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[–][deleted] 134 points135 points136 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
And this is why we need a Am I With An Asshole sub.
[–]IthinkItsLipGlossFDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If we do end up with a new am I with an asshole sub, all FDS members should all keep an eye on comments and always report comments from men and pickmeisha’s. I’m a mod on a different subreddit and when someone reports comments they go to a mod queue where mods can easily review them, otherwise it would be impossible for mods to always see what comments need to be deleted.
[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the input. I'm reporting (a lot!) Of problematic content, but didn't know exactly what it does on the other side. I wished more feminist subs had a policy like FDS where no comments from men are allowed. It's so nice to be on our own.
[–]IthinkItsLipGlossFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking about making a post on FDS today asking everyone if they wanted a new subreddit for am I with an asshole, plus get members to nominate people they want as moderators. Though I don’t want to step on the FDS moderators toes, especially since I only have the FDS newbie flair.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's a great book called Maybe he's just an asshole written by the same guy who wrote He's just not that into you and It's called a breakup because it's broken
[–]juliannawackenhatFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The sub doesn’t even load for me anymore. I’m sorry I screwed it up!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Huh, why? Were you the mod?
[–]juliannawackenhatFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I created the sub, but then realized I had no idea what I was doing and didn’t have the time in that few days span to read up on it. So I removed myself as a mod, thinking the whole sub would go away and a more experienced Redditor would re-create it. I handled it all wrong. Messaged the admins but haven’t gotten very far.
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ooooh, I see. Well, I think most of us are not experienced when it comes to creating and moderating subs. Since demand is high the next sub will have more mods for sure! Thank you for making the first step, sis :)
[–]thelwnaarxizwFDS Apprentice65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she smells, I'm willing to bet money that it's because he has hygiene issues down there. Dudes who don't keep their dicks clean can ruin any vagina. Dump that man, girl.
[+][deleted] 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
How manipulative. And I tried summers eve in my pickme days. It made things incredibly uncomfortable down there for me and I used it as directed! Edit: AND I used the unscented one!
[–]NinauposkitzipxpePickmeisha™️7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to know. I've thought about using it when feeling insecure but I just don't feel like it's needed.
[–]ghygdryhchmmmmjjFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow. He told his friends, hes pushing berating and making get feel bad for not wanting to use special soap, he wont touch her. She feels BAD because she asked him now he knows his friends Vs smell good which is a perfectly VALID question. She's taking this emotional beating for no reason, behing humiliated, he sounds TERRIBLE. I highly doubt he's sweet and affectionate in other ways. She needs to LEAVE.
[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie109 points110 points111 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’d bet real money she doesn’t even smell bad. A clean, healthy vagina/labia will have a normal odour - some stronger than others but still. Just like clean and healthy dick/balls can have an odour.
Women have been so constantly picked at about this that even when defending themselves they’ll say they smell bad down there. I don’t see men getting berated or developing anxiety over their smell down there.
[–]jetpatchAt-Risk Pick Me Youth84 points85 points86 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People need to pay attention to if they aren't chemically compatible. If you don't like each other's smell that's a pretty basic red flag you missed at the beginning and you will never be able to get over it. You can't change your DNA. Most likely she has the same problem with him but ignored it for the sake of being nice and non judgemental but no man is going to ignore it to be nice.
[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For real. I always feel like I write it in a weird/non poetic way but if you’re attracted to someone you should love how they smell - and not just the genitals. Everyone’s whole body has its own signature smell and I want to love my partner in that sense too - and be loved in that sense. Like waking up on a warm morning and the bed smells like you both, or you kiss the top of their head and you linger to enjoy the smell of their skin and hair. Or the old cliche of loving how their t shirt/hoodie smells. Some of the people I’ve been most attracted to smelled amazing to me right after a workout, even! A friend once called it “the good stink” and that’s just it, although in even less romantic terms lol.
I would agree with you that she probably doesn’t like him in that way but put up with it (esp considering how women are conditioned to not expect good hygiene from men and pickmes constantly enable it in adulthood). I’m not wearing perfume to bed or washing with perfumed soap etc to please someone who isn’t unconsciously attracted to me. And the reality is that if I don’t like a partner’s smell when they’re clean and healthy, it’s a sign of incompatibility and it’ll still be there when the honeymoon phase wears off. Like you said, you won’t be able to get past it.
[–]2340000Ruthless Strategist19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha yes..this is so true for me because I'm a sniffer!
And just the fact that we have Summer's Eve is problem enough. Men have a smell too, let's not be daft. Women have been taught to have so much anxiety about their bodies..
If you have sex with someone, the condom or the semen is going to throw off your pH balance. I use a great product called pHd boric acid feminine suppositories. I bought them off Amazon because of the thousands of positive reviews. It really does work. but guys be having sex with girls not realizing that their fucking dicks are throwing off the ph balance. I automatically dump a guy if he treats my vagina as some kind of science freak show. It also shows me how fucking amateur he is
[–]m4dam3xFDS Disciple47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn that girl is dense as hell though. She’s arguing with anyone telling her to dump him. Pickme supreme.
Edit: her post history is PURE CRINGE
[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Her whole pride is vested in being a “fix it” person instead of a “end it” person. If I stupidly pour sand into my cake mix, there’s no fixing it no matter how much sugar or egg or flour I add. It’s a fucking nasty sandy gritty cake. I throw the mix away away and start again while making better choices.
She needs to learn that you’re not inherently better at relationships because you “tough it out” and try to “fix” something broken beyond repair.
[–]juliannawackenhatFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this analogy. Like I’ve heard said on this sub plenty, we need to stop romanticizing struggle relationships. Sometimes quitting is for winners.
[–]JOEYMAMI2015FDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Anyone notices the amount of smelly vagina memes there are out there but NOT ONE sweaty balls ones? Ugh if this keeps going, the entire human race will be in danger of extinction all because of these beta males and man-children afraid of an actual human vagina! You mean vaginas are actually *GASPS* SUPPOSED to have hair and meat curtains and don't squirt on command?!? Oh the humanity!
[–]lillycrackFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their ball sweat is a source of pride and comedy. Endless jokes about how their sweaty balls stick to their leg or how they get swampy down there, but a perfectly clean and healthy pussy is gRoSs
[–]99powerFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The way they talk about vaginas they don’t even sound heterosexual.
[–]mercybenelliFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my God. Vaginas aren’t supposed to smell like flowers or tropical fruit or whatever the fuck. Vaginas 👏🏻are 👏🏻supposed👏🏻to👏🏻smell👏🏻like👏🏻vaginas.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If its not BV she probably doesn't even smell bad! We have a natural smell and most men actually like it! LOL
And all those lady products are bad for our lady part, I dont even know how its sold. Same with douching, dont do it unless your Dr tells you to for a reason. I had to years back with a medicated one. Irritation from laundry soap/fabric softer, she suggested I used it for a couple days. I felt like I had a yeast infection and I didnt have one. Using it and rewashing my underwear/clothes in new detergent cleared it in a few days.
And it could be her diet, what we eat can make us smell different.
[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude even my gyno says the only thing you need to clean your genital area is drum roll...water lmfao or even non scented no dyes soap but water is best. Products are bad for your lady parts. Diet has a impact too but it sounds like the dude is trying to find an excuse not to go down on her.
[–]ny-ladyFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont know all that junk is still sold! LOL
I think its so weird so many guys today have issue with it. Any man Ive dated loved going down and made them hot when I got off/waited to finish until I got off.
[–]Elegant_Flight1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Agreed. My gyno recommends cleaning with an emollient cream because she states that plain ole soap is too harsh for one’s lady parts.
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't believe he was talking about something so private to other women. I would drop him immediately. and she apologized for some of the things she said. girl, that could not have been me. somebody get her
[–]Lostmymojo84At-Risk Pick Me Youth10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh god how cringy. ‘Hey guys remember (girlfriend)? You know, the one with the smelly fanny?’
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Men think vaginas are suppose to smell like flowers like how they think women are not suppose to have body hair (unless its a ton of long luscious thick shiny hair on their head). Its literally unnatural. She does not have an std/infection her vagina is clean and natural. Vaginas have a natural distinctive smell. Keep in mind vaginas also regularly clean themselves out because thats what they HAVE to do in order to keep the bad bacteria out because a vagina is literally an opening to inside of the body. It does not have a protective skin/shield. Thats what discharge is.
Logically I dont know how men expects us to smell like flowers. Vaginas are right next to the urethra and anus. How can you not have the smell of anus/sweat/ammonia/vaginal discharge? Its all natural! Someone who finds the natural scent of a vagina to be gross is someone who does not know about human anatomy.
Cauliflower, Parmesan, Eggs, Alfredo, Blue Cheese, Onion, Broccoli, Spinach, Garlic, Curry all smells like farts and feet and body odor but we see it to be tasty and nutritious and good because we know that it’s natural.
[+][deleted] 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
She should dump him and leave him this as a parting gift....
https://shop.goop.com/shop/products/this-smells-like-my-vagina-candle?country=USA
Edit: You all get that I’m making a joke, right??
[–]phantom_0007FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LMAO that's brilliant
[–]Elegant_Flight2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Thank you!
[–]espelhosdaguaFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
He's gay.
[+]REDfanradfemFDS Newbie-6 points-5 points-4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don’t use gay as an insult!!!
[–]espelhosdaguaFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't. It just seems he doesn't like women.
[–]espelhosdaguaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The mental image I made of this guy was because of a gay guy friend that once said "keep this pussy away from me, argh", with a disgust face XD
[–]90sCosmoEnergyFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm a woman who likes those flowery washes and to-go wipes, but it's not because of vagina shame, I'm just a high-maintenance princess who likes the idea that my special fancy vagina needs special fancy wash. I really can't wait to try out that Honey Pot brand that was in the news recently.
But if a dude told me I needed to use it he'd be ghosted and blocked so fast that it would make his fucking head spin.
[–]phantom_0007FDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uh do you all think we should @ her here or should we just drop it (I don't know really; I feel like any conversation on my end would be exhausting for me since it's already around 10:30 at night here, but if anyone else wants to try you can go ahead)?
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How manipulative. And I tried summers eve in my pickme days. It made things incredibly uncomfortable down there for me and I used it as directed! Edit: AND I used the unscented one!
[–]NinauposkitzipxpePickmeisha™️7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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She should dump him and leave him this as a parting gift....
https://shop.goop.com/shop/products/this-smells-like-my-vagina-candle?country=USA
Edit: You all get that I’m making a joke, right??
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