women are experiencing trauma doesn’t mean they are pick me. And no one encourages them to stay literally no one
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, I was in the old pornfree sub, too. I was literally like in the first 50 subscribers to porn free relationships.
[–]whathisbastardidFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When was this
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
SIS. The finding offguard pictures thing on the camera roll! This is such a big red flag for boundary violations for me
I feel like this has been rising with pornsickness too. I've had quite a few guys try to take offguard pictures of me whether clothed or not behind my back, probably to boast about their latest ass to their LVM friends. I had an ex that kept an offguard pic of me in a towel YEARS after we broke up. And I remember telling him to delete it at the time when I realised what he was up to bc I wasn't comfortable with him doing that as he caught me by surprise, and clearly he didn't cos he showed it me YEARS later thinking i'd laugh and be impressed. What a creep - we broke up years ago & he's still clinging onto it like a loser. It's a boasting thing for immature men, like 'look at this dead bird what I caught' but its seriously voyeuristic.........like porn.
I feel like I've seen this behaviour creep up with undercover LVM in the last few years- men I've only started dating feeling they have a right to take a picture of my ass clothed when my backs turned. Who knows who they're sending it to and who's camera roll it ends up in. Sometimes I think its a control and dominance thing. I have eyes in the back of my head so I know when they're doing it trying to be sneaky. You seriously might as well be a cam girl to them. They start projecting their voyeuristic pornsickness onto you.
[–]lifeyjaneFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
“You might as well be a cam girl to them. They start projecting their voyeuristic pornsickness onto you.”
Ugh! Yes. Is this how we get “She was asking for it” and “she (a minor) tempted me”??
Reminds me of the case on r/nametheproblem this week: a doctor says a semi-unconscious patient groped him sexually, so he then snuck away later to rape her, and his defense lawyer said “She was this little Latina with fake boobs, and he was just a middle-aged nerd. He just lost his mind!”— as if to say, of COURSE he had to have sex with someone who was incapacitated and couldn’t consent! She had FAKE BOOBS! She was petite. She was a LATINA! Of COURSE he had to. He had to! Professionalism be damned. Marriage be damned! THERE WERE BOOBS UNDER THAT HOSPITAL BLANKET! HE HAD TO!
Firstly, no one on the planet believes this lady groped him, because consider the source: a person whose judgment is so warped that he’d have sex on the job with a patient who was semi-conscious and could not consent.
Second of all, even if he was sexually assaulted by her in the first place, how does that make you return and rape someone?? Does the court know how many times a female nurse or doctor is groped by a patient, and she doesn’t ever end up sneaking back around to rape that patient??
SMH. But boobs. She had BOOBS, guys. Don’t have boobs and fall asleep on your meds unless you want be raped. /s
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the REAL REASON!
[–]cherry-sweetFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This explains a lot.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This makes sense. I always hear women complaining of men being boring on dates too. I can always tell when a man has porn brain. Limited conversation skills- topics they talk about are always dull and robotic. Just can't seem to scratch past surface level convo's.
[–]SslimReaperrFDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I really don’t get how some men always cry “women only care about looks!!” when 99% of men are just like this guy
[–]PipulkaPickmeisha™️40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because we're supposed to be attracted to their balding, short ass, duh.
[–]DelicateDreamFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Projection
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They have NO CLUE what any woman’s dating profile says either.
They’re PORN-SICK!
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice173 points174 points175 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This is just typical male behavior. They don't see women as humans. I hope she was found.
[–]VelvetKnuckledusterFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I looked at the Twitter account and she has been found safe.
[–]TheObservationalistFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lets be real. Her raped corpse is in a dumpster because of some other horny degenerate.
[–]naenita_FDS Newbie49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too dark but too real :(
[–]Seasmoke_LVFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most men never listen to what women say. They are just going to hear (if at all) and once you've finished they answer whatever they assume you've said.
This is pathetic. It's supposed to be flattering, he's calling her beautiful which is the best thing a woman can hope to hear, of course. Why the outrage, then?
They don't listen. They never do.
I hope she's saved.
[–]hoIds_up_sporkFDS Disciple35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Woman is missing, possibly dead or in trouble. Man only cares that she makes his pp hard. And then they expect us to care about their "issues"
[–]LeanOnMeMorganFDS Apprentice[S] 37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Update: she's safe!
[–]lifeyjaneFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank God. That’s great news.
[–]scarletbegonia79FDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hate that I am not even really shocked by this... I can’t figure out, is it laziness? Ignorance? I see it but at the same time I feel like I am missing something! I realize there are different levels of LVM some, ok most, are somewhere on the scale... but I just can’t believe that “getting off” is the only driving force here! Thoughts?
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s sickening! This kind of behavior is rampant online, I see it almost every day. I follow the posts of an internet celebrity, and all her comments sections are like this. Her posts are 50% esoteric philosophy and 50% advertising her line of beauty products and workshops, and she often has really interesting things to say, but each post is accompanied by a picture of her and 99.9% of the comments are just LVMs telling her she’s beautiful. Maybe one or two people comment having actually read what she wrote, and those are usually women.
So much worse to see it on a post about someone who’s missing. He doesn’t even realize it’s not the same woman in the profile picture!
[–]PipulkaPickmeisha™️12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Animals
[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does anyone know if she's safe now?
[–]lifeyjaneFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Now show me your bob and vagine!”
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